What would be your response to the notion that the SCOTUS decision reflects an evolution already having taken place under most of the population's definition?
That's fine. It is the process that I abhor. The SCOTUS rightfully struck down DOMA in 2013, and should have returned it to the people's representatives to write a constitutionally correct law about domestic relationships, or none at all and let the government get completely out of the "marraige " business.
As to your kumquat, I understand your point, but it doesn't change the fact that what was termed a kumquat specifically, has been changed. There has to be some specificity in what terms mean such that what was written in 1950 means the same in 2015.
My argument is not anti gay or bigoted, it is about specificity in terms. I am in no way restricting the rights by asking that we call a "kumquat a kumquat"
All this meandering about "contracts" is circumferential. A contract is a contract, but it pertains to something. If it is a "land contract" you can change the rules and terms and parties in that contract but you can't change "land" and still have a "land contract". Except of course, by changing the very definition of land. Now you have a "land contract" but its meaning is not the same. Marriage has always been specifically man and woman, not any two people. So by changing the definition, what was written prior, no longer reflects the exact intent of the authors. So when we write laws, and then change the definitions of what was written, we no longer are true to author's intention. There is nothing wrong with evolving law. But a law written by the people should amended by the people not by the simple majority of 9 jurists unaccountable to the people.
I should not be told to "move to Canada" for sticking up for the traditional constitutional mechanisms nor should I be called a bigot for demanding that we hold true to specificity of terminology.
If congress, after thoughtful debate, wishes to change the legal definition of marriage I am 100% okay with that. More likely though, after all of the people's representatives have spoken, is that we would get a law about domestic partnerships, all equal with rights and privleges under the law to include not only marriages, but also same sex unions.