THE4RINGZ;409954 wrote:I am extremely picky about my lawn so I cut it.
Every neighborhood has that guy...
THE4RINGZ;409954 wrote:I am extremely picky about my lawn so I cut it.
Funny thing is... in my neighborhood I am not even "that guy."I am extremely picky about my lawn so I cut it.
Every neighborhood has that guy...
Thanks for the input.Captain Cavalier;410098 wrote:...
Just make sure that athletics aren't THE most important thing in their life. Chores are a good thing to be taught. When they graduate, there won't be anyone "holding their hand".
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We disagree about basically everything on politics, but we're on the same wavelength here. I have about 100 things more important to worry about than lawn perfection. As long as it's mowed and isn't a foot high, it's fine! Sure, there are some standards (living in a jungle looks bad) but fuck perfection.believer;410272 wrote:I cut my own lawn but as soon as my daughter is big enough, SHE'S mowing...and I could give a rat's rear how good a job she does.
I live in a typical materialistic middle class neighborhood with ANAL idiots who live for their yards...You know the mulching and flower beds and landscaping and solar lights and all the other bullshit that mean squat to me.
To me it's a royal pain in the ass to mow and I do it once a week even if I should do it more often. I sometimes get "the look" from some of my ANAL idiot neighbors but screw 'em.
So when the time comes I'll pay my daughter to screw it up and really get the ANAL idiots going! lol
Exactlyts1227;410289 wrote:I have about 100 things more important to worry about than lawn perfection. As long as it's mowed and isn't a foot high, it's fine! Sure, there are some standards (living in a jungle looks bad) but fuck perfection.
You better let them (those who feel they are "helping" you) know this is your area. You're older than I, but they need to know this is your sanctuary so to speak. They'll understand.Swamp Fox;410369 wrote:I know I'm not normal, but I love to mow the yard and do the edging and weeding and all the rest. I Would rather not give this job over to kids because number one, my youngest son is 32 and my oldest is 41 and they are very busy with their own lives and I am very good at the gardening stuff and I want it done right. The grandchildren have a lot on their respective plates and it's a much different time than when I was growing up. I was pleasantly surprised the other day when I got home and my daughter in law had come over and mowed the front and back yards for me, but the truth be known, I would have much rather done it myself, although she did a very nice job.
Well said. Sounds like they're on the right and narrow path.Con_Alma;410217 wrote:Thanks for the input.
It's even more than chores for our kids however.
Balance in life is an instrumental lesson we focus on with them.
We insist that they have substantive activity in the following areas:
Family
Education
Physical
Vocation...in the case of kids that would be their chores
Social
All of this must be centered around their spiritual development. It's the most important thing in their life that creates the foundation for all other activities.
Without stimulation in each of these areas they will not be as effective in their area of choice.
I can assure you that athletics is not THE most important thing in their life. It simply is a decision that has commitments which overrides the lawn being part of their chores.
I've had this similar conversation. With kids being in such a digital age, are they relaxing on the basics. Get out and play...physically not digitally. Will these kids be able to carrying on a conversation one on one if all they know is to text them? Will they know body language and to talk respectfully and the timing involved. I'm for goodness sake, they they pay admission to an activity and sit and text and not even follow what's going on.Belly35;410451 wrote:Not the change the topic but I would have to say that today youth 14 to 25 years old can't change a tire. They have no idea of want to do or do they have to muscle to do it.
believer;410444 wrote:^^^I didn't know Amish kids had XBOX! lol
You must be a Democrat.Pick6;410501 wrote:GUESS WHAT. YOU PEOPLE ARE THE ONES WHO RAISED OUR GENERATION
Belly35;410451 wrote:Not the change the topic but I would have to say that today youth 14 to 25 years old can't change a tire. They have no idea of want to do or do they have to muscle to do it.
Note: My daughter learned how to change a tire when they got their diver license ...Part of the Belly requirements to growing up.....
Pick6;410501 wrote:oh jesus christ, another one of those threads that are degrading the younger generation.When I was in high school, I played football, basketball, and ran track all while maintaing a job, girlfriend, hanging out with friends, and at home chores. I work a physical labor job now and probably about half of my work is yardwork. I worked 44 hours this past week, not including mowing and weedeating my both of my parents yard and other chores..I also text and play video games, who gives a shit. I dont have maybe but one friend who "sits in his house and plays video games all day" and he is fat. Not every kid in "todays younger generation" is like that, but you can usually tell because they are obese. GUESS WHAT. YOU PEOPLE ARE THE ONES WHO RAISED OUR GENERATION
believer;410515 wrote:You must be a Democrat.