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Would you be cool if your significant other did a background check

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gerb131

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May 31, 2012 6:16 PM
Or blood test on you?
May 31, 2012 6:16pm
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vball10set

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May 31, 2012 6:17 PM
yup
May 31, 2012 6:17pm
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Con_Alma

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May 31, 2012 6:17 PM
Sure. Investigate away.
May 31, 2012 6:17pm
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Pick6

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May 31, 2012 6:18 PM
yea..nothing to hide.
May 31, 2012 6:18pm
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May 31, 2012 6:19 PM
I would be ok with any kind of test she would run.
May 31, 2012 6:19pm
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Rotinaj

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May 31, 2012 6:28 PM
As long as i gave her Aids before the test im fine with it.
May 31, 2012 6:28pm
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sleeper

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May 31, 2012 6:30 PM
No, I don't date dumb ass hoes, I just bang them.
May 31, 2012 6:30pm
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Curly J

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May 31, 2012 6:35 PM
I wouldn't mind as long as she lets me PIIHB afterward.
May 31, 2012 6:35pm
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May 31, 2012 7:06 PM
I wouldn't be worried about anything showing up. But I don't know if I would be cool being in a relationship with someone who had that big of trust issues that they would have to run a background check on me.
May 31, 2012 7:06pm
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1_beast

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May 31, 2012 7:19 PM
No! That would mean she has left the kitchen ans stopped making sammich's.
May 31, 2012 7:19pm
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ernest_t_bass

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May 31, 2012 7:25 PM
Without telling me? Not cool.
May 31, 2012 7:25pm
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queencitybuckeye

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May 31, 2012 7:45 PM
She either has reason not to trust me, or she doesn't trust me for no reason. Either is a recipe for a failed relationship.
May 31, 2012 7:45pm
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Steel Valley Football

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May 31, 2012 10:08 PM
My wife's family did on me when we first started dating, without either of our knowledge. Her uncles, not parents. They are a family of cops and did it without telling anyone, not her parents I don't think. I have nothing to hide, but was pissed about it nonetheless. Be a man and ask me to my face about my legal past.
May 31, 2012 10:08pm
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fan_from_texas

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Jun 1, 2012 8:44 PM
I wouldn't be cool with it. It seems like that's a pretty big breach of trust issue, isn't it? If she wants to know something, ask. If you can't trust someone, don't be with them.
Jun 1, 2012 8:44pm
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Jun 1, 2012 10:12 PM
Steel Valley Football;1186375 wrote:My wife's family did on me when we first started dating, without either of our knowledge. Her uncles, not parents. They are a family of cops and did it without telling anyone, not her parents I don't think. I have nothing to hide, but was pissed about it nonetheless. Be a man and ask me to my face about my legal past.
Maybe her Uncles were too busy banging your mom to ask you to your face.

/steelvalleyfootball'd
Jun 1, 2012 10:12pm
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Jun 1, 2012 10:15 PM
I change my answer because I didnt really read the question right. I would be fine with somebody doing a background check one me BEFORE we had a relationship. I don't really see the point of a significant other doing a background check, because you would figure they know a lot about you since you have a relationship together.

Now say I was asked to give a blood test for something, I'd probably be pretty fucking irate. Lack of trust.
Jun 1, 2012 10:15pm
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Jun 1, 2012 11:33 PM
What's the blood test for?
Jun 1, 2012 11:33pm
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Jun 1, 2012 11:37 PM
FatHobbit;1187059 wrote:What's the blood test for?

Just shut up and let them draw the blood there cowboy.
Jun 1, 2012 11:37pm
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Steel Valley Football

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Jun 2, 2012 11:01 AM
Skyhook79;1187016 wrote:Maybe her Uncles were too busy banging your mom to ask you to your face./steelvalleyfootball'd
That's impossible. My wife's uncles are all gay. Like your dad.
Jun 2, 2012 11:01am
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Jun 2, 2012 2:19 PM
thavoice shouldve had one done on his wife.
Jun 2, 2012 2:19pm
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friendfromlowry

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Jun 2, 2012 5:37 PM
Steel Valley Football;1186375 wrote:My wife's family did on me when we first started dating, without either of our knowledge. Her uncles, not parents. They are a family of cops and did it without telling anyone, not her parents I don't think. I have nothing to hide, but was pissed about it nonetheless. Be a man and ask me to my face about my legal past.
Because you might lie about it? Hence getting the background check.
Jun 2, 2012 5:37pm
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Steel Valley Football

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Jun 2, 2012 9:17 PM
friendfromlowry;1187286 wrote:Because you might lie about it? Hence getting the background check.
I don't lie.

It's still sneaky, regardless. And, now, 12 years later, now that they know me and how I'm raising my family, and knowing I found out about it; they feel like idiots for doing it. So I've been told.
Jun 2, 2012 9:17pm
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Steel Valley Football

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Jun 2, 2012 9:18 PM
friendfromlowry;1187286 wrote:Because you might lie about it? Hence getting the background check.
I don't lie.

It's still sneaky, regardless. And, now, 12 years later, now that they know me and how I'm raising my family, and knowing I found out about it; they feel like idiots for doing it. So I've been told.
Jun 2, 2012 9:18pm
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Steel Valley Football

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Jun 2, 2012 9:29 PM
friendfromlowry;1187286 wrote:Because you might lie about it? Hence getting the background check.
I don't lie.

It's still sneaky, regardless. And, now, 12 years later, now that they know me and how I'm raising my family, and knowing I found out about it; they feel like idiots for doing it. So I've been told.
Jun 2, 2012 9:29pm
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thavoice

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Jun 4, 2012 10:42 AM
WOuld I have anything to hide on either?

No.

But if she is doing that....run. Run like the wind because she will only cause you trouble day after day after day.
Jun 4, 2012 10:42am