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Feb 7, 2012 10:39 AM
isadore;1078230 wrote:so you getting a bj is not normal and of possibly questionable acceptablility.
It is acceptable for me to get a bj... to me. I would not file that under my perception of "normal" sexual behavior. Just because something is socially (not morally) acceptable, does not make it "normal."

Just because we may "normally" get blow jobs, that doesn't necessarily make it sexually "normal."
Feb 7, 2012 10:39am
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Feb 7, 2012 10:42 AM
ernest_t_bass;1078234 wrote:It is acceptable for me to get a bj... to me. I would not file that under my perception of "normal" sexual behavior. Just because something is socially (not morally) acceptable, does not make it "normal."

Just because we may "normally" get blow jobs, that doesn't necessarily make it sexually "normal."
Yes, oral sex is normal.
Feb 7, 2012 10:42am
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Feb 7, 2012 10:47 AM
ernest_t_bass;1078234 wrote:It is acceptable for me to get a bj... to me. I would not file that under my perception of "normal" sexual behavior. Just because something is socially (not morally) acceptable, does not make it "normal."

Just because we may "normally" get blow jobs, that doesn't necessarily make it sexually "normal."
I do hope the next time your partner is considering giving you a bj, you point out to her\him that their behavior is sexually abberant, quite outside the bound of what you consider morally (not socially) acceptable.
Feb 7, 2012 10:47am
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Feb 7, 2012 10:48 AM
ernest_t_bass;1078234 wrote:It is acceptable for me to get a bj... to me. I would not file that under my perception of "normal" sexual behavior.
You and my wife both feel that way
Feb 7, 2012 10:48am
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Feb 7, 2012 10:51 AM
sleeper;1078153 wrote:I think you are born gay.
ernest_t_bass;1078156 wrote:Well, shut my mouth! :)
Shutting your mouth may open up other orifices if gay.
Feb 7, 2012 10:51am
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Feb 7, 2012 10:51 AM
FatHobbit;1078240 wrote:You and my wife both feel that way
I like it, and will gladly accept it from any female (were I not married). But it is abnormal sexual behavior.
Feb 7, 2012 10:51am
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Feb 7, 2012 10:52 AM
isadore;1078238 wrote:I do hope the next time your partner is considering giving you a bj, you point out to her\him that their behavior is sexually abberant, quite outside the bound of what you consider morally (not socially) acceptable.
LOL. This is a discussion.
Feb 7, 2012 10:52am
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Feb 7, 2012 11:00 AM
ernest_t_bass;1078246 wrote:I like it, and will gladly accept it from any female (were I not married). But it is abnormal sexual behavior.
Isn't that really subjective? I have exes that thought anything but missionary was abnormal. What makes something abnormal sexual behavior? If 50% of the women in the world give blow jobs, does that make it abnormal?
Feb 7, 2012 11:00am
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Feb 7, 2012 11:09 AM
If I'm understanding you correctly, ETB, because males are genetically programmed to have sex to procreate, then being gay is abnormal? Correct?

If you carry that line of thinking through, because males are genetically programmed to have sex with as many females as possible in order to procreate, then being married would also be abnormal.

For the question at hand, my definition of normal is that it occurs naturally. Because of that, I would say that being gay is normal (because I believe you are born gay) and I think it is much more acceptable now than it was in the past.

I vote normal and acceptable.
Feb 7, 2012 11:09am
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Feb 7, 2012 11:11 AM
sherm03;1078261 wrote:If you carry that line of thinking through, because males are genetically programmed to have sex with as many females as possible in order to procreate, then being married would also be abnormal.
While our species tends to be a monogamous species, I would say that the sanctity of marriage is all based on religion.
Feb 7, 2012 11:11am
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Feb 7, 2012 11:14 AM
...being gay is ONLY normal & acceptable if it's two hot lesbians and I get to watch them.
Feb 7, 2012 11:14am
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Feb 7, 2012 11:15 AM
ernest_t_bass;1078265 wrote:While our species tends to be a monogamous species, I would say that the sanctity of marriage is all based on religion.
In this case I would like a divorce.
Feb 7, 2012 11:15am
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Feb 7, 2012 11:20 AM
I think that all the guys that think it is normal need to plan a special valentines dinner for their wife or girlfriend, buy her some sexy lingerie and then slip in some gay porn on the DVD player and I will bet that your woman will not think it is normal.
Feb 7, 2012 11:20am
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Feb 7, 2012 11:22 AM
4cards;1078268 wrote:...being gay is ONLY normal & acceptable if it's two hot lesbians and I get to watch them.
I am honestly surprised that it took this long for someone to say this :D
Feb 7, 2012 11:22am
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Feb 7, 2012 11:23 AM
ernest_t_bass;1078265 wrote:While our species tends to be a monogamous species, I would say that the sanctity of marriage is all based on religion.
So that means a true atheist shouldn't get married?
Feb 7, 2012 11:23am
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Feb 7, 2012 11:23 AM
Not being attracted to something =/= that something being abnormal. However as stated above, I think it's abnormal for definition reasons, not because abnormal = something wrong.
Feb 7, 2012 11:23am
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Feb 7, 2012 11:27 AM
Raw Dawgin' it;1078279 wrote:So that means a true atheist shouldn't get married?
I said the sanctity of it. Religion is what has made the "commitment" what it is. Marriage itself (considering we're monogamous) isn't religious based, but the "holiness" is.

Fuck, in our society, all marriage means anyway, is better health care! Just ask teh gays! :D
Feb 7, 2012 11:27am
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Feb 7, 2012 11:35 AM
As far as gays and marriage.........Eh. On one hand I think that it is just plain wrong, but then on the other hand I am like hell, just let them. they have the right to be as miserable as the rest of us.
Feb 7, 2012 11:35am
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Feb 7, 2012 11:47 AM
Abnormal, acceptable.

A former roommate had a boss who was gay and the guy used to tell him "I'm gay, but I'm not a f*ggots. I can't stand f*ggots. I'm into men but I'm not some flamboyunt annoying asshole about it." I always got a kick out of that explanation.
Feb 7, 2012 11:47am
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Feb 7, 2012 12:16 PM
oh ernest, you are a dumbass if you think getting a blowjob is abnormal.


Who the fuck cares if it is or isn't, you are getting a bj, which are fucking awesome. Shut the fuck up and enjoy it ya big gay
Feb 7, 2012 12:16pm
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Feb 7, 2012 12:40 PM
DeyDurkie5;1078357 wrote:oh ernest, you are a dumbass if you think getting a blowjob is abnormal.


Who the fuck cares if it is or isn't, you are getting a bj, which are fucking awesome. Shut the fuck up and enjoy it ya big gay
Humans have explored the sexual realm to develop fetishes, etc., doing things that are sexually abnormal. Take titty fucking for example. How many species do you see out there titty fucking? It's awesome as hell, but it's not the sexual norm.
Feb 7, 2012 12:40pm
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Feb 7, 2012 12:42 PM
ernest_t_bass;1078388 wrote:Humans have explored the sexual realm to develop fetishes, etc., doing things that are sexually abnormal. Take titty fucking for example. How many species do you see out there titty fucking? It's awesome as hell, but it's not the sexual norm.
titty fucking is a fetish?
Feb 7, 2012 12:42pm
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Feb 7, 2012 12:50 PM
FatHobbit;1078393 wrote:titty fucking is a fetish?
No, but Rex Ryan's foot fetish is.
Feb 7, 2012 12:50pm
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Feb 7, 2012 12:55 PM
ernest_t_bass;1078388 wrote:Humans have explored the sexual realm to develop fetishes, etc., doing things that are sexually abnormal. Take titty fucking for example. How many species do you see out there titty fucking? It's awesome as hell, but it's not the sexual norm.
who the fuck cares if fucking and busting on tities is abnormal? Next time you are about to bust on your wifes tits, make sure you tell her this is abnormal in the eyes of ernest.

You are now a worse human than snot
Feb 7, 2012 12:55pm
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Feb 7, 2012 12:58 PM
DeyDurkie5;1078405 wrote:who the fuck cares if fucking and busting on tities is abnormal? Next time you are about to bust on your wifes tits, make sure you tell her this is abnormal in the eyes of ernest.

You are now a worse human than snot
LOL. Just because I like (or dislike) something doesn't change the fact that it may or may not be sexually abnormal.
Feb 7, 2012 12:58pm