Just kidding.

Just tell him you're not interested. By talking to him you've led him on. If you flat out tell him and he still calls, then he is mentally unstable. I had a very similar situation some time ago....with the rolls reversed. Once I was told flat out, I stopped bothering her....which turned out to be the best decision of my life. But if I hadn't been told, I would have still pursued. Men are a retarded race who don't get hints...we have to be told "yes" or "no." So tell him "no."

You opened that door and gave him an ear to talk into. Now you have to be honest with him and let him know look that is all I was doing if you don't want the hassle!

I wouldn't stand for my wife calling me 6 times per day nor any girlfriend before I was married. If an ex called me that frequently it would end very quickly. Nothing is so important that you need to call me 6 times in a day.

Ignore his phone calls, like a boss.

He has called 6 times and you haven't answered any of the calls?

I didn't tell him I was interested or that i still like him... he knows that is a closed door. I just open the door to being a "shoulder to cry on."

and i didnt ignore 6 calls... i was studying for part of them and then was taking a nap for the other.... I called him back... I did tell him that i don't even talk to my bf that much and that I am in law school so i can't just answer and what is the point of calling me 6 times I have caller ID and will call when i have a chance

sonofsam's advice is probably some of the best I've ever read on here.

mexappeal12 wrote: I didn't tell him I was interested or that i still like him... he knows that is a closed door. I just open the door to being a "shoulder to cry on."

I bet he doesn't see a difference between the door being open for "a shoulder to cry on" and getting a piece of ass.

Does anyone else get an antivirus message about the "this thread sucks" pic?

Yep I get that pop up too fathobbit

There is a trojan virus on this thread FYI.

Can a mod remove that pic?