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se-alum

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Apr 26, 2010 12:20 PM
should be castrated! On my way to work this morning I get a call from one of my best friends, who I've known for 25 of my 29 years, telling me she found out last night that her husband has been seeing another woman. I've been pretty much irate all morning. Dude should have his dick cutoff or at least stuck in a blender(yes, I know thats not castration, but as I was typing, it sounded better)! I would really just like to go beat the guys ass, but that won't help anything. I just can't see how someone could do that, especially when there are children involved!

/rant
Apr 26, 2010 12:20pm
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derek bomar

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Apr 26, 2010 12:21 PM
It was her fault
Apr 26, 2010 12:21pm
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mallymal614

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Apr 26, 2010 12:21 PM
Wives cheat too! Let's remove their kitty :)
Apr 26, 2010 12:21pm
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THE4RINGZ

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Apr 26, 2010 12:25 PM
Most times it is a simple lack of character rather than a lack of sex that leads one to cheat.
Apr 26, 2010 12:25pm
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Apr 26, 2010 12:32 PM
THE4RINGZ wrote: Most times it is a simple lack of character rather than a lack of sex that leads one to cheat.
i dont ever condone cheating but...

i know a lot of guys who if they were getting some at home would be waaaay less likely to cheat. my former wife wouldnt give it up unless you completed a list of like25 things each day...you could do like 24 of them perfect and then mess up one of them and not get laid for a week....now i didnt cheat i divorced her but i think sex shouldnt be the first thing you withold to get your way or if you get mad. it leads to a lack of closeness that can get worse over time.

and yes girls cheat just as much
Apr 26, 2010 12:32pm
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Con_Alma

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Apr 26, 2010 12:34 PM
Withholding sex is the first step to relationship ending...or it is the first sign that the relationship is not good.
Apr 26, 2010 12:34pm
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se-alum

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Apr 26, 2010 12:38 PM
If you're not getting any at home(which wasn't the case in this situation), get a divorce and move on. I have no problem with that, as no one should stay in a relationship they're not happy with, but you should not cheat on your wife and set that kind of example for your kids.
Apr 26, 2010 12:38pm
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teh awsum juan

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Apr 26, 2010 12:38 PM
derek bomar wrote: It was her fault

maybe if she was a better cook, he wouldn't have cheated.
Apr 26, 2010 12:38pm
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derek bomar

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Apr 26, 2010 12:39 PM
teh awsum juan wrote:
derek bomar wrote: It was her fault

maybe if she was a better cook, he wouldn't have cheated.
exactly...
Apr 26, 2010 12:39pm
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THE4RINGZ

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Apr 26, 2010 12:41 PM
Basing a relationship especially a marriage on the availability of sex is setting oneself up for distaster.
Apr 26, 2010 12:41pm
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Little Danny

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Apr 26, 2010 12:44 PM
One of my coworkers recently divorced his wife. He said prior to the marriage they had a normal sex life, but after they got married they had sex maybe ten times in five years. Once their child was born the wife no longer was interested in having sex. He stayed in the marriage for the kids sake but it was just too much.

I can understand his reluctance for a divorce considering they had a kid. However, since he was a young guy he would have had to been looking elsewhere for sex. In my opinion, holding out on sex is cheating on your spouse and emotional/physical cruelty.
Apr 26, 2010 12:44pm
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Con_Alma

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Apr 26, 2010 12:46 PM
THE4RINGZ wrote: Basing a relationship especially a marriage on the availability of sex is setting oneself up for distaster.

No doubt but this is a different point than others offered regarding the role of sex in a marriage.
Apr 26, 2010 12:46pm
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Con_Alma

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Apr 26, 2010 12:48 PM
se-alum wrote: ... I have no problem with that, as no one should stay in a relationship they're not happy with, but you should not cheat on your wife and set that kind of example for your kids.
I don't think most people would disagree with that.
Apr 26, 2010 12:48pm
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Apr 26, 2010 1:17 PM
Con_Alma wrote:
THE4RINGZ wrote: Basing a relationship especially a marriage on the availability of sex is setting oneself up for distaster.

No doubt but this is a different point than others offered regarding the role of sex in a marriage.
Completely agree if your only getting married for the sex you are setting yourself up for disappointment.
Apr 26, 2010 1:17pm
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Apr 26, 2010 1:19 PM
Little Danny wrote: He said prior to the marriage they had a normal sex life, but after they got married they had sex maybe ten times in five years. Once their child was born the wife no longer was interested in having sex.
haha how is that different from most marriages?
Apr 26, 2010 1:19pm
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sleeper

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Apr 26, 2010 1:22 PM
As a guy who's planning on getting married just for the sex, if my wife stops putting out, then I'll find someone who will.
Apr 26, 2010 1:22pm
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thavoice

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Apr 26, 2010 1:24 PM
Ya do know that the food that lowers sex drive in women is wedding cake....
Apr 26, 2010 1:24pm
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ernest_t_bass

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Apr 26, 2010 1:43 PM
Had to be her fault. He was probably just friends with the chick, and here she goes and accuses of him of cheating! If she'd have stayed out of his business, this would have never happened.
Apr 26, 2010 1:43pm
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sonofsam

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Apr 26, 2010 1:54 PM
Dude should have "manned up" and said something before he went dipping his wick in some strange.
Apr 26, 2010 1:54pm
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CenterBHSFan

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Apr 26, 2010 2:06 PM
Lack of sex does not make anyone cheat.

Most people take an oath before God and to themselves to be loyal and faithful, for better or for worse. To some people, those words mean something very personal and valuable to them. Others it can be forsaken for what "feels good at the time".
When you think about it, does the relatively quick session of sex make up for the time, commitment and the value of your marriage?

I agree with the person who said it showed a lack of character.
Apr 26, 2010 2:06pm
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ernest_t_bass

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Apr 26, 2010 2:08 PM
CenterBHSFan wrote: Lack of sex does not make anyone cheat.

Most people take an oath before God and to themselves to be loyal and faithful, for better or for worse. To some people, those words mean something very personal and valuable to them. Others it can be forsaken for what "feels good at the time".
When you think about it, does the relatively quick session of sex make up for the time, commitment and the value of your marriage?

I agree with the person who said it showed a lack of character.
Says the person whose avatar is a cat fapping.














I kid :D
Apr 26, 2010 2:08pm
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Timber

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Apr 26, 2010 2:12 PM
I for one think it is wrong for a spouse to cheat on their spouse and family. Not only does one who cheats... hurt the spouse, but the poor kids are put through pure heck... just take a mental beatdown (it seems.) Often times the kids are convinced that they are the problem. Sad indeed!

As bad as cheating is... it is hard for me to cast stones at someone else, without knowing "the whole" story.

SE... I hope your friend works through this unfortunate time O.K.
Apr 26, 2010 2:12pm
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CenterBHSFan

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Apr 26, 2010 2:13 PM
Ebass you're a shithead! lol
Apr 26, 2010 2:13pm
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sjmvsfscs08

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Apr 26, 2010 2:32 PM
I think all people that cheat should just be sent to live in some village in the middle of the Gobi Desert, not just men but women too. :)

A lot of people lack character, so that should be #1 on the list of what someone is looking for in a significant other.
Apr 26, 2010 2:32pm
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Con_Alma

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Apr 26, 2010 2:33 PM
CenterBHSFan wrote: ...
When you think about it, does the relatively quick session of sex make up for the time, commitment and the value of your marriage?

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It certainly does not but then again erasing the physical intimacy from a marriage is also damning to the value of said marriage.
Apr 26, 2010 2:33pm