I didn't imply you did suggest it was fair. I was further clarifying my position...not yours. I don't disagree that no matter how much I desire for them to be prepared that they still may indeed be unable to achieve. I have never disputed that. It doesn't change that more than wanting the best for them I want to foster a desire and ability to seek a better lifestyle.O-Trap;1475642 wrote:I didn't suggest it was fair. That wasn't the intent of the deck-stacking comment. My comment was to suggest that you might by disheartened to see your children MORE empowered and equipped than you ever were, and still not able to live happily because of the disproportionate difficulty in affording life today, particularly for starting out....
They couldn't go without them even if they wanted to. I'm talking about the basics: eating, housing, driving, heat, etc. They won't likely be able to go without these things, and yet how might you encourage someone to not go without them and still encourage them not to take out a loan for them if the person does not have the funds to do so.O-Trap;1475642 wrote:...The problem is, there are those who, on a month-to-month basis, are not able to afford the basic necessities because of how expensive they are in proportion to the person's take-home pay. It's not as simple as "get a better paying job," because they're often already to the point where they would do so if such a job existed for someone of their education and experience level. Essentially, every month is an "emergency" in regard to feeding everyone enough to live....
I don't disagree that unnecessary loans are foolish. I'm suggesting that the loans we're talking about here are not always unnecessary, at least not for everybody. ...[/quote]
That is indeed a problem...one in which is not solved by take on debt. Staying in the house where they had been fed and sheltered would solve such a problem. Going elsewhere and taking on debt to cover such expenses doesn't.
The loans I'm talking about are in the form of student loans that are used for room and board.
I disagree that it's even similar...even if were it's not the same which is what I stated.O-Trap;1475642 wrote: ...Not in motivation, you're right. In function, however, it's quite similar.
As such, based on the logic you've articulated about necessities and their relationship to loans, Social Security is a bad idea. As such, would you, then, agree that it should be done away with?
Being forced to place money for future use and then having the fiduciary misuse or mismanage the assets is not even close to being the same as choosing to take a loan out.