stroups;460017 wrote:One of my best friends is a girl and one of her ex boyfriends had a big problem with this. We used to date but went to separate colleges causing us to breakup on but stayed really good friends in the process. It's not an awkward friendship because it's been years since we hooked up and neither of use have any intentions on getting back into a relationship with each other. Well some guy, after only dating her for like a month, decided to say something to me because I hung out with her a bunch. Well I pretty much told him nothing was going on and we have been friends for a long time and I wasn't going to stop. To me that was like telling one of my guy friends girlfriend to fuck off. She broke up with him a short time later because he couldn't get over it which was good because I could of seen myself punching that dude for being a bitch.
I would have had no problem with the guy I am talking about he and my fiance were friends all through middle, and high school. I pretty much trusted him when we lived in GA and she came back home here to Ohio. I had no problem with her hanging out with him as well trust me there are no insecurities here. But here is where the problem started, my fiance had dated a lot of douchebags in the past and this dude assumed that I was one as well and we wouldn't last. Since he was here in Ohio and we were in Georgia there was too much distance in between them.
Fast forward my fiance told him that she was moving back to Ohio and dude assumed that it was just her. When she told him I was moving here as well his response to her was that I would not be able to find a job in Ohio and he told her that I would begin to rely on her again. When I graduated from college my fiance had a job and we lived together and I did not have a job for two months, but I still paid my half of the bills. When she told him that wasn't the case this dude prettty much said she was covering for me like she did her previous bf. Well I pretty much took it at this point that he was just being like a brother to her and dismissed it. When she told him that I took a job transfer things went down hill even worse. Once we were here dude would call at 2AM, 3AM, or 4AM I let it slide. But then dude started following me around and would be at places I was which was weird. When he started telling my fiances parents that I was cheating on her she still talked to the dude because she felt sorry for him. When we announced our engagement this asshole went nuts and like I stated had it not been for my future father in law throwing his ass out it would have gotten ugly.