Dr Winston O'Boogie;1652560 wrote:There are some facts coming out about this that don't smell right. They are:
- The mother of the victim went to the media first
- This incident happened weeks before it was reported
- The boy is mildly autistic and is a full participant in school, extracurricular activities and sports
- The boy has been a part of this group of "friends" for awhile. He has not been a follower of them so much as a part of them. He continued to hang with them right up until his mother reported the incident.
- The family has actively solicited and accepted donations. Why there is a need for money here when no one was injured, no property was damaged, etc is VERY suspicious.
This story may be exactly what was originally reported. However the vigilante rage and the people tripping over each other to coordinate peace marches, "unity shows", etc is bothersome.
I am beginning to feel like I rushed to judgement without considering the fact that these kids could be just very stupid - perhaps trying to imitate a Jackass stunt or something. Maybe they have done all sorts of stupid crap like this to each other and we don't have context.
Anyway, the actions of the boy's family have given me great pause.
You maybe correct, but let me give you some insight as a parent of a mildly autistic child who participates fully in school (with an IEP) and plays sports. He is 8 by the way.
1. Going to the media first, I can't disagree with you on that one.
2. Weeks before it was reported might be because the parents didn't know about it until then? Trust me, mildly autistic kids are 100% loyal, 100% trust worthy, etc. They do NOT understand jokes, do NOT understand sarcasm, and will nearly believe anything you tell them. I could almost literally tell my son the sky is pink and he would believe me, not because he is stupid (he actually is amazing at math, spelling, etc), but because he trusts everyone. What if his friends told him it was to raise money for a good cause and told him everyone was doing the feces/urine challenge? I'm telling you, that a kid with aspbergers/mild autism could/would believe them and NOT tell his parents.
3. The fact that the boy is mildly autistic and fully participates, I'm not sure how that makes it any better or worse. The only difference between fully autistic and mild is that the mildly autistic may actually have friends (with help from different specialties, when my son was 3 or 4 he wouldn't talk to ANYONE but us...now, through therapy, he has the opposite problem, he is up in everyone's face/space sometimes). The fully autistic kid would never have these 'friends' to begin with. The mildly autistic kid would not only have these 'friends' but would again FULLY trust them and would NEVER understand if they were joking or sarcastic. Once again, kids with aspbergers or mild autism can not understand when someone is messing with them. They fully trust people that are close to them and believe every word they say.
4. The active solicitation is questionable, but could be for either a lawyer for lawsuits or, even better, for counseling for the kid.
I stand by my statement before, having a son who fits the same profile, if any of his 'friends' did this to him, I would beat the hell out of their fathers for raising kids like that.