Suicide

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SnotBubbles
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Oct 19, 2012 8:00am
GoChiefs;1298834 wrote:I know a few people that beat cancer.
Terminal stage cancer. Like you're going to die a slow, painful death in 1-2 months.

If that happens to me....I get drunk, post on JJHuddlez....then (actually do) off myself. If it gets terminal, no point in suffering. Tell your family good bye, ask for their blessing and be gone.
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Oct 19, 2012 8:37am
Pick6;1281664 wrote:There was a kid a few years ago, a year out of high school, that shot himself in the head because some chick he was talking to/used to date/involved with in some way accused him of rape. I didnt know him personally, but through mutual friends, heard he was a good person and they couldnt see him doing something like that.

I hope the bitch rots in hell.
But what if he actually did it? People say the same thing about rapists and murderers all the time.
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Oct 19, 2012 9:01am
Sykotyk;1298799 wrote:Yeah, it's their choice. But, it affects a lot more people than the one to end their life. That's the selfish thing about it. It really is a "Screw you guys, I'm taking my ball and going home" attitude.

Life is NOT that bad. Everybody has crap that goes wrong. Things happening at the most inopportune time. But, it gets better. It always gets better.

Life doesn't get easier. You just get better at it.
This post is absurd. Comparing problems that everyone has to the worst of the worst that can happen that may drive someone to suicide.
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Oct 19, 2012 9:27am
SnotBubbles;1298839 wrote:Terminal stage cancer. Like you're going to die a slow, painful death in 1-2 months.

If that happens to me....I get drunk, post on JJHuddlez....then (actually do) off myself. If it gets terminal, no point in suffering. Tell your family good bye, ask for their blessing and be gone.
I agree with this statement. I have always wanted to go out on my terms. Probably three hookers an ounce of coke and some scotch or boones farm.
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Oct 19, 2012 9:50am
Rotinaj;1298875 wrote:This post is absurd. Comparing problems that everyone has to the worst of the worst that can happen that may drive someone to suicide.
First, if you're religious, then what comes next would definitely be worse.

If you're not religious, your world exists only from your point of view. Death would simply end the world to you. You wouldn't remember anything. You wouldn't be 'escaping' anything. Millionaires commit suicide. How tough is their life?

It's a mental defect that lets people see the world as if it's a movie they can just turn off and everything will be fine.
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MontyBrunswick
Oct 19, 2012 9:54am
Sykotyk;1298915 wrote:First, if you're religious, then what comes next would definitely be worse.

If you're not religious, your world exists only from your point of view. Death would simply end the world to you. You wouldn't remember anything. You wouldn't be 'escaping' anything. Millionaires commit suicide. How tough is their life?

It's a mental defect that lets people see the world as if it's a movie they can just turn off and everything will be fine.
I guess that's a narrow-minded way to look at it.
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Oct 19, 2012 10:25am
Sykotyk;1298799 wrote:Life is NOT that bad. Everybody has crap that goes wrong. Things happening at the most inopportune time. But, it gets better. It always gets better.
I agree with this. I'm curious how many people here have ever thought about it. I'll admit I have. But you're right, if you just keep trying it always gets better
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Oct 19, 2012 10:28am
dlazz;1298921 wrote:I guess that's a narrow-minded way to look at it.
I agree with this.

The world is fucked up. There is a lot of shit out there that people go through that most of us could never fathom. I'm not going to call someone selfish for wanting out when I have NO IDEA what they're going through. Sure, it could be something small that shouldn't drive anyone to such a drastic measure. I'd guess that the vast majority of people that make that decision, however, aren't taking the decision lightly. You can say it's selfish and does nothing but bring pain to the family, but if the person is truly going through some shit why should they remain absolutely miserable for the rest of their lives just to spare their family a little heartbreak?
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Oct 19, 2012 10:31am
FatHobbit;1298947 wrote:I agree with this. I'm curious how many people here have ever thought about it. I'll admit I have. But you're right, if you just keep trying it always gets better
That's easy for the average person to say. The average person doesn't generally face the problems that drive people to end their life.
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Oct 19, 2012 10:46am
justincredible;1298952 wrote:That's easy for the average person to say. The average person doesn't generally face the problems that drive people to end their life.
You're right. I can't speak for other people. I should not have typed it like that and just replied from my own perspective. I have considered suicide several times. I kept trying and things have always improved for me.
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Oct 19, 2012 11:47am
Fab4Runner;1298860 wrote:But what if he actually did it? People say the same thing about rapists and murderers all the time.
Good point. There is more to the story than I can really comment on. I know she was still in high school. Not sure on age. It's a slippery slope anytime you are a young guy messing around with girls stil in high school. Glad I stayed away from that. One mess up or getting on the family's bad side and you can be in some trouble.
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Oct 19, 2012 1:31pm
Pick6;1298999 wrote:Good point. There is more to the story than I can really comment on. I know she was still in high school. Not sure on age. It's a slippery slope anytime you are a young guy messing around with girls stil in high school. Glad I stayed away from that. One mess up or getting on the family's bad side and you can be in some trouble.
Definitely agree with that. And I am not saying he did it since I obviously do not know anything about the situation at all. Just think it's a little extreme to say you hope she rots in hell when it sounds like neither story has been proven to be true.
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sportchampps
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Oct 19, 2012 1:34pm
Pick6 I knew someone in a very similar situation. He actually was arrested and hung himself in jail. He was a year younger then me and I only knew him from Sunday football games. His friends all thought the girl was making it up as well but who really knows.