Archive Apparently this is not normal

krambman

Posts: 3,606

Jun 28, 2010 2:00pm

ZWICK 4 PREZ;403961 wrote:Put yourself in my shoes now... I met this girl one time. I didn't even hit on her cuz she's a friends gf's friend and she said she had a bf. Before we left for the night she put her number in my phone and told me to text her. If she was a little happier with homeboy than she prolly wouldnt be creepin.

And no I wouldn't be pissed, I'd just leave her. I gave up getting pissed at girls in middle school.

Sounds like you're changing your story here a bit bud. First it was you wanted to have sex with her, she sent you a pic and then you got her to send more revealing ones. Now it's all on her and you had nothing to do with it. If she just sent you all these pics out of the blue then you did nothing wrong. If you encouraged her to send more revealing pics, then yeah, you're being a bit of a d-bag. It doesn't matter is things aren't good between her and her boyfriend, you don't need to do anything to encourage them get worse. You should have told her that you'd be down if she were single but until she drops "homeboy" you aren't interested.

And yes, you'd be pissed. That's why you'd leave her. If you were indifferent then you'd stay with her.

ZWICK 4 PREZ

Posts: 7,733

Jun 28, 2010 2:05pm

krambman;403970 wrote:Sounds like you're changing your story here a bit bud. First it was you wanted to have sex with her, she sent you a pic and then you got her to send more revealing ones. Now it's all on her and you had nothing to do with it. If she just sent you all these pics out of the blue then you did nothing wrong. If you encouraged her to send more revealing pics, then yeah, you're being a bit of a d-bag. It doesn't matter is things aren't good between her and her boyfriend, you don't need to do anything to encourage them get worse. You should have told her that you'd be down if she were single but until she drops "homeboy" you aren't interested.

And yes, you'd be pissed. That's why you'd leave her. If you were indifferent then you'd stay with her.

I met her a few weeks ago. the pics came last night.. no changing the story. I didn't hit on her that night at all.. maybe just flirted a lil. She been textin off the hook the last few days though.

2kool4skool

Posts: 1,804

Jun 28, 2010 2:09pm

You're trying too hard

krambman

Posts: 3,606

Jun 28, 2010 2:13pm

ZWICK 4 PREZ;403977 wrote:I met her a few weeks ago. the pics came last night.. no changing the story. I didn't hit on her that night at all.. maybe just flirted a lil. She been textin off the hook the last few days though.

Ok. Like I said, if you're not encouraging it then it's not your problem. It's one thing to say to your bud that you'd like to tap some girl if she has a boyfriend, it's another thing to try and make it happen (even if she initiated it). Like I said, unless she's going to leave her boyfriend, I'd stop responding to her or tell her to leave me alone until she dumped him.

Maybe you should be more thorough in your storytelling to begin with. It sounded like you were implicit in all of this. Now it seems more like your the unlucky guy she's looking to cheat on her boyfriend with.

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MontyBrunswick

Jun 28, 2010 2:13pm

ZWICK 4 PREZ;403968 wrote:which would mean something if i typed your.

I guess you're right. Instead, you opt to type like a 13-year-old girl.

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Con_Alma

Posts: 12,198

Jun 28, 2010 2:14pm

"...My question is since when did that become fucked up? ..."

...whenever he chose for it to be for himself and his own opinions. That's when.

Based on your opening post it appears he was speaking for himself and his opinions regarding your actions.

We all have a different moral compasses. You know that.

Why does it really matter when it became "fucked up" to him?

ZWICK 4 PREZ

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Jun 28, 2010 2:14pm

2kool4skool;403988 wrote:You're trying too hard

:/

krambman

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Jun 28, 2010 2:16pm

dlazz;403954 wrote:kid? I would put you at 16 years old, tops.

No, Zwick isn't 16, but you know who he does remind me of? Now Zick, I don't know you so I don't know if this is you or not, but this is just who you sound like on here. He sounds like the guy who's a 28 year old townie who still hangs out at the college bar acting like he's 21 trying to recapture his glory days in college, always bragging to his friends about all the hot tail he pulls, even though he likely doesn't get much action. Then while the rest of his friends are growing up, getting jobs, getting married, having kids, becoming adults, he's still at the bar with Peter Pan syndrome.

ZWICK 4 PREZ

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Jun 28, 2010 2:16pm

Con_Alma;403996 wrote:"...My question is since when did that become fucked up? ..."

...whenever he chose for it to be for himself and his own opinions. That's when.

Based on your opening post it appears he was speaking for himself and his opinions regarding your actions.

We all have a different moral compasses. You know that.

Why does it really matter when it became "fucked up" to him?

If that were the case he'd say "that's fucked up.. I wouldn't do that". But hes suggesting I shouldn't either.

ZWICK 4 PREZ

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Jun 28, 2010 2:18pm

krambman;404001 wrote:No, Zwick isn't 16, but you know who he does remind me of? Now Zick, I don't know you so I don't know if this is you or not, but this is just who you sound like on here. He sounds like the guy who's a 28 year old townie who still hangs out at the college bar acting like he's 21 trying to recapture his glory days in college, always bragging to his friends about all the hot tail he pulls, even though he likely doesn't get much action. Then while the rest of his friends are growing up, getting jobs, getting married, having kids, becoming adults, he's still at the bar with Peter Pan syndrome.

There's no colleges is Massillon. There's hardly a HS.

krambman

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Jun 28, 2010 2:21pm

ZWICK 4 PREZ;404003 wrote:There's no colleges is Massillon. There's hardly a HS.

Okay. Then in that case you sound like the guy who moved back to where he grew up and hangs out at the local bar acting like he's still in college or like he's still the stud he thought he was in high school. Like I said, I wasn't specifically describing every detail of your life because I don't personally know. Just describing the person you appear to be based on your posts on OC and the Huddle.

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Con_Alma

Posts: 12,198

Jun 28, 2010 2:21pm

Are you not asking when this became not normal?

It may be normal to you but it's not normal to your buddy that you are willing to do it.

Does it really matter when it became not a normal practice in his eyes that people do this...even you?

ZWICK 4 PREZ

Posts: 7,733

Jun 28, 2010 2:22pm

krambman;404007 wrote:Okay. Then in that case you sound like the guy who moved back to where he grew up and hangs out at the local bar acting like he's still in college or like he's still the stud he thought he was in high school. Like I said, I wasn't specifically describing every detail of your life because I don't personally know. Just describing the person you appear to be based on your posts on OC and the Huddle.

It only appears that way cuz this place is filled with lame asses.

ZWICK 4 PREZ

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Jun 28, 2010 2:23pm

Con_Alma;404008 wrote:
Does it really matter when it became not a normal practice in his eyes that people do this...even you?

yes, or I wouldn't have started the thread

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Con_Alma

Posts: 12,198

Jun 28, 2010 2:24pm

What does it change if it became not normal to him recently or it has always been that way?

It doesn't change your opinion on it does it?

You should hold true to your beliefs.

krambman

Posts: 3,606

Jun 28, 2010 2:26pm

ZWICK 4 PREZ;404009 wrote:It only appears that way cuz this place is filled with lame asses.

Which is exactly what that guy who thinks he's a lot cooler than he actually is would say. There's your own self perception and there's the way it really is. My guess is that your self perception is a bit loftier than your actual position. Besides, being the coolest guy in a cow town like Massillon is like being the prom king at a school of 40 kids. Doesn't mean a whole lot.

4cards

Posts: 2,551

Jun 28, 2010 2:28pm

...zwick, just hit it and be done with the whole thing unless she's a freak and then keep hitt'n it till you can't walk!

thedynasty1998

Posts: 6,844

Jun 28, 2010 2:29pm

Trying way too hard bud. So you randomly met some chic, she put her number in your phone and a couple weeks later she's sending you nude pics. And you want us to believe your bullshit? I've always thought you were half full of shit, now I think you are completely full of shit.

That stuff doesn't happen to some townie in Massillion who spends his time between the local arcade and the parents basement.

ZWICK 4 PREZ

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Jun 28, 2010 2:29pm

What does that have to do with looking for others opinions on the matter?
Trust me.. no one on here would ever change my beliefs. Not even you (maybe if you brought me to your club though)

ZWICK 4 PREZ

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Jun 28, 2010 2:30pm

krambman;404020 wrote:Which is exactly what that guy who thinks he's a lot cooler than he actually is would say. There's your own self perception and there's the way it really is. My guess is that your self perception is a bit loftier than your actual position. Besides, being the coolest guy in a cow town like Massillon is like being the prom king at a school of 40 kids. Doesn't mean a whole lot.

lol keep hatin

ZWICK 4 PREZ

Posts: 7,733

Jun 28, 2010 2:30pm

thedynasty1998;404028 wrote:Trying way too hard bud. So you randomly met some chic, she put her number in your phone and a couple weeks later she's sending you nude pics. And you want us to believe your bullshit? I've always thought you were half full of shit, now I think you are completely full of shit.

That stuff doesn't happen to some townie in Massillion who spends his time between the local arcade and the parents basement.

see post above.

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Con_Alma

Posts: 12,198

Jun 28, 2010 2:32pm

You know me better than that. I wouldn't try to sway you.

Other's opinions have the same effect on you don't they? They'll either influence you or they won't.

It doesn't matter what the people think in the end. You're going to be who you're going to be.

lhslep134

Posts: 9,774

Jun 28, 2010 2:32pm

Pic or it didn't happen. The cleavage pic should be OC appropriate. Man up and show it.

Strapping Young Lad

Posts: 2,453

Jun 28, 2010 2:38pm

If we had a stat for most non-substantial threads started then Zwick would be the man. But b/c there is no such stat.......

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I Wear Pants

Posts: 16,223

Jun 28, 2010 2:42pm

This thread is awesome.