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ZWICK 4 PREZ
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Jun 19, 2012 10:48am
thavoice;1204397 wrote:But if she had.....I would have the same standards as I would if she was dating a white dude.
He would have to take all the shit from your daughter that you have to take from your wife?
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Crimson streak
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Jun 19, 2012 12:11pm
My daughter is gonna be 2 in 2 weeks so I have a while to worry about this. But I wouldn't care as long as it wasn't some douche bag thug and if he treated her I would have no problem. But the attitude on my little girl I don't have to worry, she takes after her mother ;)
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Jun 19, 2012 12:43pm
Con_Alma;1204241 wrote:Why do you ask?
DeyDurkie5;1204110 wrote:I just wanted to hear the opinions of the chatter masses.
this

Curly J;1204183 wrote:Hell Dey my daughter is 26 and newly divorced. Maybe I should set you two up...On second thought I'd rather she date a black guy.

Our first date would be drinking your beer stash:D
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GoChiefs
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Jun 19, 2012 12:47pm
queencitybuckeye;1204315 wrote:Why would you not approve?
Just the way I was raised I guess. I was brought up that interracial relationships were wrong. Am I retarded for still having that belief? Yeah, probably, but oh well. Like I said, I'd still respect it and accept it. I wouldn't get pissed or disown anyone over it.
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Jun 19, 2012 12:50pm
DeyDurkie5;1204574 wrote:Our first date would be drinking your beer stash:D
Hmmm, good point. Curly, I'd like you to set me up with your daughter. Jessica won't care, I promise.
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Jun 19, 2012 12:52pm
GoChiefs;1204581 wrote:Just the way I was raised I guess. I was brought up that interracial relationships were wrong. Am I retarded for still having that belief? Yeah, probably, but oh well. Like I said, I'd still respect it and accept it. I wouldn't get pissed or disown anyone over it.
You were brought up that way, know it's wrong, but still do it?
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justincredible
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Jun 19, 2012 12:55pm
DeyDurkie5;1204590 wrote:You were brought up that way, know it's wrong, but still do it?
At the same time he says he'd accept and respect it.
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queencitybuckeye
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Jun 19, 2012 2:59pm
DeyDurkie5;1204590 wrote:You were brought up that way, know it's wrong, but still do it?
What's more important is that he doesn't pass it on to the next generation.
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Jun 19, 2012 3:02pm
justincredible;1204587 wrote:Hmmm, good point. Curly, I'd like you to set me up with your daughter. Jessica won't care, I promise.
Wait a minute! I love drinking people's beer stashes and I don't even have the baggage of a current wife!
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Jun 19, 2012 3:16pm
Curly J;1204183 wrote:Hell Dey my daughter is 26 and newly divorced. Maybe I should set you two up...On second thought I'd rather she date a black guy.

She wants that BBC.
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Jun 19, 2012 3:18pm
I wouldn't care. But I also doubt too many people are going to come out and say they would.
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killer_ewok
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Jun 19, 2012 3:19pm
My daughter will turn 2 on Thursday so this is a long ways away for me but I honestly would not care as long as he is a good dude.

I would probably talk to her about what she's getting into in regards to some people staring, dirty looks, comments, bi-racial children having to deal with shit, etc. Not to discourage her, but to let her know what she will have to deal with sometimes.
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Jun 19, 2012 4:51pm
DeyDurkie5;1203903 wrote:If your daughter started dating a black guy, would you be pissed?


Belly, I already know your answer.
You think:

My daughters know my standards. (believe it or not race is not part of the equation) </SPAN>
But my standard isn’t want is important in this issue are they. I love my daughters and if I truly mean that then what makes them happen, full fills their lives, honors and respect them, willing to be a provider spiritual and financial what more can a father ask for.
Plus i get some to help with the Smoker/BBQ win win bro:D</SPAN>
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GoChiefs
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Jun 19, 2012 6:19pm
queencitybuckeye;1204790 wrote:What's more important is that he doesn't pass it on to the next generation.
Which I don't. That's one of my beliefs that I will not push upon my son. I don't even talk about it around him. That is something that he can make his own judgement on and decide whether or not he believes it's right or wrong.
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GoChiefs
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Jun 19, 2012 6:22pm
DeyDurkie5;1204590 wrote:You were brought up that way, know it's wrong, but still do it?
Mainly because I have a cousin that is a product of an interracial relationship and she has gone through all kinds of shit for it.
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rmolin73
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Jun 19, 2012 7:34pm
I'm a product of an interracial relationship black/hispanic and my wife is white. There are more and more interracial relationships than there has been in the past and people are more open minded about them in my opinion. When we are out with our kids I get no dirty looks from white people nor do I feel that there will be any issues for my kids in the future. But I will add the most crap and dirty looks that I get are from black people primarily black women.
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Jun 19, 2012 9:18pm
DeyDurkie5;1203903 wrote:If your daughter started dating a black guy, would you be pissed?
No.
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Jun 20, 2012 1:42am
rmolin73;1205049 wrote:I'm a product of an interracial relationship black/hispanic and my wife is white. There are more and more interracial relationships than there has been in the past and people are more open minded about them in my opinion. When we are out with our kids I get no dirty looks from white people nor do I feel that there will be any issues for my kids in the future. But I will add the most crap and dirty looks that I get are from black people primarily black women.
Black women are the worst.

/racistsexist
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O-Trap
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Jun 20, 2012 1:48am
hoops23;1205885 wrote:Black women are the worst.

/racistsexist
#belly'd

I keed.