posted by Heretic
Lol, a person just survived an incident where a number of his co-workers was killed and he's an "ungrateful ass" because he didn't want to hear a meaningless platitude.
Wake me when "thoughts and prayers" actually have actual benefit.
Unless you're offering money to help pay for burial expenses and/or doctor bills, everything else is a platitude. Horrible things happen to people I'm not discounting that. But if somebody is at least trying to offer you some sort of comfort when they can offer nothing else and you say "fuck your thoughts and prayers" - yes, you are an ungrateful ass. And many people do find comfort to hear that phrase, it's not unheard of. Nothing wrong with taking what comfort people can offer you with a little bit of grace.
And as I said in my earlier post, it's my opinion. If you think "fuck your thoughts and prayers" is appropriate, good on you!