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ernest_t_bass

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Dec 30, 2014 3:40 PM
Today we laid to rest my father-in-law at the young age of 67. He struggled with emphysema for years, and pneumonia the past 3 winters. This winter he just couldn't fight it. We let him go in peace, doped up on morphine, so he felt no pain. In my 33.5 years of life, I have been fortunate to have never lost anyone close to me... until now. This has been one of the toughest things I've ever gone through, and to see my wife and her brothers go through this has been heartbreaking. Going through this has opened my eyes to just how valuable human life is, and to cherish and love those around you, and never take for granted any opportunity to spend time with the ones you love.
Dec 30, 2014 3:40pm
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sleeper

Legend

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Dec 30, 2014 3:42 PM
That's rough man. I'll keep you in my thoughts.

#AllLivesMatter
Dec 30, 2014 3:42pm
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thavoice

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14,376 posts
Dec 30, 2014 3:50 PM
sleeper;1690742 wrote:That's rough man. I'll keep you in my thoughts.

#AlloldwhitepeoplelivesMatter
Ditto
Dec 30, 2014 3:50pm
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GoChiefs

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Dec 30, 2014 4:10 PM
Sorry to hear ETB. If I could put my father in law in the ground and bring yours back, I'd do it in a heartbeat brotha!
Dec 30, 2014 4:10pm
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Belly35

Elderly Intellectual

9,716 posts
Dec 30, 2014 4:12 PM
67 years old WOW that hit home
I hope you had time to spend with him to learn about his times, appreciate his past and gain knowledge of what is gone. At 33.5 years old you’re halfway there, your times and past will be knowledge for someone else ….
Want to have a beer …. I’m buying
Dec 30, 2014 4:12pm
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Heretic

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18,820 posts
Dec 30, 2014 4:13 PM
Sorry to hear that. Stuff like that stinks.
Dec 30, 2014 4:13pm
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ernest_t_bass

12th Son of the Lama

24,984 posts
Dec 30, 2014 4:16 PM
Belly35;1690763 wrote:67 years old WOW that hit home
I hope you had time to spend with him to learn about his times, appreciate his past and gain knowledge of what is gone. At 33.5 years old you’re halfway there, your times and past will be knowledge for someone else ….
Want to have a beer …. I’m buying
My wife's side of the family is about as close as family's can come. Loved my FIL very much, and knew him well. I will be refereeing in Canton in March. You can buy me a beer then... but AFTER the game! :)
Dec 30, 2014 4:16pm
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Pick6

A USA American

14,946 posts
Dec 30, 2014 5:03 PM
Sorry to hear. Haven't dealt with death real close in a long time. Assume that will change anytime.



Fwiw- heard the other day that the government values each life at 9 mil.
Dec 30, 2014 5:03pm
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Belly35

Elderly Intellectual

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Jan 1, 2015 8:27 AM
ernest_t_bass;1690766 wrote:My wife's side of the family is about as close as family's can come. Loved my FIL very much, and knew him well. I will be refereeing in Canton in March. You can buy me a beer then... but AFTER the game! :)
beer and the best steak dinner also...
Jan 1, 2015 8:27am
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vdubb96

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Jan 2, 2015 10:50 AM
Sorry to hear ETB, prayers to your family!!!
Jan 2, 2015 10:50am
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BR1986FB

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24,104 posts
Jan 2, 2015 10:55 AM
Condolences to you and your family.
Jan 2, 2015 10:55am
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sherm03

I go balls deep.

7,349 posts
Jan 2, 2015 11:05 AM
That absolutely sucks. Sorry to hear that ETB. Thinking of you and your wife as you guys go through this.
Jan 2, 2015 11:05am
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gerb131

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Jan 2, 2015 11:12 AM
Sorry ETB. Buried a lot of people. Never gets easier.
Jan 2, 2015 11:12am
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Ironman92

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Jan 3, 2015 12:54 AM
So sorry to hear ETB. Thoughts are with your family.

Yesterday my aunt (mom's twin sister) passed away unexpectedly of a stomach aneurism....only 56. It's so hard dealing with everything that goes with it.
Jan 3, 2015 12:54am