hasbeen;1223278 wrote:It's HOW they do their job.
Just because it's part of their job description doesn't mean they can't be exceptional at it.

Raw Dawgin' it;1223279 wrote:For example...?

hasbeen;1223288 wrote:For example...

a server who brings you a drink before you empty it.
a server who keeps you aware of why your food might be taking too long instead of hiding from you.
a server who is visually busy, but has the time to LISTEN to what you need rather than just running by.
a server who can simply multi-task exceptionally.
a server who is constantly in view of you so they are available to you.
a server who takes responsibility for mistakes rather than blaming the bartender or the cooks.

There's probably a ton of other little things that make them exceptional. If you honestly can't tell an exceptional server from the average joe servers then you must get shitty service.

Raw Dawgin' it;1223290 wrote:Seriously - what about this is not expected from every server when hired? Nothing about that is above and beyond their job description deserving a tip from me.

hasbeen;1223288 wrote:a server who takes responsibility for mistakes rather than blaming the bartender or the cooks.

FatHobbit;1223311 wrote:This is a pet peeve of mine. I don't even want them to take responsibility for it but don't give me a story about who screwed up. Shit happens. I don't care whose fault it is I ordered a hamburger with no mustard and it has mustard. I just want another hamburger that doesn't have mustard.

hasbeen;1223307 wrote:Jesus dude...the way the system is set up, the TIP pays for that portion of there job. That's the system.

And shit like that isn't expected. It's what restaurants want because that is what great service is. So no, those details are not in the job description.

hasbeen;1223307 wrote:Jesus dude...the way the system is set up, the TIP pays for that portion of there job. That's the system.

And shit like that isn't expected. It's what restaurants want because that is what great service is. So no, those details are not in the job description.

Glory Days;1223330 wrote:jesus dude....if the resturants want it, maybe they should pay the servers more!

Rotinaj;1223333 wrote:Or maybe you just don't go out to eat if you don't want to tip.

Rotinaj;1223188 wrote:Lol you're such a cheap ass.

SportsAndLady;1223210 wrote:It's not about being treated better..it's about not being a piece of shit lol if you don't tip a waiter at least a couple bucks, you're a bad, bad human being.

Rotinaj;1223333 wrote:Or maybe you just don't go out to eat if you don't want to tip.

Glory Days;1223330 wrote:jesus dude....if the resturants want it, maybe they should pay the servers more!

Raw Dawgin' it;1223332 wrote:Were you a server once? It seems like people who were servers always get bent out of shape over this stuff. Your job is to serve me food and refill my drinks.

Raw Dawgin' it;1223332 wrote:Were you a server once? It seems like people who were servers always get bent out of shape over this stuff. Your job is to serve me food and refill my drinks.

hasbeen;1223342 wrote: Yes I was and a damn good one.
It always seems that people who were never service people don't understand the process. Goes both ways.

And the job is more than serving food and refilling drinks. Again, you wouldn't understand if you've never worked the job.

Glory Days;1223082 wrote:clearly that is why 16 year olds do this job.

Glory Days;1223345 wrote:i am sure this is what ever server says regardless of whether they actually are a good server or not.

Glory Days;1223338 wrote:attitudes like this are the reasons there are even discussions on tipping. obviously you expect a tip instead of earning your tip.

hasbeen;1223342 wrote:The restaurants don't because the customer can pay more than the restaurant can. And the customer isn't required to do so.



Yes I was and a damn good one.
It always seems that people who were never service people don't understand the process. Goes both ways.

And the job is more than serving food and refilling drinks. Again, you wouldn't understand if you've never worked the job.

Raw Dawgin' it;1223355 wrote:Do you tip everyone who does a service for you that you don't do yourself? Mechanic, dry cleaner, hair dresser, barista, car wash guys, fast food employees etc etc etc - do you give all of them 15-20% of your pre tax bill?

Tell me why someone who serves me food deserves a tip over everyone else who provides me a service. Seriously, don't like not getting a tip, get a better job.

hasbeen;1223359 wrote:It's been explained before but i'll say it again:

The restaurant business set up their pay scale to allow the customer to decide the value of the service they received. This allows the CUSTOMER to decide if a server is better than minimum wage. If they aren't, the restaurant covers the minimum by law.

Other industries don't use this system.

hasbeen;1223359 wrote:It's been explained before but i'll say it again:

The restaurant business set up their pay scale to allow the customer to decide the value of the service they received. This allows the CUSTOMER to decide if a server is better than minimum wage. If they aren't, the restaurant covers the minimum by law.

Other industries don't use this system.

Rotinaj;1223362 wrote:I'm gonna +1 this just in case he asks the exact same question for the 9th time.

Raw Dawgin' it;1223360 wrote:do you or don't your tip other people who provide you services you don't do yourself?