rrfan
Posts: 1,922
Feb 4, 2016 10:09am
This unless he was divorced. If he was not then he probably is now.FatHobbit;1779918 wrote:Did the father in law get a bj in front of everyone? I don't know about everyone else but I try to go out of my way not to piss off my mother in law. I can't imagine that her husband getting a bj at the Bachelor party would be a good start to the relationship
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QuakerOats
Posts: 8,740
Feb 4, 2016 10:28am
Fab4Runner;1779839 wrote: I won't judge.
Well, you better start.
Fab4Runner
Posts: 6,196
Feb 4, 2016 10:35am
How consenting adults conduct their relationship is of no concern to me.QuakerOats;1779925 wrote:Well, you better start.
4cards
Posts: 2,551
Feb 4, 2016 10:36am
...the old boy was getting ready to unzip his fly when we told him it was a set up and that he wouldn't be getting any head, and since he wasn't married at the time, there was no mother in law to get pissed off at hm.....which would explain why he bought a couple of tickets to begin with...LOLFatHobbit;1779918 wrote:Did the father in law get a bj in front of everyone? I don't know about everyone else but I try to go out of my way not to piss off my mother in law. I can't imagine that her husband getting a bj at the Bachelor party would be a good start to the relationship
Dr Winston O'Boogie
Posts: 1,799
Feb 4, 2016 10:39am
I think of strip clubs this way - imagine if someone opened a beer, let you look at it, maybe touch it, smell it, but when you wanted to drink it said "no, that is not allowed". Now imagine paying for this over and over during the course of a three-four hour night. That is a strip club to me. Never cared for them.
I was never attempted to be bad at my bachelor party. In truth, this was because I got so hammered, I passed out.
"One last fling" is cheating in my book. But that's my book.
I was never attempted to be bad at my bachelor party. In truth, this was because I got so hammered, I passed out.
"One last fling" is cheating in my book. But that's my book.
sleeper
Posts: 27,879
Feb 4, 2016 12:07pm
Strip clubs are absolutely pointless and nasty.
Two reasons:
#1) If you are a decent looking guy with decent social skills and a decent wallet you can see naked women and actually have sex with them any time you want.
#2) If you are none of the above, the internet has plenty of videos/pictures of naked women.
Two reasons:
#1) If you are a decent looking guy with decent social skills and a decent wallet you can see naked women and actually have sex with them any time you want.
#2) If you are none of the above, the internet has plenty of videos/pictures of naked women.
sleeper
Posts: 27,879
Feb 4, 2016 12:09pm
Also "no" on the cheating at bachelor parties. What constitutes cheating depends on what the couple talks about PRIOR to the event happening. I know some people that allowed kissing/touching boobs but no sexual contact and that was completely fine.
rrfan
Posts: 1,922
Feb 4, 2016 12:14pm
Fab4 would he be able to get a BJ after you are married? You are right if the agreement is there nothing wrong. I know I would not want that in my relationship but to each there own.Fab4Runner;1779932 wrote:How consenting adults conduct their relationship is of no concern to me.
Heretic
Posts: 18,820
Feb 4, 2016 12:35pm
It'll all be cool, as long as things don't go as far as they did in that "Very Bad Things" film.
Bangin' strippers = A-OK!
Having to dispose of stripper corpses = Sort of shaky.
Bangin' strippers = A-OK!
Having to dispose of stripper corpses = Sort of shaky.
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Sonofanump
Feb 4, 2016 12:42pm
So you are starting your marriage like this?Fab4Runner;1779830 wrote: but if my fiancé got a blow j I don't really think I'd care.
Fab4Runner
Posts: 6,196
Feb 4, 2016 12:46pm
No, but it's our decision regardless.Sonofanump;1779971 wrote:So you are starting your marriage like this?
Fab4Runner
Posts: 6,196
Feb 4, 2016 12:56pm
I don't think so. I am not actually in favor of open relationships. I know a couple who has an open marriage and it works great for them, but I probably couldn't do it.rrfan;1779965 wrote:Fab4 would he be able to get a BJ after you are married? You are right if the agreement is there nothing wrong. I know I would not want that in my relationship but to each there own.
I just found the party topic interesting after hearing different people talk about it on the radio.
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Sonofanump
Feb 4, 2016 1:02pm
Sure, but my wife and I are honest with each other, trust each other, and don't have an "open/swinger" relationship. So, I wouldn't understand.Fab4Runner;1779972 wrote:No, but it's our decision regardless.
hasbeen
Posts: 6,504
Feb 4, 2016 1:06pm
This is awesome.arnie palmer;1779902 wrote:
One of the only single guys brought a drunk girl back from the bar, had sex with her, and then kicked her out. She tried to get the hotel sercurity to let her back into our room. When they came to the door we told them we never saw her before and they then kicked her out of the hotel.
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BR1986FB
Posts: 24,104
Feb 4, 2016 1:27pm
Don't judge me !Heretic;1779968 wrote:
Having to dispose of stripper corpses = Sort of shaky.
HitsRus
Posts: 9,206
Feb 4, 2016 1:33pm
anything that has prior to approval between consenting adults would not be cheating, but without such... it is. Even with approval, there is the situation where someone is 'cool' with it....until it actually happens...then you have to deal with the damage.What constitutes cheating depends on what the couple talks about PRIOR to the event happening
....starting to sound like Bill and Monica.. I know some people that allowed kissing/touching boobs but no sexual contact and that was completely fine.
Commander of Awesome
Posts: 23,151
Feb 4, 2016 1:34pm
I'd say have a joint bachelor/bachelorette party. If you don't want to have a joint one, have to ask yourself if you truly loe the person. Who else would you want to spend the time with other than the person you love?
/sarcasm
/sarcasm
DeyDurkie5
Posts: 11,324
Feb 4, 2016 2:10pm
You are asking the wrong site. To each their own. If you guys lay down guidelines and both are cool with it, then I don't see an issue.
You really want guys like Quaker, belly and hits answering this question?
You really want guys like Quaker, belly and hits answering this question?
Commander of Awesome
Posts: 23,151
Feb 4, 2016 2:12pm
She's not asking for your opinion (or theirs) on her matter (she already made her mind and provided her thoughts), she's inviting discussion on the topic. Nice comprehension there bud!DeyDurkie5;1779991 wrote:You are asking the wrong site. To each their own. If you guys lay down guidelines and both are cool with it, then I don't see an issue.
You really want guys like Quaker, belly and hits answering this question?
rrfan
Posts: 1,922
Feb 4, 2016 2:17pm
I think you would be okay with it prior to wedding until you found out that it happened. Then your mind would always wonder and think about it happening again.Fab4Runner;1779974 wrote:I don't think so. I am not actually in favor of open relationships. I know a couple who has an open marriage and it works great for them, but I probably couldn't do it.
I just found the party topic interesting after hearing different people talk about it on the radio.
HitsRus
Posts: 9,206
Feb 4, 2016 4:16pm
That's what I was saying a few posts back... Yeah, you might have approval and everything is okay... Right up until the time that it's NOT okay.rrfan;1779994 wrote:I think you would be okay with it prior to wedding until you found out that it happened. Then your mind would always wonder and think about it happening again.
Derkie wants to take a slap at us older guys, probably because he thinks we might be out of touch. But really, the "sexual revolution" began when we were in our prime, and we've been around a long time and seen a lot of shit.
I'll tell you this... While societal norms and opinion of what is morally acceptable changes,.... human emotions, feelings, motivations, and behavior are pretty constant.
ZWICK 4 PREZ
Posts: 7,733
Feb 4, 2016 4:57pm
yeah. Thanks for AIDS by the way.HitsRus;1780008 wrote: Derkie wants to take a slap at us older guys, probably because he thinks we might be out of touch. But really, the "sexual revolution" began when we were in our prime
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BR1986FB
Posts: 24,104
Feb 4, 2016 6:06pm
Umm, yeah....not exactly.ZWICK 4 PREZ;1780011 wrote:yeah. Thanks for AIDS by the way.
DeyDurkie5
Posts: 11,324
Feb 4, 2016 6:27pm
I guess I could've made a swing and a miss joke, but your sarcasm post did it.Commander of Awesome;1779993 wrote:She's not asking for your opinion (or theirs) on her matter (she already made her mind and provided her thoughts), she's inviting discussion on the topic. Nice comprehension there bud!
She is inviting discussion but doesn't want their opinion. Sounds about right for you COA.