pmoney25
Posts: 1,787
Sep 3, 2011 7:21pm
So if you remember my trial separation thread. Well things have got a little better, however today I kinda snooped through my wifes phone(bad I know) but found some suspicious messages that sseem weird but arent clear.
Not sure if I should confront or ignore cause I could be wrong and what I did was wrong.
Not sure if I should confront or ignore cause I could be wrong and what I did was wrong.
SportsAndLady
Posts: 35,632
Sep 3, 2011 7:23pm
I feel like the OC has the worst wives ever
Raw Dawgin' it
Posts: 11,466
Sep 3, 2011 7:27pm
Telling her you snooped will automatically make her go on the defensive and do the woman thing and turn the attack on you for being suspicious. Even if she is doing something wrong, she won't admit it and will just use you snooping as an excuse to deflect the attack back on you. It's a lose lose for you.
I would write the number down in the phone, find out who he is and what her relationship is with him before you do anything. If she is cheating, definitely contact a lawyer and move you assets before you serve her notice.
I would write the number down in the phone, find out who he is and what her relationship is with him before you do anything. If she is cheating, definitely contact a lawyer and move you assets before you serve her notice.
password
Posts: 2,360
Sep 3, 2011 7:43pm
Are you married to thavoice?pmoney25;882206 wrote:So if you remember my trial separation thread. Well things have got a little better, however today I kinda snooped through my wifes phone(bad I know) but found some suspicious messages that sseem weird but arent clear.
Not sure if I should confront or ignore cause I could be wrong and what I did was wrong.
pmoney25
Posts: 1,787
Sep 3, 2011 7:51pm
I know the guy, he is a tool to say the least. Scrawny little turd. They have worked together for awhile. When I get some time ill post the messages and you can see if im crazy or not to be suspicious
SportsAndLady
Posts: 35,632
Sep 3, 2011 8:35pm
Just post em now..are they that long?
THE4RINGZ
Posts: 16,816
Sep 3, 2011 8:38pm
Two words......
Drive-by Divorce
Drive-by Divorce
O-Trap
Posts: 14,994
Sep 3, 2011 11:03pm
I can't say I'd be asking ethical questions here. You'll get one of the following answers, without any substantiation:
- You're right.
- You're wrong.
- Upper deck her.
- Do her best friend/sister/mother/etc.
- Srs bznss
- Cool story bro.
- You're right.
- You're wrong.
- Upper deck her.
- Do her best friend/sister/mother/etc.
- Srs bznss
- Cool story bro.
Glory Days
Posts: 7,809
Sep 3, 2011 11:12pm
kids these days arent using "curbstomp" anymore?O-Trap;882657 wrote:I can't say I'd be asking ethical questions here. You'll get one of the following answers, without any substantiation:
- You're right.
- You're wrong.
- Upper deck her.
- Do her best friend/sister/mother/etc.
- Srs bznss
- Cool story bro.
F
friendfromlowry
Posts: 6,239
Sep 3, 2011 11:21pm
Do whatever you need to do to "investigate" on your own. Bringing it up to her will be nothing but bad news.
pmoney25
Posts: 1,787
Sep 4, 2011 12:00am
Saying things like, thanks for dinner, I feel sick now im laying in the living room with panties on. After going out saying she was going to his house instead of coming home. The thing is none of his responses seem as strange. More like a friend on his responses. God this sucks.
GoPens
Posts: 2,339
Sep 4, 2011 12:04am
You forgot PIIHB.O-Trap;882657 wrote:I can't say I'd be asking ethical questions here. You'll get one of the following answers, without any substantiation:
- You're right.
- You're wrong.
- Upper deck her.
- Do her best friend/sister/mother/etc.
- Srs bznss
- Cool story bro.
GoPens
Posts: 2,339
Sep 4, 2011 12:07am
Seriously though...sounds like a lawyer or private investigator is needed before confronting her.
O-Trap
Posts: 14,994
Sep 4, 2011 12:30am
GoPens;882746 wrote:You forgot PIIHB.
I knew I was forgetting something.
I agree that a PI would be good.GoPens;882748 wrote:Seriously though...sounds like a lawyer or private investigator is needed before confronting her.
ManO'War
Posts: 1,420
Sep 4, 2011 12:30am
Woman don't tell their male "friends" that they are laying on the floor with their panties on.
Don't be naive. Get out now.
Don't be naive. Get out now.
Sykotyk
Posts: 1,155
Sep 4, 2011 10:07am
Men do not have platonic friends. They just have women they haven't f***ed yet.
LJ
Posts: 16,351
Sep 4, 2011 10:16am
pmoney25;882743 wrote:Saying things like, thanks for dinner, I feel sick now im laying in the living room with panties on. After going out saying she was going to his house instead of coming home. The thing is none of his responses seem as strange. More like a friend on his responses. God this sucks.
Is he gay? If not run
like_that
Posts: 26,625
Sep 4, 2011 11:41am
This.Sykotyk;882862 wrote:Men do not have platonic friends. They just have women they haven't f***ed yet.
dwccrew
Posts: 7,817
Sep 4, 2011 3:52pm
Dude, you just need to face it and realize your wife is banging this other guy. Contact a lawyer as others have said and move any assets you have. Divorce is imminent.
Heelz
Posts: 780
Sep 4, 2011 10:55pm
3 words for ya
ANGRY.BUTT.SEX
ANGRY.BUTT.SEX
O-Trap
Posts: 14,994
Sep 5, 2011 3:56am
If the texts from the guy sound non-explicit, I'm saying he's either (a) scared of you, or (b) not interested. If a woman says she's laying around in her panties, and a guy is interested, his texts don't stay Rated-G.
However, it probably DOES mean that she wants his peen. I hate to say it, but it's true.
However, it probably DOES mean that she wants his peen. I hate to say it, but it's true.
T
tigerballonline
Posts: 125
Sep 5, 2011 10:13am
Heres the thing, if you are married, you have a right to know what each other is doing. If she cannot share everything, even before marriage, it is doomed. Some people have a messed up idea of what marriage is, and that is why the divorce rate is at over 50%.
se-alum
Posts: 13,948
Sep 5, 2011 11:10am
I agree with this. Nothing should be hidden in a good marriage. I wouldn't care if my wife picked up my phone and went through it, and I wouldn't be around if she wouldn't let me do the same.tigerballonline;883713 wrote:Heres the thing, if you are married, you have a right to know what each other is doing. If she cannot share everything, even before marriage, it is doomed. Some people have a messed up idea of what marriage is, and that is why the divorce rate is at over 50%.
Heretic
Posts: 18,820
Sep 5, 2011 2:30pm
After reading some of these relationship threads, I've come to the conclusion that more people on this site need to look into two little words: DOMESTIC ABUSE.
justincredible
Posts: 32,056
Sep 5, 2011 2:38pm
It works for my wife and I.Heretic;884016 wrote:After reading some of these relationship threads, I've come to the conclusion that more people on this site need to look into two little words: DOMESTIC ABUSE.