charliehustle14;596079 wrote:Maybe I'm just a buzz kill or 'that guy', but I just don't find this funny at all. In fact, I'm very sympathetic. I know some people won't believe this, but there is actually a variety of other factors that go into weight gain other than just eating. Genetics, secondary health problems, physical impairments, medications, etc. Does poor diet and a lack of intervention by friends and family have a lot to do with it? Definitely, but don't be so quick to assume it's the only thing going on here.
Sounds like she's always just been bigger for her age all through life, which you can attribute not only to her diet and, but to her culture ( i.e. soul food) and surely genetics as well. That extra weight all through life probably took a mighty toll on her knees, leading to the severe arthritis, as mentioned in the article. When you get arthritis that badly in the knees, it's game over. Physical activity becomes a privlege rather than an every day part of life at that point.
Damn me for choosing to have a career in the medical field, I guess.
I'm in the medical field as well, though I truly feel for her and understand her weight issues as a child that doesn't nec. excuse her from not taking action as an adult. I am more than sure as a 20, 25 or even 30 year old woman that she could look in the mirror and see she was overweight. In today's day and age, heck even 10 or 15 years ago, it was known that being overweight and eating a high fat diet was not good for one's health. Though I do feel for her current predicament I also know that if not solely genetics or a metabolic disorder she could have maybe changed a bit to help lower her weight BEFORE the knees became a problem and in turn mobility then became an issue further hampering weight loss. God bless her, I hope she is able to lose some weight and get some help sooner rather than later.