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bwcomet89

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Feb 8, 2011 4:21 AM
So I've been talking to this girl for a while now, I've put a lot of time and equity into her, so to speak, and recently she hasn't been talking to me as much. I generally shug it off as nothing, because it usually is, but I went to her Facebook and someone left a post, "WHEN ARE WE GOING TO KNOW IF ITS A GIRL???? HUGS LOVE YA." Now, I can really only think of one explanation for such a wall post, and it's not good. However at the same time I know it's not mine so it's somewhat good, yet bittersweet. Now my question is this, should I hang around, try to find out some answers(In case it isn't what I think it is), or just cut ties and get away safely? I ask whole-heartedly, and hope for an experienced response from someone who's been there before, but also expect some nice comedic relief.

For the record, in most other situations it'd be an easy decision, but this girl is crazy hot but my standards. See below,
http://www.facebook.com/?ref=hp#!/profile.php?id=30123066.

Cheers
Feb 8, 2011 4:21am
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believer

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Feb 8, 2011 4:31 AM
Run....run like the wind.

Your first clue was the decline in contact. Your second FB clue was the clincher.

The fact that's she's a looker means little in the long haul. The beauty thing doesn't last much past 40 anyways so find a great girl and move on.
Feb 8, 2011 4:31am
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bucks36

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Feb 8, 2011 4:50 AM
"In a relationship" I assume this is not you.
Feb 8, 2011 4:50am
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bwcomet89

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Feb 8, 2011 4:54 AM
Well, her and I do have much in common as well. I just figured the hottness part would be more of an attention grabber. Feeling a lot of things, anger, confusion... insomnia. I would assume talking to her for so long adds to indecision, but hell I'm 23, I don't need a kid in my life right now. Especially one not mine. I appreciate your imput, and anyone else's who'd chime in.
Feb 8, 2011 4:54am
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bwcomet89

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Feb 8, 2011 4:55 AM
bucks36;669651 wrote:"In a relationship" I assume this is not you.

She's had that to ward off stalkers for the past several months. It's not me, but I have reason to believe it's not anyone.
Feb 8, 2011 4:55am
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dave

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Feb 8, 2011 5:49 AM
bwcomet89;669654 wrote:She's had that to ward off stalkers for the past several months. It's not me, but I have reason to believe it's not anyone.

that's probably a lie. sounds like she got knocked up a couple months ago and decided being "in a relationship" would make her feel better about it.
Feb 8, 2011 5:49am
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ZWICK 4 PREZ

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Feb 8, 2011 6:18 AM
I met her about 3 months ago right. She had a lil pudge on her stomach but i aint pay no attention to it. I thought it came from drinkin 40's and shit cuz she had a lil beer on her breath. Come to find out shes 6 months pregnant. Talkin bout im the baby's daddy.
Feb 8, 2011 6:18am
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Heelz

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Feb 8, 2011 7:52 AM
If your already thinking about ditching her than that means your interest in her is on the decline and if thats happening then there is no point in sticking around and it will just decrease more in time. Bust one last load on her face and hit the bricks.
Feb 8, 2011 7:52am
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bases_loaded

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Feb 8, 2011 8:06 AM
Wait

Is she in a relationship with you?
Feb 8, 2011 8:06am
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GOONx19

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Feb 8, 2011 8:09 AM
She's a Steelers fan. Drop her fa sho.
Feb 8, 2011 8:09am
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enigmaax

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Feb 8, 2011 8:33 AM
bwcomet89;669649 wrote:I've put a lot of time and equity into her ...

However at the same time I know it's not mine

So you put just about everything into her but the wang?
Feb 8, 2011 8:33am
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Feb 8, 2011 8:51 AM
GOONx19;669708 wrote:She's a Steelers fan. Drop her fa sho.

Yes, this was the most alarming post on her wall (from her): "Go steelers!"

Run like the wind, bro! :)
Feb 8, 2011 8:51am
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Feb 8, 2011 8:59 AM
bwcomet89;669649 wrote:So I've been talking to this girl for a while now, I've put a lot of time and equity into her, so to speak, and recently she hasn't been talking to me as much. I generally shug it off as nothing, because it usually is, but I went to her Facebook and someone left a post, "WHEN ARE WE GOING TO KNOW IF ITS A GIRL???? HUGS LOVE YA." Now, I can really only think of one explanation for such a wall post, and it's not good. However at the same time I know it's not mine so it's somewhat good, yet bittersweet. Now my question is this, should I hang around, try to find out some answers(In case it isn't what I think it is), or just cut ties and get away safely? I ask whole-heartedly, and hope for an experienced response from someone who's been there before, but also expect some nice comedic relief.

For the record, in most other situations it'd be an easy decision, but this girl is crazy hot but my standards. See below,
http://www.facebook.com/?ref=hp#!/profile.php?id=30123066.

Cheers
Hot or not, that's a LOT of baggage, man.

Unless you're already entertaining the notion that you might marry this girl (which doesn't sound like the case), you need to GTFO.

Purely out of curiosity, does she have any siblings or close friends who might be pregnant?
ZWICK 4 PREZ;669666 wrote:I met her about 3 months ago right. She had a lil pudge on her stomach but i aint pay no attention to it. I thought it came from drinkin 40's and shit cuz she had a lil beer on her breath. Come to find out shes 6 months pregnant. Talkin bout im the baby's daddy.
The first and third bold made me lulz. The middle kinda pissed me off.
Heelz;669696 wrote:Bust one last load on her face and hit the bricks.
Dude, I wouldn't even do that. If she's Senorita Psychobitch, he needs to scat ASAP, and another "passionate experience" (you never know how a crazy chick will take it) might push her over the edge.
GOONx19;669708 wrote:She's a Steelers fan. Drop her fa sho.

Eat shit and die in a fire. ;)
Feb 8, 2011 8:59am
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bases_loaded

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Feb 8, 2011 9:14 AM
I think you are the one with the problem. You seem like the stalker.
Feb 8, 2011 9:14am
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ZWICK 4 PREZ

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Feb 8, 2011 9:17 AM
O-Trap;669764 wrote: The first and third bold made me lulz. The middle kinda pissed me off.

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Feb 8, 2011 9:17am
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Heretic

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Feb 8, 2011 9:33 AM


JUST DO IT.
Feb 8, 2011 9:33am
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Heelz

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Feb 8, 2011 11:32 AM
HAHAHA^^^^ Good God
Feb 8, 2011 11:32am
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j_crazy

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Feb 8, 2011 12:29 PM
pregnant women are insatiable. i'd stick around till her water breaks.
Feb 8, 2011 12:29pm
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darbypitcher22

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Feb 8, 2011 12:43 PM
go now
Feb 8, 2011 12:43pm
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BORIStheCrusher

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Feb 8, 2011 12:44 PM
GTFO
Feb 8, 2011 12:44pm
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1th

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Feb 8, 2011 12:45 PM
BORIStheCrusher;670055 wrote:GTFO

this
Feb 8, 2011 12:45pm
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The Equalizer

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Feb 8, 2011 12:51 PM
What the fuck are you doing with my girl?!
Feb 8, 2011 12:51pm
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bwcomet89

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Feb 8, 2011 1:00 PM
bases_loaded;669780 wrote:I think you are the one with the problem. You seem like the stalker.

I'm not nearly committed enough to be a stalker. Stalking takes a lot of work.
Feb 8, 2011 1:00pm
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bwcomet89

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Feb 8, 2011 1:02 PM
The Equalizer;670070 wrote:What the fuck are you doing with my girl?!

My bad man, accident. But hey, I have some bad news for ya...


Oh, and O-Trap, she has a sister but nobody's gonna touch that.
Feb 8, 2011 1:02pm
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bwcomet89

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Feb 8, 2011 1:05 PM
enigmaax;669730 wrote:So you put just about everything into her but the wang?

Let's just say I can do math, and if it was mine these suspicions would have come a lot sooner.
Feb 8, 2011 1:05pm