Dealing with ex's who can't let go

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darbypitcher22
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Mar 11, 2010 8:52am
have her get the protection order.

dude sounds like a Stage 5.
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ernest_t_bass
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Mar 11, 2010 10:07am
I heard her ex-husband likes golf carts too, and hates walking at courses. What a douche.
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Mar 11, 2010 10:12am
ernest_t_bass wrote: I heard her ex-husband likes golf carts too, and hates walking at courses. What a douche.
I think thats a safe assumption.
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Mar 11, 2010 10:15am
It seems pretty obvious that she wants to be "bothered". It's not hard to change your phone number.
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Mar 11, 2010 10:46am
ManO'War wrote: It seems pretty obvious that she wants to be "bothered". It's not hard to change your phone number.
Well that's the thing and I guess I left it out. Shes wanting to switch to AT&T b/c he apparently has a friend at verizon who thinks he gave him her number. She had changed it when she moved but he found it out again.
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devil1197
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Mar 11, 2010 10:53am
Not being rude or anything but a protection order always sounds nice. BUT, if this guy wants to do harm he'll find a way.

Crazy people do crazy shit. Its more of a hassle to get a PO especially when the punishments for violating such orders will have him out stalking immediately.

Just buy her some pepper spray and brass knuckles.
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Mar 11, 2010 12:07pm
Hmm when your girl goes to court, tell her to sing this song to the judge:

He's in the tree outside my window,
in the car parked in the yard.
He's the guy I see watchin me,
watchin me from afar.

Yeah he's my stalker
Yeah he's my stalker

I wrote that in college ... yes I had (have) way too much time on my hands ...
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ZWICK 4 PREZ
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Mar 11, 2010 1:38pm
She told me she called the police at lunch b/c her neighbor saw him outside of her apartment on the patio trying to look in thru the sliding glass door, and she's going down to the police station after work to find out how to get a protection order. I guess he sent her some crazy voicemails last night.


I'm not sure i even wanna deal with it at this point.
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Apple
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Mar 11, 2010 2:51pm
Here's a story from yesterday from Lebanon, OH about a woman's ex...

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stroups
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Mar 11, 2010 2:58pm
“They were totally in love and then one day he just up and left,” Jennifer Nolan said. “He came back with roses and wanted to get back together with her. She told him no and then he started stabbing her.”
Didn't take that news well
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BR1986FB
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Mar 12, 2010 12:37pm
My girlfriend's son is dealing with a bat shit crazy ex as we speak. They were close to being engaged when she flipped out. She's been telling everyone that she's pregnant and that she gave him an STD. We believe that both of these claims are false and believe the STD claim was to keep other girls away from him. Who the fuck does that shit? I'm waiting for slashed tires or a boiled rabbit on our doorstep.
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gibby08
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Mar 12, 2010 12:39pm
CALL THE COPS
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Mar 12, 2010 1:15pm
Zwick: What's wrong with you? Why would you be wasting your time with someone that has nothing to offer. Sex may be a good thing, but come on. You're selling yourself short by spending time with what appears to be a nobody. Move on to a young lady with some credentials...not divorce papers kind.
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Mar 12, 2010 1:16pm
Zwick,

drop her and move onto something else. don't want you ending up like Ronald Goldman
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Mar 12, 2010 2:34pm
Stiffman wrote: Zwick: What's wrong with you? Why would you be wasting your time with someone that has nothing to offer. Sex may be a good thing, but come on. You're selling yourself short by spending time with what appears to be a nobody. Move on to a young lady with some credentials...not divorce papers kind.
I think its a little harsh to condem her as worthless b/c of a stalker ex.