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Sonofanump
Nov 3, 2011 12:21am
I'd like to help. Should I go to Diamonds, Platnuim, Deja Vu or Club Rog?
Fab1b
Posts: 12,949
Nov 3, 2011 12:35am
^ha we live in Fl anyways
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Sonofanump
Nov 3, 2011 12:36am
Oh, I thought the family was from western Ottawa County.Fab1b;955715 wrote:^ha we live in Fl anyways
Fab1b
Posts: 12,949
Nov 3, 2011 12:45am
Sonofanump;955716 wrote:Oh, I thought the family was from western Ottawa County.
We are I moved here in 95 rest of fam in 99/00.
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Sonofanump
Nov 3, 2011 12:45am
I guess I can't help then. Sorry.
-Society-
Posts: 1,348
Nov 3, 2011 12:52am
What's wrong with making a living as a stripper? Do you go to strip clubs?
Fab1b
Posts: 12,949
Nov 3, 2011 12:55am
Actually society believe it or not I don't I hate them biggest rip off ever!! If I ain't gettin it I damn sure ain't paying for it. Probably only ever been 5 or 6 times ever years ago.
dwccrew
Posts: 7,817
Nov 3, 2011 1:29am
Your family is white trash.
Hope this helps.
Hope this helps.
Fab1b
Posts: 12,949
Nov 3, 2011 1:33am
dwccrew;955734 wrote:Your family is white trash.
Hope this helps.
Unfortunately I'm not disagreeing! That is exactly the way they are living!! However I don't live that way, mom doesn't either more baffled by the path they took!
dwccrew
Posts: 7,817
Nov 3, 2011 1:36am
You guys don't live in one of the many trailer parks in FL, do you? That would be so fitting.Fab1b;955738 wrote:Unfortunately I'm not disagreeing! That is exactly the way they are living!!
dwccrew
Posts: 7,817
Nov 3, 2011 1:36am
Your family I should say.
Fab1b
Posts: 12,949
Nov 3, 2011 1:37am
LOL no
Glory Days
Posts: 7,809
Nov 3, 2011 7:16am
Sonofanump;955710 wrote:I'd like to help. Should I go to Diamonds, Platnuim, Deja Vu or Club Rog?
have her set up a webcam site. not only can she stay in the same line of work, she can always work from home and keep after the kids in between shows.Fab1b;955715 wrote:^ha we live in Fl anyways
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vball10set
Posts: 24,795
Nov 3, 2011 8:04am
you need this more than ever, fab, hope it helps 
se-alum
Posts: 13,948
Nov 3, 2011 8:14am
I understand, we're just on completely opposite ends of the spectrum when it comes to this subject. I'm just the kind of person that would take on the sacrifices if I thought it would make a better life for a loved one. I can't stand the thought of being happy, if someone I love is suffering. You can't always make things better, but you can always try.Fab1b;955622 wrote:Wrong, it isn't like they are disabled, dead, blah blah blah, they are perfectly capable of getting jobs and doing what is right. I will not take over for someone no matter who it is because they are too fucking lazy or whaever! I DON'T want kids, plain and simple, it is my life and I work to damn hard to deal with others problems, yes even if it is family! One other reason I don't have kids is because I am a single guy that lives very comfortably on my salary, just the GF and I, but could I take on and raise 3 kids and then be financially stable no fucking way. One maybe. So still not fair to the kids! I am not traditional, I am my own man. I do what is right for me first, others second, maybe selfish but at the end of the day you can only help yourself first! So yes that may sound shallow to some but I refuse to take my life off its course for others stupidity no matter how close they are. What about my dreams, goals, etc.....?
I didn't mean to make it sound like my nieces don't have clothes or shelter or food. They go to school, they live in a house, its actually not a bad place if my sister and her man weren't such slobs. They have transportation, toys, etc.....but its the future that worries me and not just theirs, my sisters.
Se-Alum I do understand what you are saying and yes again I said what I am saying may sound shallow but that is how I have chosen to live my life. I don't give into others. I chose not to have kids and its just that damn simple. Now would the circumstances change say if my sister (god forbid I am not this mad) died or something tragic happened well absolutley. But until that happens I will continue to stuff it down their throats until they do what is right!
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Steel Valley Football
Posts: 4,548
Nov 3, 2011 8:29am
Was going to post but realized I dont have anything good to say about this mess.
Scarlet_Buckeye
Posts: 5,264
Nov 3, 2011 8:54am
Well, one thing I would do for sure is...........when they are old enough YOU make sure they are all (you said they were girls) get put on birth control. If YOU don't do this, I can guarantee that with parents like that, all your nieces will wind up teenage mothers and just perpetuate the cycle.
Skyhook79
Posts: 5,739
Nov 3, 2011 9:54am
Should he be there everyday to make sure they take the pills also? Who is going to pay for them? Maybe they should just have their reproductive organs surgically removed now and save everyone from your "guarantee".Scarlet_Buckeye;955942 wrote:Well, one thing I would do for sure is...........when they are old enough YOU make sure they are all (you said they were girls) get put on birth control. If YOU don't do this, I can guarantee that with parents like that, all your nieces will wind up teenage mothers and just perpetuate the cycle.
Fab1b
Posts: 12,949
Nov 3, 2011 9:55am
Scarlet_Buckeye;955942 wrote:Well, one thing I would do for sure is...........when they are old enough YOU make sure they are all (you said they were girls) get put on birth control. If YOU don't do this, I can guarantee that with parents like that, all your nieces will wind up teenage mothers and just perpetuate the cycle.
Yes. Hell they are 7, 5, and a few months think I can just get their tubes tied now? LOL
FatHobbit
Posts: 8,651
Nov 3, 2011 10:00am
Sorry to hear about all that Fab. It does suck when your family makes piss poor decisions and drags everyone else down with them. :mad: And I feel bad for her kids, because you're right, they aren't going to have a chance growing up without good influences from their parents.
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georgemc80
Posts: 983
Nov 3, 2011 10:03am
I feel for you, I too have crazy family. I refer to them as my tramp-in-laws. They baffle me with their poor decisions and I see how it affects my wife and mother and father in law. Sometimes I want to beat the crap out of them....
The only thing you can do is what you are doing. Always, Always be there for the kids, (not talking custody) Even a trip to Wendy's or DQ with their cool uncle can mean the world to the kids.
The only thing you can do is what you are doing. Always, Always be there for the kids, (not talking custody) Even a trip to Wendy's or DQ with their cool uncle can mean the world to the kids.
baseball4
Posts: 279
Nov 3, 2011 10:17am
I feel ya, Fab. I have a sister that had two kids of her own and she has no business with kids. She puts herself before them and there is no getting through to her. Not only did she divorce the kids' dad, but within WEEKS of the divorce she was living with and dating a new guy that has THREE kids of his own. My whole family is baffled by the decisions she makes. All we can do is support the kids.
The kids did nothing wrong and did not ask for the life they were dealt. When they need things the family pitches in and gets whatever it is for them. We provide emotional support, but we are aware that we aren't the parents.
A lot of the people giving you grief on here don't realize it's not as easy as they think. You can just take someone's kids. And a lot of the times (like my sister's case) she doesn't think she's doing anything wrong! Therefore they don't think they're bad parents and they're not going to just give you their children.
The kids did nothing wrong and did not ask for the life they were dealt. When they need things the family pitches in and gets whatever it is for them. We provide emotional support, but we are aware that we aren't the parents.
A lot of the people giving you grief on here don't realize it's not as easy as they think. You can just take someone's kids. And a lot of the times (like my sister's case) she doesn't think she's doing anything wrong! Therefore they don't think they're bad parents and they're not going to just give you their children.
baseball4
Posts: 279
Nov 3, 2011 10:18am
THIS!georgemc80;956047 wrote:I feel for you, I too have crazy family. I refer to them as my tramp-in-laws. They baffle me with their poor decisions and I see how it affects my wife and mother and father in law. Sometimes I want to beat the crap out of them....
The only thing you can do is what you are doing. Always, Always be their for the kids, (not talking custody) Even a trip to Wendy's or DQ with their cool uncle can mean the world to the kids.
se-alum
Posts: 13,948
Nov 3, 2011 10:34am
Assuming they have a cool uncle!georgemc80;956047 wrote:I feel for you, I too have crazy family. I refer to them as my tramp-in-laws. They baffle me with their poor decisions and I see how it affects my wife and mother and father in law. Sometimes I want to beat the crap out of them....
The only thing you can do is what you are doing. Always, Always be there for the kids, (not talking custody) Even a trip to Wendy's or DQ with their cool uncle can mean the world to the kids.
Belly35
Posts: 9,716
Nov 3, 2011 11:20am
poor people are poor becuase they want to be poor....I Wear Pants;955580 wrote:Should be "I hardly even drank" as I'm sure you're about to become a raging alcoholic from the shear stupidity of your family.
they don't choose ... they want because it comfortable