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Feb 23, 2011 1:17 PM
It surely is one of the lower hanging fruits as far as things that people can get addicted to that are harmful.
Feb 23, 2011 1:17pm
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SnotBubbles

Feb 23, 2011 1:44 PM
www.youporn.com
www.xhamster.com

Cheat boys....cheat!!!!

Oh, and for the record, none of those links are safe for work. In case you're a dumbass.
Feb 23, 2011 1:44pm
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Feb 23, 2011 2:06 PM
Con_Alma;688383 wrote:Cheating = to deceive by trickery

What if she asks if she's getting fat? Is it cheating if you say no? (I would not call lying to someone about where you're going 'cheating' even though it is deceptive and I think wrong.)
Feb 23, 2011 2:06pm
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Feb 23, 2011 2:07 PM
SnotBubbles;688772 wrote:www.youporn.com
www.xhamster.com

Cheat boys....cheat!!!!

Oh, and for the record, none of those links are safe for work. In case you're a dumbass.

I'm afraid to click on the hamster link, even if i wasn't at work.
Feb 23, 2011 2:07pm
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Feb 23, 2011 2:10 PM
No, it's not cheating. Unless you physically insert part A into part B...it's not cheating.
Feb 23, 2011 2:10pm
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Feb 23, 2011 2:12 PM
Y-Town Steelhound;688822 wrote:No, it's not cheating. Unless you physically insert part A into part B...it's not cheating.

So if I were to catch my wife doming some guy or taking it in the two, that's not cheating?
Feb 23, 2011 2:12pm
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Feb 23, 2011 2:14 PM
Y-Town Steelhound;688822 wrote:No, it's not cheating. Unless you physically insert part A into part B...it's not cheating.
I think you can cheat without physical contact. Does phone sex count?
O-Trap;688825 wrote:So if I were to catch my wife doming some guy or taking it in the two, that's not cheating?

I think that would be A into B. (maybe C or D)
Feb 23, 2011 2:14pm
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Feb 23, 2011 2:16 PM
FatHobbit;688827 wrote:I think that would be A into B. (maybe C or D)

I almost said "part C" and "part D," but inevitably, someone wouldn't know what that meant.
Feb 23, 2011 2:16pm
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Feb 23, 2011 2:19 PM
Hell, what if I catch her webcoming with someone? That's not cheating, either?
Feb 23, 2011 2:19pm
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Feb 23, 2011 2:22 PM
I like how you said "webcoming" instead of "webcaming". Makes it sound even more filthy. :)
Feb 23, 2011 2:22pm
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Feb 23, 2011 2:24 PM
I Wear Pants;688834 wrote:I like how you said "webcoming" instead of "webcaming". Makes it sound even more filthy. :)

Heard a college student use that term in PetCo last week when I took my dog to training. Made me shudder.
Feb 23, 2011 2:24pm
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Feb 23, 2011 4:38 PM
I stopped at http://religion.blogs
Feb 23, 2011 4:38pm
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Feb 23, 2011 4:39 PM
stroups;689003 wrote:I stopped at http://religion.blogs

Umm ... Congratulations for making it that far? ;)
Feb 23, 2011 4:39pm
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SnotBubbles

Feb 23, 2011 4:43 PM
FatHobbit;688811 wrote:I'm afraid to click on the hamster link, even if i wasn't at work.

Trust me. It's the greatest free/safe porn site on the interwebz. Howard Stern was even talking about it the other day. Check it out when you get home, thank me later. There is no beastiality or hamsters involved in any of it.
Feb 23, 2011 4:43pm
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Feb 23, 2011 4:46 PM
If a man or women masturbates while thinking of someone other than their partner,would that be the same as cheating? Some of you think it is wrong to look at someone else and think about sex with them or how hot they are because that could be cheating and I think that is normal human behavior.
Feb 23, 2011 4:46pm
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Feb 23, 2011 5:06 PM
password;689015 wrote:If a man or women masturbates while thinking of someone other than their partner,would that be the same as cheating? Some of you think it is wrong to look at someone else and think about sex with them or how hot they are because that could be cheating and I think that is normal human behavior.

I'm not saying it's not normal behavior.
Feb 23, 2011 5:06pm
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Feb 23, 2011 7:27 PM
Con_Alma;688509 wrote:When I married I promised the most intimate thought and act to one person. To seek out and observe for some sort of personal satisfaction the stimulation that pornography can provide would be doing so against that which I vowed to experience with only my bride.

I have never stated that it was cheating for others, with the exception of fat hobbit's example in which case he deceived. I have only responded that I would view it as me cheating.

Based on your definition, even if you were not watching porn but just happen to masterbate to get your rocks off you would be cheating. Do you consider self stimulation cheating?

**Note: my post differs from password in that my scenario does not necessarily involve thinking about another. The individual is trying to "relieve" themselves. Alternatively, maybe they are fantasizing about having sex with their spouse.
Feb 23, 2011 7:27pm
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Feb 23, 2011 7:41 PM
O-Trap;689035 wrote:I'm not saying it's not normal behavior.


So would you say that it is normal for humans to think about cheating?
Feb 23, 2011 7:41pm
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Feb 23, 2011 8:17 PM
password;689238 wrote:So would you say that it is normal for humans to think about cheating?

It is perfectly normal for humans to fantasize about what would grant them the most satisfaction in that moment. That includes fantasizing about cheating, yes.
Feb 23, 2011 8:17pm
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Feb 23, 2011 8:31 PM
A thought -

Porn is one-way and impersonal, and a lot of wives, including mine, don't mind it within an healthy marriage (for that matter, she enjoys it as well).

On the other hand, I think both of us would have major issues with either one of us engaging in cybersex/webcamming with another person - that's starting to establish channels of personal intimacy with another individual.
Feb 23, 2011 8:31pm
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mella

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Feb 23, 2011 8:34 PM
No, watching porn is not cheating. If I am on a diet and look into the bakery window did I go off my diet? I sat on my couch and watched a P90X commercial today, did I work out?
Feb 23, 2011 8:34pm
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Feb 23, 2011 8:36 PM
Watching porn is considered cheating by some?? Seems some are wound a little too tight, and I guarantee that there isn't one guy who has responded to this thread that hasn't(while married) looked at another woman and wondered "what if".
Feb 23, 2011 8:36pm
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Feb 23, 2011 8:52 PM
SE-Alum - we (and our wives) are married, not dead. :)
Feb 23, 2011 8:52pm
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Feb 23, 2011 9:14 PM
mella;689287 wrote:No, watching porn is not cheating. If I am on a diet and look into the bakery window did I go off my diet? I sat on my couch and watched a P90X commercial today, did I work out?[/QUOTE]

I know some that would say yes.
Feb 23, 2011 9:14pm
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Feb 23, 2011 9:20 PM
How about watching some homemade porn that you have of an ex girlfriend that you filmed together before you became involved with your current partner, would that be cheating or just fucked up if your current partner caught you?
Feb 23, 2011 9:20pm