HitsRus;1872923 wrote:Just a few comments regarding things in general having gone thru 40 years of this.....
A lot of people get involved with this because they come to the realization that they need to lose weight, or because they want to lose weight to look better for an event...like a wedding or a reunion or just to look better when they are going to the beach. Some people train rigorously for a competition...body building, or running a marathon.
Few actually think beyond the short term....what am I going to do when my short term goal is over? If long term is important to you also, it is important to develop a repeatable, consistent, regimen of diet and exercise that you can do for most of your life. So, the first question you must ask yourself, is whether what you are doing is sustainable indefinitely, and do you really enjoy it.? If your answer is "NO" you are setting yourself up for inevitable failure/relapse.
Hence, any diets or exercise programs that you are doing that you don't like are going to go by the wayside once the motivation of your short term goal is gone.
Counting calories, macros etc, are fine for the short term just to get an idea of appropriate portion sizes, but you are not going to want to weigh your chicken every day of your life. Doing a fad diet that you don't like just to get to your goal is not helpful long term. Rather you should focus on foods that you like that fit within your diet scheme, and try to develop a regimen that you can do and like.There are some foods that you absolutely have to get rid of...stuff that is useless calories. You can allow yourself a guilty pleasure within moderation, if you eliminate the rest of the shit...eg. if you like your alcohol, zero out the pop and the doughnuts and desserts.
Intermittent fasting....people get so hung on a "plan" and minutia that they lose sight of the big picture. What is important is that you are taking a day and significantly reducing your calories so as to create a calorie deficit to facilitate weight loss, or to allow some flexibility in your eating habits. That allows you to not have to keep track of calories every day, or having to tightly restrict yourself at life's important events when maybe you want to indulge/celebrate a little more. The key is not to do it so much as to trigger your body going into starvation mode. A typical plan that is out there is to do it twice a week. I found that doing it 3 times every two weeks was more than sufficient to lose weight at a steady rate. Now that I'm in maintainance mode, once a week is enough, and I can enjoy myself fully on the weekend or special occasions.
Fasting does not have to be not eating anything, or skipping meals. Simply, that you are carefully monitoring/restricting caloric intake.
Let's do the math.....if my maintainance calorie intake is 2800 calories, I can create a calorie deficit of 2000 calories and still have breakfast lunch and dinner.
Breakfast...1 egg scrambled and a half a banana (150 cal). Lunch...the other half of the banana and a tbsp. peanut butter on a slice of whole grain bread(200 calories) Dinner...2oz chicken breast and a plateful of raw veggies(300 cal). I can even throw in a handful of nuts for a snack.
If I do that 3 times over a course of two weeks, that 6000 calories. How many workouts does it take to burn that?
Once you reach the weight you desire, all you have to do is be diligent ONE day a week. You keep an eye on portions the rest week without having to be a calorie Nazi, and then, at Joe's barbecue, or watching the football game , you can have a few beers and some chips.
Great, great points.
I think one thing people do that sabatoge's themselves is trying too much right away. Trying to exercise a lot and eat good for every meal. it gets to be too much all at once. I am a proponent of at first eating the things you like, but less, and start substituting better options slowly. Going cold turkey many times just gets to people.
I am a master at losing weight. An absolute master. Maintaining, not so much.
I have to keep a height and weight standard for the military and it isn't difficult to do but I do have to keep tabs on what I eat, or at least, how much.
The old saying is you cannot outrun a bad diet is so true. I PT 6 days a week and easily pass the standards for my age (they are a joke) but also in the toughest age bracket. With that said, if I am not on point somewhat with what I eat I get close to the limits. I guess it really is a good thing as it gives me a legit reason to stick to it.
One thing that is a pet peeve is a person who refuses to have something "bad" for them even on a special occasion. Most times you know damned well when no prying eyes are watching they do but in public they put up a persona that they cannot ever indulge.