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                                Mar 28, 2014 3:43pm
                            
                        Good lord, Belly, are you day drinking???Belly35;1597591 wrote:you ass that the hook that keeps you reading my post.. Shooten fish in a barrel...
thats why I have the largest reader participation
Belly35
                                                                            
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                                Mar 28, 2014 3:48pm
                            
                        why am I slurring spellingvball10set;1597597 wrote:Good lord, Belly, are you day drinking???
                                        
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                                Mar 28, 2014 3:56pm
                            
                        Belly35;1597599 wrote:why am I slurring spelling
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                                                                cbus4life
                                                                            
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                                Mar 28, 2014 5:13pm
                            
                        
                                The worst thing about "destination weddings" is calling them "destination weddings." Ugh.
                            
                        salto
                                                                            
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                                Mar 28, 2014 5:51pm
                            
                        If you have the option of attending both then this thread is really stupid.sportchampps;1597236 wrote:Should we go to both, neither, or just one.
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                                Mar 28, 2014 6:12pm
                            
                        
                                Wife and I got married at Aventura Spa Palace in Mexico.  We did an 8 day 7 night package and had 18 guests with us (9 couples) w/avg cost 3k per couple.  My package including wedding was 3800.  What a great vacation we had.  One of my groomsman is getting married back in Fl in May.  I'm best man and my wife is a bridesmaid.  After gift and travel, suit rental, dress, bachelor party, etc I'm looking between 2-3k just for a week back in Fl so compare that to a destination spot.
                            
                        
                                        
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                                                                MontyBrunswick
                                                                    
                                Mar 28, 2014 6:24pm
                            
                        I don't care who it is, I wouldn't pay anywhere near $3k to watch someone get married.Fab1b;1597658 wrote:Wife and I got married at Aventura Spa Palace in Mexico. We did an 8 day 7 night package and had 18 guests with us (9 couples) w/avg cost 3k per couple. My package including wedding was 3800. What a great vacation we had. One of my groomsman is getting married back in Fl in May. I'm best man and my wife is a bridesmaid. After gift and travel, suit rental, dress, bachelor party, etc I'm looking between 2-3k just for a week back in Fl so compare that to a destination spot.
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                                Mar 28, 2014 7:05pm
                            
                        Florida is a destination spot to most of the country.Fab1b;1597658 wrote:Wife and I got married at Aventura Spa Palace in Mexico. We did an 8 day 7 night package and had 18 guests with us (9 couples) w/avg cost 3k per couple. My package including wedding was 3800. What a great vacation we had. One of my groomsman is getting married back in Fl in May. I'm best man and my wife is a bridesmaid. After gift and travel, suit rental, dress, bachelor party, etc I'm looking between 2-3k just for a week back in Fl so compare that to a destination spot.
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                                Mar 28, 2014 7:36pm
                            
                        3k per couple.dlazz;1597661 wrote:I don't care who it is, I wouldn't pay anywhere near $3k to watch someone get married.
I paid 1300. Flight, hotel, food, booze. 7 days. You can't really get a better deal than that.
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                                Mar 28, 2014 8:01pm
                            
                        
                                ^exactly
                            
                        Fab4Runner
                                                                            
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                                Mar 28, 2014 8:14pm
                            
                        Yeah, I think my trip was around $1300 or so total as well. Seven days, four stops...and a fantastic vacation with almost all of my closest friends. There were almost 30 of us who actually stayed on the boat for the trip and 20 or so more who were just there for the ceremony/reception. It was the best time ever. I like to take one good vacation a year, so to me it was not a big deal for that to be the one. I actually preferred it that way since so many of us went. Can't think of another time when we will all take a trip like that again.Automatik;1597677 wrote:3k per couple.
I paid 1300. Flight, hotel, food, booze. 7 days. You can't really get a better deal than that.
                                        
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                                                                MontyBrunswick
                                                                    
                                Mar 28, 2014 8:36pm
                            
                        Still a bit much for a fucking wedding.Automatik;1597677 wrote:3k per couple.
I paid 1300. Flight, hotel, food, booze. 7 days. You can't really get a better deal than that.
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                                Mar 28, 2014 10:10pm
                            
                        
                                Fuck that noise.  All I will spend to go to a wedding is $35 for a toaster to give as a gift.
                            
                        OSH
                                                                            
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                                Mar 28, 2014 11:07pm
                            
                        
                                Heck, destination weddings sound much better than paying for a $6,000+ bar bill like we had at our wedding.
                            
                        Automatik
                                                                            
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                                Mar 28, 2014 11:29pm
                            
                        Don't forget the vacation part. Do you not like vacation?dlazz;1597704 wrote:Still a bit much for a fucking wedding.
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                                Mar 28, 2014 11:32pm
                            
                        He won't leave small town Ohio. Let alone go somewhere on vacation. Probably would miss his cat too much.Automatik;1597866 wrote:Don't forget the vacation part. Do you not like vacation?
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                                Mar 29, 2014 2:47am
                            
                        
                                Can't imagine traveling thousands of miles to make someone feel more important than they actually are.
                            
                        TedSheckler
                                                                            
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                                Mar 29, 2014 6:42am
                            
                        
                                Honestly, I would be embarrassed to ask anyone to pay that kind of money to attend my wedding. The only way I would have a wedding like this, is if I could afford to pay for the people's trip....which I can't.
                            
                        Belly35
                                                                            
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                                Mar 29, 2014 7:39am
                            
                        condoms includedAutomatik;1597677 wrote:3k per couple.
I paid 1300. Flight, hotel, food, booze. 7 days. You can't really get a better deal than that.
Belly35
                                                                            
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                                Mar 29, 2014 7:40am
                            
                        Case closed ....se-alum;1598014 wrote:Can't imagine traveling thousands of miles to make someone feel more important than they actually are.
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                                Mar 29, 2014 8:55am
                            
                        
                                If you have a destination wedding do everyone a favor and have transportation,hotel rooms,transfers, all set up through a travel agency so people can look at the package and decide if they have the resources to attend your wedding. Make it easy for them so that all they have to do is call the travel agent and everything is arranged.
                            
                        
                                        
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                                Mar 29, 2014 10:26am
                            
                        
                                The Final Destination of all weddings is eventually Hell...just sayin.
                            
                        
                                        
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                                                                MontyBrunswick
                                                                    
                                Mar 29, 2014 11:07am
                            
                        No, I didn't. It's not a vacation on my terms. The date and location is already chosen by someone else. If I'm going to sink that money into something, I'd much rather it be on my terms.Automatik;1597866 wrote:Don't forget the vacation part. Do you not like vacation?
also, this:
se-alum;1598014 wrote:Can't imagine traveling thousands of miles to make someone feel more important than they actually are.
                                        
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                                                                MontyBrunswick
                                                                    
                                Mar 29, 2014 11:08am
                            
                        SportsAndLady;1597874 wrote:He won't leave small town Ohio.
I live in Columbus.
Hope this helps.
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                                Mar 29, 2014 11:09am
                            
                        
                                If you don't like the terms, then you don't go. Simple concept.