se-alum
Posts: 13,948
Apr 26, 2010 12:20pm
should be castrated! On my way to work this morning I get a call from one of my best friends, who I've known for 25 of my 29 years, telling me she found out last night that her husband has been seeing another woman. I've been pretty much irate all morning. Dude should have his dick cutoff or at least stuck in a blender(yes, I know thats not castration, but as I was typing, it sounded better)! I would really just like to go beat the guys ass, but that won't help anything. I just can't see how someone could do that, especially when there are children involved!
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derek bomar
Posts: 3,722
Apr 26, 2010 12:21pm
It was her fault
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mallymal614
Posts: 3,746
Apr 26, 2010 12:21pm
Wives cheat too! Let's remove their kitty 
THE4RINGZ
Posts: 16,816
Apr 26, 2010 12:25pm
Most times it is a simple lack of character rather than a lack of sex that leads one to cheat.
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Gblock
Apr 26, 2010 12:32pm
i dont ever condone cheating but...THE4RINGZ wrote: Most times it is a simple lack of character rather than a lack of sex that leads one to cheat.
i know a lot of guys who if they were getting some at home would be waaaay less likely to cheat. my former wife wouldnt give it up unless you completed a list of like25 things each day...you could do like 24 of them perfect and then mess up one of them and not get laid for a week....now i didnt cheat i divorced her but i think sex shouldnt be the first thing you withold to get your way or if you get mad. it leads to a lack of closeness that can get worse over time.
and yes girls cheat just as much
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Con_Alma
Posts: 12,198
Apr 26, 2010 12:34pm
Withholding sex is the first step to relationship ending...or it is the first sign that the relationship is not good.
se-alum
Posts: 13,948
Apr 26, 2010 12:38pm
If you're not getting any at home(which wasn't the case in this situation), get a divorce and move on. I have no problem with that, as no one should stay in a relationship they're not happy with, but you should not cheat on your wife and set that kind of example for your kids.
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teh awsum juan
Posts: 84
Apr 26, 2010 12:38pm
derek bomar wrote: It was her fault
maybe if she was a better cook, he wouldn't have cheated.
derek bomar
Posts: 3,722
Apr 26, 2010 12:39pm
exactly...teh awsum juan wrote:derek bomar wrote: It was her fault
maybe if she was a better cook, he wouldn't have cheated.
THE4RINGZ
Posts: 16,816
Apr 26, 2010 12:41pm
Basing a relationship especially a marriage on the availability of sex is setting oneself up for distaster.
Little Danny
Posts: 4,288
Apr 26, 2010 12:44pm
One of my coworkers recently divorced his wife. He said prior to the marriage they had a normal sex life, but after they got married they had sex maybe ten times in five years. Once their child was born the wife no longer was interested in having sex. He stayed in the marriage for the kids sake but it was just too much.
I can understand his reluctance for a divorce considering they had a kid. However, since he was a young guy he would have had to been looking elsewhere for sex. In my opinion, holding out on sex is cheating on your spouse and emotional/physical cruelty.
I can understand his reluctance for a divorce considering they had a kid. However, since he was a young guy he would have had to been looking elsewhere for sex. In my opinion, holding out on sex is cheating on your spouse and emotional/physical cruelty.
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Con_Alma
Posts: 12,198
Apr 26, 2010 12:46pm
THE4RINGZ wrote: Basing a relationship especially a marriage on the availability of sex is setting oneself up for distaster.
No doubt but this is a different point than others offered regarding the role of sex in a marriage.
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Con_Alma
Posts: 12,198
Apr 26, 2010 12:48pm
I don't think most people would disagree with that.se-alum wrote: ... I have no problem with that, as no one should stay in a relationship they're not happy with, but you should not cheat on your wife and set that kind of example for your kids.
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bamagirl
Posts: 154
Apr 26, 2010 1:17pm
Completely agree if your only getting married for the sex you are setting yourself up for disappointment.Con_Alma wrote:THE4RINGZ wrote: Basing a relationship especially a marriage on the availability of sex is setting oneself up for distaster.
No doubt but this is a different point than others offered regarding the role of sex in a marriage.
Glory Days
Posts: 7,809
Apr 26, 2010 1:19pm
haha how is that different from most marriages?Little Danny wrote: He said prior to the marriage they had a normal sex life, but after they got married they had sex maybe ten times in five years. Once their child was born the wife no longer was interested in having sex.
sleeper
Posts: 27,879
Apr 26, 2010 1:22pm
As a guy who's planning on getting married just for the sex, if my wife stops putting out, then I'll find someone who will.
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thavoice
Posts: 14,376
Apr 26, 2010 1:24pm
Ya do know that the food that lowers sex drive in women is wedding cake....
ernest_t_bass
Posts: 24,984
Apr 26, 2010 1:43pm
Had to be her fault. He was probably just friends with the chick, and here she goes and accuses of him of cheating! If she'd have stayed out of his business, this would have never happened.
sonofsam
Posts: 2,052
Apr 26, 2010 1:54pm
Dude should have "manned up" and said something before he went dipping his wick in some strange.
CenterBHSFan
Posts: 6,115
Apr 26, 2010 2:06pm
Lack of sex does not make anyone cheat.
Most people take an oath before God and to themselves to be loyal and faithful, for better or for worse. To some people, those words mean something very personal and valuable to them. Others it can be forsaken for what "feels good at the time".
When you think about it, does the relatively quick session of sex make up for the time, commitment and the value of your marriage?
I agree with the person who said it showed a lack of character.
Most people take an oath before God and to themselves to be loyal and faithful, for better or for worse. To some people, those words mean something very personal and valuable to them. Others it can be forsaken for what "feels good at the time".
When you think about it, does the relatively quick session of sex make up for the time, commitment and the value of your marriage?
I agree with the person who said it showed a lack of character.
ernest_t_bass
Posts: 24,984
Apr 26, 2010 2:08pm
Says the person whose avatar is a cat fapping.CenterBHSFan wrote: Lack of sex does not make anyone cheat.
Most people take an oath before God and to themselves to be loyal and faithful, for better or for worse. To some people, those words mean something very personal and valuable to them. Others it can be forsaken for what "feels good at the time".
When you think about it, does the relatively quick session of sex make up for the time, commitment and the value of your marriage?
I agree with the person who said it showed a lack of character.
I kid
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Timber
Posts: 935
Apr 26, 2010 2:12pm
I for one think it is wrong for a spouse to cheat on their spouse and family. Not only does one who cheats... hurt the spouse, but the poor kids are put through pure heck... just take a mental beatdown (it seems.) Often times the kids are convinced that they are the problem. Sad indeed!
As bad as cheating is... it is hard for me to cast stones at someone else, without knowing "the whole" story.
SE... I hope your friend works through this unfortunate time O.K.
As bad as cheating is... it is hard for me to cast stones at someone else, without knowing "the whole" story.
SE... I hope your friend works through this unfortunate time O.K.
CenterBHSFan
Posts: 6,115
Apr 26, 2010 2:13pm
Ebass you're a shithead! lol
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sjmvsfscs08
Posts: 2,963
Apr 26, 2010 2:32pm
I think all people that cheat should just be sent to live in some village in the middle of the Gobi Desert, not just men but women too.
A lot of people lack character, so that should be #1 on the list of what someone is looking for in a significant other.
A lot of people lack character, so that should be #1 on the list of what someone is looking for in a significant other.
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Con_Alma
Posts: 12,198
Apr 26, 2010 2:33pm
It certainly does not but then again erasing the physical intimacy from a marriage is also damning to the value of said marriage.CenterBHSFan wrote: ...
When you think about it, does the relatively quick session of sex make up for the time, commitment and the value of your marriage?
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