There's going to be a little O-Trap

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O-Trap
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Apr 26, 2017 5:04pm
So, I mentioned awhile back that we were adopting. Now, the agency is putting that on hold, because Mrs. O-Trap is expecting. After about seven and a half years of trying, we're going to have a baby.

However, I don't get my company's insurance for another couple months. In the meantime, we're having to self-pay, which is on the pricey side.

We make okay money, so we've been able to afford things so far, and we have family willing to help if necessary, but are there any ideas out there on helping cover the visit and test costs for the next couple months, aside from government-instituted initiatives (which we would not likely qualify for, anyway)?
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Apr 26, 2017 5:07pm
O-Trap;1849953 wrote:So, I mentioned awhile back that we were adopting. Now, the agency is putting that on hold, because Mrs. O-Trap is expecting. After about seven and a half years of trying, we're going to have a baby.

However, I don't get my company's insurance for another couple months. In the meantime, we're having to self-pay, which is on the pricey side.

We make okay money, so we've been able to afford things so far, and we have family willing to help if necessary, but are there any ideas out there on helping cover the visit and test costs for the next couple months, aside from government-instituted initiatives (which we would not likely qualify for, anyway)?
Congrats!

I do appreciate the irony of asking about government led initiatives to help people while espousing libertarian values.
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friendfromlowry
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Apr 26, 2017 5:17pm
Deliver the baby yourself at home.
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O-Trap
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Apr 26, 2017 5:21pm
sleeper;1849955 wrote:Congrats!

I do appreciate the irony of asking about government led initiatives to help people while espousing libertarian values.
I said "aside from government-instituted initiatives." I wouldn't take them anyway, but I'm pretty sure we wouldn't qualify, even if I didn't have ethical reasons for not wanting them. ;)
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sleeper
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Apr 26, 2017 5:24pm
O-Trap;1849958 wrote:I said "aside from government-instituted initiatives." I wouldn't take them anyway, but I'm pretty sure we wouldn't qualify, even if I didn't have ethical reasons for not wanting them. ;)
There is nothing then. Good luck!
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O-Trap
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Apr 26, 2017 5:44pm
sleeper;1849959 wrote:There is nothing then. Good luck!
Thanks! In the end, we'll be alright, I'm sure. Just hoping for breathing room.
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Apr 26, 2017 5:50pm
Congratulations!

I've heard local radio ads about a conservative med-share type of thing before. I can't think of the name of it, though XD
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Apr 26, 2017 5:55pm
CenterBHSFan;1849964 wrote:Congratulations!

I've heard local radio ads about a conservative med-share type of thing before. I can't think of the name of it, though XD
I'm certainly open to checking it out. I'm sure I can dig up something with that much information. Thanks!
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Con_Alma
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Apr 26, 2017 6:51pm
O-Trap;1849965 wrote:I'm certainly open to checking it out. I'm sure I can dig up something with that much information. Thanks!
Congrats O-Trap!!!

https://mychristiancare.org/medi-share/
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O-Trap
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Apr 26, 2017 7:41pm
Con_Alma;1849971 wrote:Congrats O-Trap!!!

https://mychristiancare.org/medi-share/
Thanks!
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Apr 26, 2017 7:49pm
Congrats! As for the other issue of $$$ help, the number of clues I have = 0. But congrats!
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Con_Alma
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Apr 26, 2017 7:59pm
O-Trap;1849976 wrote:Thanks!
Good luck....although I don't know if medi-share covers pregnancy expenses.
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Apr 26, 2017 8:01pm
How exciting! Congrats! :)
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Zunardo
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Apr 26, 2017 8:18pm
Congratulations!

Time to stock up on dill pickle-flavored ice cream for the wife, and Kroger-brand disposable diapers for the new rugrat.
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Apr 26, 2017 8:22pm
That's awesome news. Congrats to you and your wife!
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Apr 26, 2017 9:36pm
Congrats!
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Apr 26, 2017 9:42pm
Congrats, be sure to teach your child from day one to hate taxes [emoji108].
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Apr 26, 2017 10:24pm
I don't know what is considered "pricey" for health insurance.

I recently had to purchase a gap insurance plan since I've changed jobs. For me and my two girls it costs $150-160 a month. It's a solid plan too. We'll be on it for maybe a little over a month to two months. My wife has her own insurance through her school district. I don't know how much it costs, but she said once another person or persons are added onto it the costs skyrocket. I don't know what that was though.
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friendfromlowry
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Apr 26, 2017 10:35pm
How far along is your wife? If she's still early on, you can probably get away with not many doctor visits or ultrasounds as long as everything has looked good so far.
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Sonofanump
Apr 26, 2017 11:24pm
Congrats, do what my parents did, check into the hospital at 12:01am so you don't get charged for an extra day.
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vball10set
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Apr 27, 2017 9:06am
very cool--congrats to you and Mrs. O-Trap!
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Apr 27, 2017 9:19am
like_that;1850017 wrote:Congrats, be sure to teach your child from day one to hate taxes [emoji108].
Echoed. Congrats man!
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jmog
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Apr 27, 2017 9:31am
Congrats!

Just don't go to the doctor for the next 3 months, take some over the counter prenatal vitamins and everything will be fine ;).

We had a similar situation with our second child actually, and we told her OBGYN that for the first couple months we would be paying out of pocket/cash and then would have insurance.

They REALLY backloaded the different tests/visits for us and only did the required visits/tests the first few months to make sure everything was 'ok' with mom and baby. I ended up having to pay less than $1000 total until we had insurance.

Just talk to the doctor up front and explain, they typically will work with you (mainly because they think most people paying up front end up not paying for like a decade).
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QuakerOats
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Apr 27, 2017 10:03am
Congratulations!

Sounds like the baby might be born before year-end, so you will get another exemption/deduction that will help.
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Apr 27, 2017 10:10am
Congrats!