Justin, regarding the poll you'll make later today to vote on my mod status

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Jun 27, 2013 10:09am
If you're making the poll because you personally aren't sure what to do and whether or not I am a harm, I'll gladly step down. I'm only a moderator to try to help the site. There really isn't much of a "benefit" since we aren't paid. We usually receive grief when we do enforce rules. The only "benefits" are that we get to dick around in this forum and occasionally see who the alternate identities are through IP addresses. You don't need a justification of a poll for me to remove my moderator status if you think that's in the best interest of this place as it is your website so your opinion is ultimately what matters.

But if you're making the poll to appease the complaints, then I'll stay on if I win and graciously give up my mod status if I lose. I'll still post either way.
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Jun 27, 2013 10:19am
After reading through the stuff I missed last night it's a little bit of both. I am truly at a loss as to what to do and I think just putting it up for a vote is the easiest thing to do. I don't personally think you are causing harm to the site, but when I see the posts from Curly J, a guy I know personally and respect the shit out of, it made things a little different. Certainly nothing personal against you, I just think the demand for a vote is there and it will, in the end, make things much easier on me.
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Jun 27, 2013 10:28am
Personally im not a fan of of giving CoA and LT a chance to "win"

I will say, though, F4F that your posting in that thread didn't help
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Jun 27, 2013 10:28am
Smh...so out of curiousity...I pm'ed like_that.
GoChiefs wrote:Serious question and not being a dick. Since justin us putting it up for vote...if F4F is voted out...does that mean that constant trolling and being assholes go certain posters on every thread stops too? It seems like some think thats the problem, while others think its F4F.

like_that wrote: I can't say I will have a halo on my head, I am still going to be me. I will take more of an effort to hold back on a few certain dipshits, and if I must I will just use the basement. However you most likely won't see bitching about moderation, unless Justin has some secret agenda where he takes on cry4fails role. It wouldn't surprise me one bit if he did.
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Jun 27, 2013 10:31am
unless Justin has some secret agenda where he takes on cry4fails role. It wouldn't surprise me one bit if he did.
The fuck, man?
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Jun 27, 2013 10:33am
LJ;1463777 wrote:Personally im not a fan of of giving CoA and LT a chance to "win"
I don't disagree. But without doing this I'm going to lose, so...
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Jun 27, 2013 10:33am
justincredible;1463784 wrote:The fuck, man?

No shit. That's why I posted it here. Just seems like a no win situation. They are always going to find something to bitch about.
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Jun 27, 2013 10:40am
GoChiefs;1463790 wrote:No shit. That's why I posted it here. Just seems like a no win situation. They are always going to find something to bitch about.
This is the case. I really do think it's a no win situation for me. And I think it'll ultimately be a no win situation for Justin in the long run in the minds of the few troubled individuals.

I mean look at the response to the poll question in the original thread. They think you've skewed it with how you worded it. They also claimed that you've tampered with it as people, who don't post frequently, voted that they were the problem and not me.

Anyways, whatever the result, life will go on and I don't think much will really change in the behavior of CoA/Like_That/S&L/Sleeper. I mean, if I lose mod status they will most likely be on their best behavior for a short period of time, but they will resume to their status quo. If I win in the poll, they'll continue their crusade.
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Jun 27, 2013 10:49am
justincredible;1463789 wrote:I don't disagree. But without doing this I'm going to lose, so...
You're going to lose this way too. If they vote F4F out, they are just gonna jump on someone next.

Honestly, I think you should just un super-mod him and make him a forum specific mod. Everyone "wins" then.
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Jun 27, 2013 11:04am
LJ;1463807 wrote:You're going to lose this way too. If they vote F4F out, they are just gonna jump on someone next.

Honestly, I think you should just un super-mod him and make him a forum specific mod. Everyone "wins" then.

But on the flip side, if they move onto someone else, its just going to prove that they can never be made happy and are just whiney bitches.
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Jun 27, 2013 11:05am
GoChiefs;1463836 wrote:But on the flip side, if they move onto someone else, its just going to prove that they can never be made happy and are just whiney bitches.
They are gonna move onto someone else. That's a given.
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Jun 27, 2013 11:11am
LJ;1463838 wrote:They are gonna move onto someone else. That's a given.
I think we know that's a given. But there are people that do believe what they have to say, such as Curly J.
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Jun 27, 2013 11:14am
Ive never had an issue with any Mod on here. But reading that thread for 24 hours, it seems like a vote is the only way to go.
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Jun 27, 2013 11:19am
Laley23;1463857 wrote:Ive never had an issue with any Mod on here. But reading that thread for 24 hours, it seems like a vote is the only way to go.
That's where I am at.

And while they probably will just move on to someone else, I think that will actually expose them for what they truly are to everyone else. It would show that they truly cannot be happy unless they are running the show.
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Jun 27, 2013 11:22am
justincredible;1463871 wrote:That's where I am at.

And while they probably will just move on to someone else, I think that will actually expose them for what they truly are to everyone else. It would show that they truly cannot be happy unless they are running the show.
I think you're right with this. The vote is the way to go. And if I do lose out, and they do eventually move on to someone else, then they're exposed. But as I said, I think they will probably behave for a bit before they fall back into their normal routine.

Anyways, I'm interested in seeing what the poll thread looks like. It's kind of exciting in it's own way.
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Jun 27, 2013 11:28am
I haven't decided whether to keep the vote thread open for discussion like the current one, or just close it and sticky it. Thoughts?
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Jun 27, 2013 11:28am
like_that;1463875 wrote:So, did you send gochiefs to ask me that question privately, or did he do it himself and he was a weasel rat. Either way, you could have asked me yourself, or it is pretty girly of gochiefs to be a weasel rat.

Just so it is not taken out of context, because it seems like you have taken it out of context. I said you will def wotn see complaining out of me about moderation. UNLESS you decide to take on the role of f4f to make a point, which wouldn't surprise me. I don't think you will, but it wouldn't be the first time where you tried to prove your point.
Justin, pounce on this
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Jun 27, 2013 11:30am
LJ;1463892 wrote:Justin, pounce on this
I already responded.
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Jun 27, 2013 11:33am
LJ;1463838 wrote:They are gonna move onto someone else. That's a given.
This. I remember us, a long time ago, thinking that it'd be "over" after they drove Dynasty off, but then they moved to other people. I mean, seriously, I don't agree with a lot of what MB posts as far as politics go and I do think he has a bit of a "better than you" syndrome when he argues with people...but they're just so fucking petty with constantly harassing him because he seems to be well off and goes from country to country all the time and that comes out in his posts.

If Fly goes, well, they don't have a great relationship with LJ. And then there's how Chiefs is willing to get into head-on arguments with people, so he's always a potential target. Or Justin, as Like That's PM to Chiefs (as well as a lot of his recent posts) seem to indicate he feels Justin is ripe for the same sort of targeting.

To me, whether Fly stays or goes as a mod is the least important issue, at least compared with those guys picking posters they don't like and constantly harassing them (and then brushing it off as simply "busting balls") to drive them off under the "hurt feelz" label. That shit has to stop under no certain terms. It's just laughable how they take no responsibility for any traffic decline and seem clueless that they could be doing it (ie: like that bitching about the poll because guys who never post any more voted against him...gee, dude, you think there's a chance they don't post because a few of you are assholes to everyone who doesn't meet your "good poster" standards?). That's something that will have to be made clear immediately, too, because if it would be determined by his choice, Justin's choice or a vote, that Fly does step down and if he would still be a participating member of the site, you know every single one of the assholes is going to want to tee off on him non-stop the second his name shows up in a different color.

I was going to post last night on the poll thread when DA and Curly were there but decided not to because I had a good buzz and figured I'd just go on a tangent and confuse the issue, but...

I get that Fly probably didn't help his cause with a bunch of long-winded responses that some people who are typically reasonable took to be arrogant, self-serving or whatnot...but when dealing with guys like LT, CoA, etc. who go out of their way to be assholes, I mean, what the fuck? It seems they're going against Fly for the simple reason he feels the need to defend himself on that thread against the assholes. Like this bizarre, "It's cool when they base their lives around attacking you, but NOPE!!!! You can't do nuthin' about it or YOU ARE THE PROBLEM!" sort of vibe. Man, if I was in that situation, I just know things would be different because by this point, I'd have abandoned all attempts to sound professional about things and would have gone full-Durkie on anyone from Like That to Curly with GFY's galore.
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Jun 27, 2013 12:15pm
LJ;1463777 wrote:Personally im not a fan of of giving CoA and LT a chance to "win"

I will say, though, F4F that your posting in that thread didn't help

Apologies in advance for the harshness of this post....

This. Even pretending to give them a say is horseshit. We know they're delusional and way off base, what exactly has this week of them getting to plead their case accomplished? Stop giving them fucking attention.

Just permaban them to the basement. They can be assholes forever but one has to choose to go read it. Normal forums will then be tolerable. I'd still just straight ban them, but I know that's not going to happen
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Jun 28, 2013 8:39am
I think if you have less than 60% "no" you should tell them to fuck off and leave him as a mod

I also think that LT, CoA and Slepper's votes should be disregarded LOL
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Jun 28, 2013 9:03am
I think it's so funny that Wildcats is being outspoken about being anti-F4F, but if he just would have done his job moderating they would have never felt they could do anything they wanted, and we wouldn't be in this position.
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Jun 28, 2013 9:32am
I'm heading out for the weekend and will be nowhere near the Internet and all of its assorted shitstorms until sometime Sunday afternoon.

Regardless of how this vote deal turns out, it probably should be hammered into the asshole brigade that, whether they like to admit it or not, they definitely don't help with things like site traffic when they decide they dislike a poster (dynasty, jordo, fly, rock, etc) and constantly stalk them all over the site, derailing every single thread that poster says anything on in order to get their shots in.

I mean, I'm cool with people thinking this or that about other posters, mods, whatever, but it's just kinda pathetic that they are incapable of admitting that anything they do might be *gasp* wrong. It's not "busting balls" that leads to dumbasses getting "hurt feelz"...it's just being a persistent asshole and that's more a problem here than anything else.
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Jun 28, 2013 9:41am
Heretic;1464900 wrote:I'm heading out for the weekend and will be nowhere near the Internet and all of its assorted shitstorms until sometime Sunday afternoon.

Regardless of how this vote deal turns out, it probably should be hammered into the asshole brigade that, whether they like to admit it or not, they definitely don't help with things like site traffic when they decide they dislike a poster (dynasty, jordo, fly, rock, etc) and constantly stalk them all over the site, derailing every single thread that poster says anything on in order to get their shots in.

I mean, I'm cool with people thinking this or that about other posters, mods, whatever, but it's just kinda pathetic that they are incapable of admitting that anything they do might be *gasp* wrong. It's not "busting balls" that leads to dumbasses getting "hurt feelz"...it's just being a persistent asshole and that's more a problem here than anything else.
Yeah, I absolutely agree with this entire post and will definitely let them know that they need to tone the shit down. If you want to bust someone's balls a little for saying something stupid in a thread, go ahead. But stop dragging it all over the site.

Also, wildcats PM'd me and said he'd be a mod again if Fly was booted. Heh. I like him a lot personally but...

Wes also said yesterday he'd be willing to come back and mod since he's been around more lately. His coming back was not contingent on Fly getting the boot.
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Jun 28, 2013 9:44am
justincredible;1464905 wrote:Yeah, I absolutely agree with this entire post and will definitely let them know that they need to tone the shit down. If you want to bust someone's balls a little for saying something stupid in a thread, go ahead. But stop dragging it all over the site.

Also, wildcats PM'd me and said he'd be a mod again if Fly was booted. Heh. I like him a lot personally but...

Wes also said yesterday he'd be willing to come back and mod since he's been around more lately. His coming back was not contingent on Fly getting the boot.
Yeah I would definitely like Wes back. Wildcats not so much. Wes actually did a lot of good moderating