"Bullied to death"

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Hb31187
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Sep 29, 2010 10:21pm
Seems like at least once a month 10 tv has a story about this on the news. Unless you are physically beaten until you die, the term holds no water. Its a cop out by parents and loved ones to place blame on anyone but the kid him/herself. Im sick of hearing about the stories honestly
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fan_from_texas
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Sep 29, 2010 10:23pm
Hb31187;501940 wrote:Seems like at least once a month 10 tv has a story about this on the news. Unless you are physically beaten until you die, the term holds no water. Its a cop out by parents and loved ones to place blame on anyone but the kid him/herself. Im sick of hearing about the stories honestly

I disagree. There certainly are cases where extensive bullying ends up in a suicide, and it's tough (crazy?) to suggest that the bullies had nothing to do with it. Are they ultimately responsible? Probably not. Were they a heavily contributing factor? Absolutely.
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Sep 29, 2010 10:26pm
Hb31187;501940 wrote:Seems like at least once a month 10 tv has a story about this on the news. Unless you are physically beaten until you die, the term holds no water. Its a cop out by parents and loved ones to place blame on anyone but the kid him/herself. Im sick of hearing about the stories honestly

I'm assuming this is referring to the kid that jumped off the GW bridge after his roommates "outed" him?
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Hb31187
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Sep 29, 2010 10:27pm
Idk agree that it may be a contributing factor that maybe life kinda sucks at times bc you get picked on. But the decision to kill yourself is yours and yours alone and I dont see how anyone else can get blamed for something you did to yourself.
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Hb31187
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Sep 29, 2010 10:28pm
No, what made me start the thread was actually a story on 10tv news that is coming up soon. Kid killed himself and now the parents are blaming the school and bullies. But that may be what the story is about...it hasnt aired just yet
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Steel Valley Football
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Sep 30, 2010 11:19am
They should take out a dickhead or two like Hb31187 before they go.
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bigdaddy2003
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Sep 30, 2010 11:24am
Steel Valley Football;502268 wrote:They should take out a dickhead or two like Hb31187 before they go.

What in the hell is the matter with you? You don't say shit like that.
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-Society-
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Sep 30, 2010 11:31am
bigdaddy2003;502270 wrote:What in the hell is the matter with you? You don't say shit like that.

Calm down and go eat some Taco Bell.
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Steel Valley Football
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Sep 30, 2010 12:33pm
bigdaddy2003;502270 wrote:What in the hell is the matter with you? You don't say shit like that.


I don't? But, I did.
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Con_Alma
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Sep 30, 2010 12:57pm
Hb31187;501954 wrote:... the decision to kill yourself is yours and yours alone ...
I tend to agree with this.
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RedIs4Heart
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Sep 30, 2010 1:05pm
This makes me so mad. What is wrong with out society. I am 29. I was bullied all the way through school because I am a grenade. I am overweight. I wear glasses, and I am not attractive. But guess what, I got over it.

Kids today are just so mentally weak. Our society as a whole has become weak. Suck it up, don't take the easy way out and kill yourself.

I also think this problem is fortified by the reliance our society puts on electronics. Kids today are on their computers, phones, the internet, and video game systems all the time. I think the line between real and fake is blurred. These kids can not funtion in society because they have no real world interactions.
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Tiernan
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Sep 30, 2010 3:55pm
^^^
Pretty wild accusations and generalizations there Red...I know alot of HS kids in my neighborhood who play 2 and sometimes 3 sports per year. Do they play the X-box etc too? Sure...sometimes but mostly these kids are running from football to lacrosse to hockey to soccer with some tae-kwondo and gymnastics thrown in for good measure. Kids are no worse today than they were 60 yrs ago, just a little different.
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j_crazy
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Sep 30, 2010 4:24pm
I'm with FFT. The bullies play a part in these things, should they be put on trial for murder/manslaughter/etc.?? No. but they play a part in these things nonetheless.
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j_crazy
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Sep 30, 2010 4:44pm
http://www.cnn.com/2010/CRIME/09/30/new.jersey.student.suicide/index.html?hpt=T1&iref=BN1

These 2 should be put on trial for this. Not for murder, but for invading his privacy.
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Hb31187
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Sep 30, 2010 5:01pm
Trial for invasion of privacy? For turning on a webcam in a room they SHARED? Dunno if that holds up in court
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j_crazy
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Sep 30, 2010 5:04pm
for tweeting that everyone should go to a website where he was streaming it? yes.
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Hb31187
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Sep 30, 2010 5:05pm
Eh, theyll get a slap on the wrist. But i overlooked the tweet part
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Sep 30, 2010 5:23pm
If we didn't coddle our current younger pathetic generation, but rather smacked/whipped them for being out of line, showed them how to "be a man", and encouraged real face to face interactions instead of weird encounters on chatroulette, our youngest generation would have a lot more in shape ass kickers, less homosexuals, who knew how to take orders and we would have a better society than the shit hole we currently are in.

Also, technology hasn't improved anyones lives. Don't give in to these electronic/computer companies. Technology and free media (internet) has basically ruined capitalism (example: the US right meow), helped create families who instead of interacting in their homes are each on their own laptops in separate rooms, ruined english prose and short term memory in children/adults, and if an apocalypse occurs, everyone will be so outrageously F-ed that they would die within 2 weeks.
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Sep 30, 2010 5:30pm
RedIs4Heart;502383 wrote: Kids today are just so mentally weak. Our society as a whole has become weak. Suck it up, don't take the easy way out and kill yourself.

+1.
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Steel Valley Football
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Sep 30, 2010 7:26pm
All points valid. Thread starter's still an asshole for starting this.
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Sep 30, 2010 7:58pm
Steel Valley Football;502844 wrote:All points valid. Thread starter's still an asshole for starting this.
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+100 If Hb ever had kids they would probably commit suicide because their parent was such an ass.
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Sep 30, 2010 8:35pm
ClayAikenation;502672 wrote:If we didn't coddle our current younger pathetic generation, but rather smacked/whipped them for being out of line, showed them how to "be a man", and encouraged real face to face interactions instead of weird encounters on chatroulette, our youngest generation would have a lot more in shape ass kickers, less homosexuals, who knew how to take orders and we would have a better society than the shit hole we currently are in.

Also, technology hasn't improved anyones lives. Don't give in to these electronic/computer companies. Technology and free media (internet) has basically ruined capitalism (example: the US right meow), helped create families who instead of interacting in their homes are each on their own laptops in separate rooms, ruined english prose and short term memory in children/adults, and if an apocalypse occurs, everyone will be so outrageously F-ed that they would die within 2 weeks.

I consider the bold part of your post quite ironic considering your name and avatar. I also nominate that line for the ignorant, moronic post of the year.
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GoPens
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Sep 30, 2010 8:38pm
RelsonGracieBJJ;502875 wrote:\

+100 If Hb ever had kids they would probably commit suicide because their parent was such an ass.
Don't think we'll have to worry. He first has to find a woman who's willing to have sex with him.
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Hb31187
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Sep 30, 2010 10:15pm
LOL ouch, hurtin my feelings.


All of what i said is truth, sorry for not having sympathy for a kid killing himself over something that 99.9 % of kids have to experience. If all kids that got picked on offed themselves wed have about 3 kids reach adulthood. FACT
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like_that
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Sep 30, 2010 11:08pm
I don't see how HB is an asshole for starting this thread. Its a valid point.