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MontyBrunswick
Feb 2, 2011 12:23pm
ccrunner609;662089 wrote:u 2 need a room together?
sup
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friendfromlowry
Posts: 6,239
Feb 2, 2011 12:28pm
ccrunner609;662089 wrote:u 2 need a room together?
I saw you have an opening for shotput/discuss coach on that team of yours. Let me and Dlazz come back and coach. We couldn't be any more lazy than Studey
ZWICK 4 PREZ
Posts: 7,733
Feb 2, 2011 1:08pm
dlazz;662067 wrote:She just misses you is all! Plus she wants to know how much more time she has with me. She can suck a mean dick.
shes actually very average at it.
darbypitcher22
Posts: 8,000
Feb 2, 2011 1:09pm
everyday would get kind of annoying
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Riderfan
Posts: 129
Feb 2, 2011 1:59pm
get out now...
CenterBHSFan
Posts: 6,115
Feb 2, 2011 2:10pm
I'm not gonna stick up for her or any other "girl" like her.
You're only just "talking" with her and she's acting like that? You must be slumping to put up with that more than 3 times!
You're only just "talking" with her and she's acting like that? You must be slumping to put up with that more than 3 times!
ytownfootball
Posts: 6,978
Feb 2, 2011 2:14pm
Immature and insecure
Scarlet_Buckeye
Posts: 5,264
Feb 2, 2011 2:18pm
Word of advice...........if she's doing that now, it will only get worse and more aggressively so in other ways as your relationship gets more "serious".
ZWICK 4 PREZ
Posts: 7,733
Feb 2, 2011 2:19pm
CenterBHSFan;662245 wrote:I'm not gonna stick up for her or any other "girl" like her.
You're only just "talking" with her and she's acting like that? You must be slumping to put up with that more than 3 times!
I was only talking to my ex til we got engaged too. But realistically its only been a few months.
DeyDurkie5
Posts: 11,324
Feb 2, 2011 3:11pm
darbypitcher22;662152 wrote:everyday would get kind of annoying
would everyday get kind of annoying?
CenterBHSFan
Posts: 6,115
Feb 2, 2011 3:36pm
Ahh, I see. You do not like to claim any seriousness. Still!ZWICK 4 PREZ;662260 wrote:I was only talking to my ex til we got engaged too. But realistically its only been a few months.
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I Wear Pants
Posts: 16,223
Feb 2, 2011 4:09pm
Fab4Runner;662050 wrote:False.
Oh and I would just tell her it bothers you. Say exactly what you said here. You don't know exactly what time you'll actually be leaving work but that you'll call her on your way home or when you get there. And that if she keeps interrupting you it's just going to take longer for you to get out the door.
But he shouldn't have to call her everyday after he leaves for work. I'm sure sometimes he would but having to call and tell someone everytime you're leaving someplace is ridiculous. He's not 12.
mexappeal12
Posts: 489
Feb 2, 2011 4:18pm
ZWICK 4 PREZ;661954 wrote:A girl I work with thought I was overreacting and it wasn't a big deal so I didn't know if i was just too easily bothered or what
this girl probably does the same thing.... girls need to learn how to control "the crazy" inside of them... if she is doing this so soon maybe it should be a red flag. That seems obsessive and creepy. it would annoy me.
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jmog
Posts: 6,567
Feb 2, 2011 4:27pm
My wife took just a few times of "that" before she got the drift that as an engineer I don't leave EXACTLY at the time I think I will, or the same time everyday for that matter.
She doesn't call anymore and typically waits for me to call her while I'm on my way home.
And no, I would NOT put up with that everyday from someone I wasn't married to. Even if she was your wife I'd still have a talk with her to get her to stop.
She doesn't call anymore and typically waits for me to call her while I'm on my way home.
And no, I would NOT put up with that everyday from someone I wasn't married to. Even if she was your wife I'd still have a talk with her to get her to stop.
krambman
Posts: 3,606
Feb 2, 2011 4:37pm
Why not just text her every day a few minutes before five to tell her that you have a little bit to finish up and that you probably won't be out of there until about 5:20? Always overestimate by about 5 minutes, that way when she calls you at 5:23 you can tell her that you already left.
Cat Food Flambe'
Posts: 1,230
Feb 2, 2011 5:21pm
This woman is messed up.
I could understand this girl if she's going to meet you somewhere - I wouldn't want to hang out in a restaurant lobby waiting for someone for a half hour, either. But tracking your every move already???? Run, man.
I could understand this girl if she's going to meet you somewhere - I wouldn't want to hang out in a restaurant lobby waiting for someone for a half hour, either. But tracking your every move already???? Run, man.
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that_guy
Posts: 439
Feb 2, 2011 5:28pm
My girlfriend used to always call me at work to check when I was leaving, until we had a discussion and I explained two things:
1) I don't have a job where I can leave at any specific time everyday, quite often things pop up unexpectedly late in the afternoon that cause me to stay much later than expected.
2) I hate getting personal calls at work.
Since that discussion, she's gotten much better.
Though, a side note, during the discussion under no circumstances refer to her job as a "little kid job" and your job as a "grown up job", from experience you can never live that down
1) I don't have a job where I can leave at any specific time everyday, quite often things pop up unexpectedly late in the afternoon that cause me to stay much later than expected.
2) I hate getting personal calls at work.
Since that discussion, she's gotten much better.
Though, a side note, during the discussion under no circumstances refer to her job as a "little kid job" and your job as a "grown up job", from experience you can never live that down
Cat Food Flambe'
Posts: 1,230
Feb 2, 2011 8:55pm
2) I hate getting personal calls at work.
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that_guy...
Depends on the type of call. Calling to bitch about something you did - definitely not good.
Lady D'Friskies quickly realized that positive reinforcement works amazingly well. The ""I'm naked, horny, and waiting for you" call usually rearranges my priorities rather quickly - even after 30 years.
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that_guy...
Depends on the type of call. Calling to bitch about something you did - definitely not good.
Lady D'Friskies quickly realized that positive reinforcement works amazingly well. The ""I'm naked, horny, and waiting for you" call usually rearranges my priorities rather quickly - even after 30 years.
darbypitcher22
Posts: 8,000
Feb 2, 2011 9:13pm
Cat Food Flambe';662595 wrote:2) I hate getting personal calls at work.
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that_guy...
Depends on the type of call. Calling to bitch about something you did - definitely not good.
Lady D'Friskies quickly realized that positive reinforcement works amazingly well. The ""I'm naked, horny, and waiting for you" call usually rearranges my priorities rather quickly - even after 30 years.
I think that sort of call would work for pretty much everyone, right?
Cat Food Flambe'
Posts: 1,230
Feb 2, 2011 10:01pm
darbypitcher22;662618 wrote:I think that sort of call would work for pretty much everyone, right?
Yes indeed. The approach matters!
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jmog
Posts: 6,567
Feb 2, 2011 10:49pm
Cat Food Flambe';662595 wrote:2) I hate getting personal calls at work.
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that_guy...
Depends on the type of call. Calling to bitch about something you did - definitely not good.
Lady D'Friskies quickly realized that positive reinforcement works amazingly well. The ""I'm naked, horny, and waiting for you" call usually rearranges my priorities rather quickly - even after 30 years.
Wouldn't mind that call at work.
Flash
Posts: 1,035
Feb 2, 2011 11:11pm
She doesn't have anything to do. Marry her and have some kids. She'll bug them and forget about you. That's what I did.
ZWICK 4 PREZ
Posts: 7,733
Feb 2, 2011 11:29pm
Flash;662776 wrote:She doesn't have anything to do. Marry her and have some kids. She'll bug them and forget about you. That's what I did.
solid advice.
Red_Skin_Pride
Posts: 1,226
Feb 2, 2011 11:58pm
You need to get her in check. While my job is probably not the caliber of job you have Zwick, my gf used to do this a lot when we started dating. I work in a restaurant, waiting tables. I get out when our rush is over and shit dies down. We have no set "out" times and it is completely dependent upon the business we get that day as to when I get to leave. She could never seem to understand when she would ask me earlier that day "what time do you think you'll be off tonight?" if I would say "probably around 8" that if she called me at 8:15, I might still be working.
Fab4Runner
Posts: 6,196
Feb 3, 2011 8:32am
I'm not saying he has to....just giving him a suggestion. He could also say please don't call me. I will call you when I want to talk.I Wear Pants;662378 wrote:But he shouldn't have to call her everyday after he leaves for work. I'm sure sometimes he would but having to call and tell someone everytime you're leaving someplace is ridiculous. He's not 12.
Wildcats and I literally hate talking on the phone with each other (or anyone else). I would say in the year + we've been dating we've talked on the phone 10 times max. Some people are not like that... i.e. this girl. If he wants to keep "seeing her" they will both have to compromise.