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jmog
Posts: 6,567
May 11, 2010 9:25am
I think those that complain about marriage REALLY married the wrong girl.
I've been married for 10 years and have zero complaints. My wife is amazing and I couldn't ask for anything better to be honest.
I'll put it this way, I've never asked or expected this to be done, but every weekday before I get up for work I have my breakfast ready, lunch packed, and work clothes set out and ironed for me. She also will call me to find out for sure what time I'll be home from work so that she has dinner ready when I get home.
That's just a few of the many things she does without even being asked.
I've been married for 10 years and have zero complaints. My wife is amazing and I couldn't ask for anything better to be honest.
I'll put it this way, I've never asked or expected this to be done, but every weekday before I get up for work I have my breakfast ready, lunch packed, and work clothes set out and ironed for me. She also will call me to find out for sure what time I'll be home from work so that she has dinner ready when I get home.
That's just a few of the many things she does without even being asked.
Heretic
Posts: 18,820
May 11, 2010 9:27am
THIS!jmog wrote: I think those that complain about marriage REALLY married the wrong girl.
I've been married for 10 years and have zero complaints. My wife is amazing and I couldn't ask for anything better to be honest.
I'll put it this way, I've never asked or expected this to be done, but every weekday before I get up for work I have my breakfast ready, lunch packed, and work clothes set out and ironed for me. She also will call me to find out for sure what time I'll be home from work so that she has dinner ready when I get home.
That's just a few of the many things she does without even being asked.
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jmog
Posts: 6,567
May 11, 2010 9:30am
Work blocks photobucket, but by the name of the picture I can guess what it shows.Heretic wrote:THIS!jmog wrote: I think those that complain about marriage REALLY married the wrong girl.
I've been married for 10 years and have zero complaints. My wife is amazing and I couldn't ask for anything better to be honest.
I'll put it this way, I've never asked or expected this to be done, but every weekday before I get up for work I have my breakfast ready, lunch packed, and work clothes set out and ironed for me. She also will call me to find out for sure what time I'll be home from work so that she has dinner ready when I get home.
That's just a few of the many things she does without even being asked.
And just because someone has a wife that enjoys the "domestic" work around the house doesn't mean they are beating their wife.
4cards
Posts: 2,551
May 11, 2010 9:41am
...sherm, dropping the "C" word on your sister-in-law was probably...no deffinitely...not a good move, but that part of your upbringing I'll blame on your Dad. Let your soon to be bride handle her family.
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Con_Alma
Posts: 12,198
May 11, 2010 9:43am
No doubt about it in my mind.jmog wrote: I think those that complain about marriage REALLY married the wrong girl.
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Pick6
Posts: 14,946
May 11, 2010 9:49am
sounds like u have a keeperjmog wrote: I think those that complain about marriage REALLY married the wrong girl.
I've been married for 10 years and have zero complaints. My wife is amazing and I couldn't ask for anything better to be honest.
I'll put it this way, I've never asked or expected this to be done, but every weekday before I get up for work I have my breakfast ready, lunch packed, and work clothes set out and ironed for me. She also will call me to find out for sure what time I'll be home from work so that she has dinner ready when I get home.
That's just a few of the many things she does without even being asked.
sherm03
Posts: 7,349
May 11, 2010 9:54am
4cards...I didn't actually call her a cunt. But I did make her aware of how bad she was hurting my fiancee, and may have said that she's acting like a bitch. But I know better than to call a chick a cunt to her face...you say that stuff behind their backs. LOL.4cards wrote: ...sherm, dropping the "C" word on your sister-in-law was probably...no deffinitely...not a good move, but that part of your upbringing I'll blame on your Dad. Let your soon to be bride handle her family.
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jmog
Posts: 6,567
May 11, 2010 9:56am
Yup, she's a keeper for sure.Pick6 wrote:sounds like u have a keeperjmog wrote: I think those that complain about marriage REALLY married the wrong girl.
I've been married for 10 years and have zero complaints. My wife is amazing and I couldn't ask for anything better to be honest.
I'll put it this way, I've never asked or expected this to be done, but every weekday before I get up for work I have my breakfast ready, lunch packed, and work clothes set out and ironed for me. She also will call me to find out for sure what time I'll be home from work so that she has dinner ready when I get home.
That's just a few of the many things she does without even being asked.
se-alum
Posts: 13,948
May 11, 2010 10:00am
Give ya $100 for her!?!?jmog wrote:Yup, she's a keeper for sure.Pick6 wrote:sounds like u have a keeperjmog wrote: I think those that complain about marriage REALLY married the wrong girl.
I've been married for 10 years and have zero complaints. My wife is amazing and I couldn't ask for anything better to be honest.
I'll put it this way, I've never asked or expected this to be done, but every weekday before I get up for work I have my breakfast ready, lunch packed, and work clothes set out and ironed for me. She also will call me to find out for sure what time I'll be home from work so that she has dinner ready when I get home.
That's just a few of the many things she does without even being asked.
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jmog
Posts: 6,567
May 11, 2010 10:38am
I'm pretty sure no one on OC has enough money in the bank to "buy" her from me.se-alum wrote:
Give ya $100 for her!?!?
Bill Gates might, but no one on the OC for sure
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se-alum
Posts: 13,948
May 11, 2010 10:46am
Lol...I had to try!!jmog wrote:I'm pretty sure no one on OC has enough money in the bank to "buy" her from me.se-alum wrote:
Give ya $100 for her!?!?
Bill Gates might, but no one on the OC for sure
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Dean Wormer
Posts: 333
May 11, 2010 11:59am
Sherm
Stay out of the family business. When they make up, and they will, you'll be the bad guy. Listen to your fiance and let her vent but just nod and say "I know" once in awhile. Try reading the paper, it always worked for me.
Stay out of the family business. When they make up, and they will, you'll be the bad guy. Listen to your fiance and let her vent but just nod and say "I know" once in awhile. Try reading the paper, it always worked for me.
McFly1955
Posts: 1,441
May 11, 2010 12:18pm
I think it's best to stay out of your wife/girlfriend's disputes with her family, pretty much at all times.
The fact is that it is probably something super retarded, and something you would imagine 13 year old junior high students fighting over....Just listen to her side of the story, give feedback, it's OK to point out where she may be wrong (if she is the type that can handle it....I know some girls will girl-dick-punch you if you disagree with them, my wife can take it). It will blow over, depending on how close they are I suppose.
The fact is that it is probably something super retarded, and something you would imagine 13 year old junior high students fighting over....Just listen to her side of the story, give feedback, it's OK to point out where she may be wrong (if she is the type that can handle it....I know some girls will girl-dick-punch you if you disagree with them, my wife can take it). It will blow over, depending on how close they are I suppose.
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Shane Falco
Posts: 440
May 11, 2010 12:48pm
Sorry but I didn't say this!enigmaax wrote:Exactly.Shane Falco wrote: Do the smart thing...
Don't get married.
I have a great wife and a wonderful marriage.
I said take her (girlfriend) to the courthouse and marry her today. Why should her sister have a say in anything
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Shane Falco
Posts: 440
May 11, 2010 12:50pm
And my SIL is pretty cool also!
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SnotBubbles
May 11, 2010 1:04pm
"...am married and have no complaints."
I'm guessing it isn't because you found the "right one." I'm guessing it has more to do with you being a whipped pansy who can't act like a man in front of his wife. Just a guess....
It is completely natural for men and women to disagree and have complaints. If you don't, there is seriously something wrong.
I'm guessing it isn't because you found the "right one." I'm guessing it has more to do with you being a whipped pansy who can't act like a man in front of his wife. Just a guess....
It is completely natural for men and women to disagree and have complaints. If you don't, there is seriously something wrong.
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jmog
Posts: 6,567
May 11, 2010 1:47pm
Did you actually read my whole post before replying?SnotBubbles wrote: "...am married and have no complaints."
I'm guessing it isn't because you found the "right one." I'm guessing it has more to do with you being a whipped pansy who can't act like a man in front of his wife. Just a guess....
It is completely natural for men and women to disagree and have complaints. If you don't, there is seriously something wrong.
Go back, read it again, and anyone with a 3rd grade level reading comprehension level will come to a different conclusion than you just did.
Chesapeake
Posts: 1,603
May 11, 2010 3:10pm
The people that said don't get married are correct.
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SnotBubbles
May 11, 2010 3:15pm
I took your advice and went back and read it again.jmog wrote: Did you actually read my whole post before replying?
Go back, read it again, and anyone with a 3rd grade level reading comprehension level will come to a different conclusion than you just did.
Apparent conclusion: I must be at a 3rd grade reading level.
Sorry, I don't see it any differently. :-/ Just because she makes you a sandwich without being asked doesn't make you not a pansy.
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jmog
Posts: 6,567
May 11, 2010 4:11pm
So every man that is happily married is a pansy? Really? Is your life that miserable?SnotBubbles wrote:I took your advice and went back and read it again.jmog wrote: Did you actually read my whole post before replying?
Go back, read it again, and anyone with a 3rd grade level reading comprehension level will come to a different conclusion than you just did.
Apparent conclusion: I must be at a 3rd grade reading level.
Sorry, I don't see it any differently. :-/ Just because she makes you a sandwich without being asked doesn't make you not a pansy.
j_crazy
Posts: 8,372
May 11, 2010 4:27pm
i don't think he's saying his life is miserable, he's just saying yours can't be that good.
I'm with him.
admit it, she farts in her sleep and you hate it. maybe she leaves dirty socks on the floor. she locks the door shen she's peeing. something she does irks you. you're not being honest with us.
I'm with him.
admit it, she farts in her sleep and you hate it. maybe she leaves dirty socks on the floor. she locks the door shen she's peeing. something she does irks you. you're not being honest with us.
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bamagirl
Posts: 154
May 11, 2010 4:29pm
Girls fight all the time. They will get over it. Hopefully, in time for the wedding. Congrats btw.
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bamagirl
Posts: 154
May 11, 2010 4:34pm
He's def right. Every healthy relationship has arguments and fights, and it isn't how many you have or what they are about but how you fight. Example: If your calling each other terrible names every time instead of being mature then yeah maybe it isn't meant to be.SnotBubbles wrote: "...am married and have no complaints."
I'm guessing it isn't because you found the "right one." I'm guessing it has more to do with you being a whipped pansy who can't act like a man in front of his wife. Just a guess....
It is completely natural for men and women to disagree and have complaints. If you don't, there is seriously something wrong.
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jmog
Posts: 6,567
May 11, 2010 4:47pm
I never said we didn't fight, I said I have no complaints as in I'm perfectly happy with the marriage.
Having no complaints is not the same as never fighting or not having something get on your nerves.
Having no complaints is not the same as never fighting or not having something get on your nerves.
j_crazy
Posts: 8,372
May 11, 2010 4:51pm
that's all we're trying to say.
i'm happy in my marriage, i do however have complaints, but they're just gripes. nothing serious.
i'm happy in my marriage, i do however have complaints, but they're just gripes. nothing serious.