I kinda red-pilled myself after being put through a Secret Service investigation 11-12 years ago. It's a long story that I'm pretty sure I've touched on in the past. Basically, I put down a cash deposit on my wife's engagement ring. Only one other person used cash that day at the jeweler. They received counterfeit bills that day, so the investigation started. In the end nothing happened, and I have no idea if I was even the person that passed the fake bills. If I was, I had no clue. But overall it was an absolutely stupid process, and the polygraph test was a fucking joke that I will never forget.
Since then, I've red-pilled my wife, and at least partially red-pilled some friends, family, and co-workers. I've convinced some anti-gun folks to back off on their strong views. I've convinced some anti-drug folks to change their mind on legalization.