I've been talking to this girl for about three months now, and we've gone out on a few dates. She wanted to take things slow because of some stuff that happened in her previous relationship. She didn't really give me any details about how or why they broke up. She just didn't want to talk about so I respected that and left it at that. Anyways, last night I'm on my way to celebrate a friend's 21st and she texts me saying she needs to talk and wants me to call her. So I call her and she says; "hey im really sorry but, (him) and I are getting back together" I didn't really say anything, I just said "whatever I'll see ya around" she texts me saying "ohh im sorry if i hurt you, i still want to be friends" I didnt respond back because I prolly would have said some pretty mean things.

And fab1b; following your realtionship advice I would do her best friend and her other friend while I'm at it.

Lucky

u didn't knock it out yet?

Good man now call that best friend!

Seriously that sucks but better to find out at the start then later on my friend. Plenty of fish in the ol sea go catch one brother!!

yeah. pretty much just ignore her. She played ya dude.

Dont worry...has happened to the best, and worst, of us.

I feel for ya man... not much you can do.

I am currently "casually" dating some girl that I like a lot. She just doesn't want to be in a committed relationship because she was in a long one previously that didn't work out for her... oh well. I still date around just to keep my own mind and keep me from getting too involved with girl #1 in case she pulls a move like yours did with you.

It'd be one thing if they just broke up, but they've been apart for more than 6 months... so whatever. I think the "I just got out of a long relationship" thing is a lame excuse... if you really didn't want to date anyone, then why did you flirt and go out with me in the first place?

Oh well, shit happens.

(Sorry, I kinda just vented on your thread as it reminded me of my situation).

rookie_j70 wrote: She wanted to take things slow because of some stuff that happened in her previous relationship. She didn't really give me any details about how or why they broke up. She just didn't want to talk about so I respected that and left it at that.

That should have sent you packing right there, IMO.
Glad you weren't too involved with that hookie!

rookie_j70 wrote:I didnt respond back because I prolly would have said some pretty mean things.

Mistake.

You'd be surprised at how invigorating a good, "That's good, as I'd love to stay friends with a stupid cunt who, while dating me, was apparently blowing the ex she didn't want to talk about until he took her back. Can I wait until he gets tired of your pussy again and dumps you, so it's not TOO awkward?" comment can feel at a time like this.

I think you should text her what Heretic said. That would be epic.

Heretic wrote:

rookie_j70 wrote:I didnt respond back because I prolly would have said some pretty mean things.

Mistake.

You'd be surprised at how invigorating a good, "That's good, as I'd love to stay friends with a stupid cunt who, while dating me, was apparently blowing the ex she didn't want to talk about until he took her back. Can I wait until he gets tired of your pussy again and dumps you, so it's not TOO awkward?" comment can feel at a time like this.

She'd deserve it and couldn't be offended by having it thrown back in her face.

Heretic wrote:

rookie_j70 wrote:I didnt respond back because I prolly would have said some pretty mean things.

Mistake.

You'd be surprised at how invigorating a good, "That's good, as I'd love to stay friends with a stupid cunt who, while dating me, was apparently blowing the ex she didn't want to talk about until he took her back. Can I wait until he gets tired of your pussy again and dumps you, so it's not TOO awkward?" comment can feel at a time like this.

I should copy this and save it for future use

Text that shit to her!!

No cuz then u sound bitter.
Just ask if this means u gotta stop fuckin?

Of course, if you haven't started, it won't work.

Also, I'm not going to lie, her two friends (that I've met) are a little bit better looking than she is.

Heretic wrote:

rookie_j70 wrote:I didnt respond back because I prolly would have said some pretty mean things.

Mistake.

You'd be surprised at how invigorating a good, "That's good, as I'd love to stay friends with a stupid cunt who, while dating me, was apparently blowing the ex she didn't want to talk about until he took her back. Can I wait until he gets tired of your pussy again and dumps you, so it's not TOO awkward?" comment can feel at a time like this.

Not really, all girls are attention whores and that is probably what she wanted in the first place. 2 dudes fighting over her....... Chalk it up to a lesson learned

Kill her dude

rookie_j70 wrote: Also, I'm not going to lie, her two friends (that I've met) are a little bit better looking than she is.

the solution is obvious then... menage.

/obilgatory

We are getting some good counterpoints to my hate-texting, from murder to doing both her friends.

You could also go Oden on her and sext her pics of your junk.

Fly4Fun wrote: I feel for ya man... not much you can do.

I am currently "casually" dating some girl that I like a lot. She just doesn't want to be in a committed relationship because she was in a long one previously that didn't work out for her... oh well. I still date around just to keep my own mind and keep me from getting too involved with girl #1 in case she pulls a move like yours did with you.

It'd be one thing if they just broke up, but they've been apart for more than 6 months... so whatever. I think the "I just got out of a long relationship" thing is a lame excuse... if you really didn't want to date anyone, then why did you flirt and go out with me in the first place?

Oh well, shit happens.

(Sorry, I kinda just vented on your thread as it reminded me of my situation).

yeah, i know exactly how you feel.

Girls are stupid.
All of them get these ideas in their head that a certain guy is the one. Then no matter what that guy does they'll take him back,most even like it when the guy treats them like crap as it adds drama, which they enjoy. This past summer I dated a girl for about a month who had been dumped 3 different times by her ex, and he also stole money from her. I should have known that the second he was in a cold spell and needed a sure thing, she'd take him back, which is what happened. Pretty sure he dumped her again in September, as she texted me a few times then...
I think it's a red flag if a girl always talks about and ex, or completely refuses to say anything about him. Never fall for a girl who still has a thing for an ex, as at some point he'll falter and want some easy action, and she'll be more than willing to provide that...

that really sucks dude. I'm all for sending off Heretic's message to her... not sure how that'll go over for you but I'm sure you'll feel much better having sent it

rookie_j70 wrote: I've been talking to this girl for about three months now, and we've gone out on a few dates. She wanted to take things slow because of some stuff that happened in her previous relationship. She didn't really give me any details about how or why they broke up. She just didn't want to talk about so I respected that and left it at that. Anyways, last night I'm on my way to celebrate a friend's 21st and she texts me saying she needs to talk and wants me to call her. So I call her and she says; "hey im really sorry but, (him) and I are getting back together" I didn't really say anything, I just said "whatever I'll see ya around" she texts me saying "ohh im sorry if i hurt you, i still want to be friends" I didnt respond back because I prolly would have said some pretty mean things.

And fab1b; following your realtionship advice I would do her best friend and her other friend while I'm at it.

you will get to randomly bang her like 2 years from now

I just called her...to ask for my hoddie and Office Space DVD back

^^^^

I doubt you get it