You people who think this is ok are idiots.

I'm signing up for Tap :laugh:

Steel Valley Football;1069817 wrote:You people who think this is ok are idiots.

When it comes to the law, yes. Adults should have the sense in today's society not to put themselves in the place where the situation happened with this woman and this young man.

It's not the first time something like this has happened. It won't be the last. Just the other night we were reading through Trivial Pursuit questions and there was one that mentioned the chick who went to jail for a few years and then got out and married the "boy" she committed the "crime" with.

It wasn't that long ago that a 30-something Northmont HS male teacher had an affair with a female student who happened to be one of my daughter's best friends. I was appalled the teacher did it and was supportive of the court for throwing the guy in jail. Not surprising, his wife divorced him too.

In the case of the OP, I don't find myself influenced as much by a criminal act having been perpetrated and do not feel as bad for the young man having gone through the experience as I did for my daughter's friend. But then again, the case with my daughter's friend hit closer to home than the tap dancer case does.

Right or wrong, there is an obvious difference in how both the court of law and the court of public opinion, myself included, comments on the consequences of both the gender and age of those involved in cases like this. Protection of girls seems to be the prevalence in most cases. Idiotic or not, I don't feel off-base by much.

^^^^^

Right or wrong, you are right. There is a double standard.

Her mug shot made me think of Sasha Alexander and Marin Hinkle.

Steel Valley Football;1069817 wrote:You people who think this is ok are idiots.

Im sure youd be traumitized for life if you were a 15 year old boy drillin a hot dance instructor

Hb31187;1069925 wrote:Im sure youd be traumitized for life if you were a 15 year old boy drillin a hot dance instructor

yep. i just can't see a therapy session starting with "it all started the moment i began banging my hot dance instructor when i was 15..."

Apple;1069878 wrote:When it comes to the law, yes. Adults should have the sense in today's society not to put themselves in the place where the situation happened with this woman and this young man.

It's not the first time something like this has happened. It won't be the last. Just the other night we were reading through Trivial Pursuit questions and there was one that mentioned the chick who went to jail for a few years and then got out and married the "boy" she committed the "crime" with.

It wasn't that long ago that a 30-something Northmont HS male teacher had an affair with a female student who happened to be one of my daughter's best friends. I was appalled the teacher did it and was supportive of the court for throwing the guy in jail. Not surprising, his wife divorced him too.

In the case of the OP, I don't find myself influenced as much by a criminal act having been perpetrated and do not feel as bad for the young man having gone through the experience as I did for my daughter's friend. But then again, the case with my daughter's friend hit closer to home than the tap dancer case does.

Right or wrong, there is an obvious difference in how both the court of law and the court of public opinion, myself included, comments on the consequences of both the gender and age of those involved in cases like this. Protection of girls seems to be the prevalence in most cases. Idiotic or not, I don't feel off-base by much.

Which, is ironic since the effects from this will be mental and not physical and girls are psychologically ahead of boys at 14 & 15 yrs.

The second issue is that she's likely done this before and likely to even younger boys. So is that ok if the boy is 14 or 13? How about 12? Pedophiles put themselves in positions that are around children. She's likely also done this to girls his age and younger. Is that still ok since it's an adult woman and a young girl or no? Some of you can answer now or after you go spank it.

dazedconfused;1069944 wrote:yep. i just can't see a therapy session starting with "it all started the moment i began banging my hot dance instructor when i was 15..."

Unless the question was, "when did you become so awesome?"

Hb31187;1069925 wrote:Im sure youd be traumitized for life if you were a 15 year old boy drillin a hot dance instructor

So there will be no mental effects from this at all? Ok, it's all good then I guess.

This one time, at dance class............

Steel Valley Football;1069973 wrote:So there will be no mental effects from this at all? Ok, it's all good then I guess.

There will be mental effects. His popularity will skyrocket and his self-esteem will be through the roof. Especially once he starts rocking his luckiest boy in America medal.

Steel Valley Football;1069973 wrote:So there will be no mental effects from this at all? Ok, it's all good then I guess.

Not negative ones. When you were 15 if a 30 some year old milf wanted to rock your world would you be traumatized?

So its ok for some woman teacher to rape teens, but not for some old fuck to rape teens. Good logic, OC.

^^^ Only on here would I expect this attitude! lol

Pick6;1070567 wrote:So its ok for some woman teacher to rape teens, but not for some old fuck to rape teens. Good logic, OC.

Who said it was rape?

Tiger2003;1070585 wrote:Who said it was rape?

Pretty sure the law does.

Pick6;1070613 wrote:Pretty sure the law does.

Im a rapist by law. Im also not Jerry Sandusky.

I was also raped by law (ok, dont technically know age of consent in Cali, but I assume it is not 15). The girl was not Jerry Sandusky.

Steel Valley Football;1069969 wrote: The second issue is that she's likely done this before and likely to even younger boys. So is that ok if the boy is 14 or 13? How about 12? Pedophiles put themselves in positions that are around children. She's likely also done this to girls his age and younger. Is that still ok since it's an adult woman and a young girl or no? Some of you can answer now or after you go spank it.

That is completely speculating on situations that we have no knowledge and no proof of.

As for this case, a 15 year old boy if healthy and not with mental issues, is probably not turning down a hot teacher. I doubt he has mental issues.

I was fucking at age 15. I do not have mental issues 10 years later. Maybe they are in my future though, who knows.

if they truly wanted to stop this, punish the kids too.

ccrunner609;1070634 wrote:there was no rape commited. THat kid probably couldnt get naked fast enough.

smh

ccrunner609;1070634 wrote:there was no rape commited. THat kid probably couldnt get naked fast enough.

not surprising coming from you.

http://www.jimhopper.com/pdfs/Lisak_%281994%29_Male_Survivor_Interviews.pdf

tldr

Of course not. You'd stfu if you read it.

Steel Valley Football;1071034 wrote:Of course not. You'd stfu if you read it.

Probably not. Theres no way that boys traumatized from drilling a 30 year old milf