I Wear Pants;648810 wrote:Because their convictions are idiotic.
Oh no, I better not take pictures of those eeeeeeeeeeevilll homos.
First, convictions, in their truest sense, cannot be helped, so calling them "idiotic" is rather closed-minded. A conviction (where we get "convinced") is something you are persuaded is true. That's not an opinion issue, that can be changed on a whim.
They didn't say they were "eeeeeeeeeevill homos," and they don't believe that they are "eeeeeeeeevill homos." They don't treat same-sex couples differently. That's just a service they don't provide
TO ANYONE.
They didn't treat this couple any differently than they would treat a heterosexual person/couple who asked them to do a same-sex ceremony, or any other ceremony that they were not comfortable doing.
I Wear Pants;648810 wrote:Maybe gay people wouldn't file ridiculous lawsuits if people weren't jerks that treat them differently.
As I said, they didn't treat them differently because they were a same-sex couple. Show where either Jon or Elaine was a "jerk."
I Wear Pants;648810 wrote:If your friend didn't offer theme weddings and this was a gay theme wedding then I agree completely. However, if this is simply a normal service with gay people I think it's absurd that the person wouldn't take the job for any reason other than time constraints or being unavailable.
It's no different than someone saying they don't do Bar Mitzvahs, even if they do Sweet 16 parties.
And why would a theme wedding change your mind?
What if the couple had a Satanic ceremony, and the minister would be praying to Satan throughout the ceremony (other than that, the ceremony being normal). Would they still be assholes for not doing it?
Not agreeing with a certain action doesn't equate to treating people who do that action as lesser beings. Anyone who says otherwise is using a false dichotomy, which is a pretty common fallacy, but ignorant, nonetheless.
I Wear Pants;648810 wrote:I don't particularly think we should legislate them into doing it but that doesn't stop it from being incredibly stupid.
Labeling something based on a conclusion rather than the process of thought which brought a person to said conclusion is an ignorant thing to do.
I Wear Pants;648810 wrote:"Living with my convictions" is a cop out for "I'm a bigot" a lot of the time.
It is used that way sometimes, I agree. Judging someone based on their convictions, however, is equally bigoted. Saying that anyone who thinks same-sex relationships are wrong are stupid is just as bigoted and ignorant as someone saying that people who are in such relationships are any more evil than anyone else.
For what it's worth, they don't think being in a same-sex relationship is any worse than a little white lie.
I Wear Pants;648810 wrote:So yes, I think this particular conviction of Elaine and Jon is completely moronic. That's like saying the Westboro Baptist people aren't gigantic bigoted assholes because they're just living in accordance with their convictions.
Wow. False analogy fallacy.
Elaine and Jon are not treating anyone differently for being gay. The Westboro Baptist Church paints them as the greatest evil in America.
Jon and Elaine never sought out someone to hurt, and tried to ensure that nobody's feelings would be hurt, because they care about people, regardless of orientation. The Westboro Baptist Church seeks out places for the purpose of voicing their discriminant language with a loud, violent tone.
Jon and Elaine believe that God loves gay people. The WBC voices the opposite.
You're entitled to make baseless assumptions, stemming from what seem to be sweeping strokes with a very broad brush, but that's an ignorant way to approach people. Do you know how or why they came to that conclusion? Did you follow their thought process, so that you could gauge it to be either sound or fallacious? Of course not, because you don't know them.
Your words and beliefs in this thread have been more hateful and prejudicial than ANYTHING Jon and Elaine ever did or said in this whole thing.