buckeyedan wrote:
fidmeister?
so what's the magic number? if they win by 95 is he a nice guy? 90? 75? what's the magic "nice" number? Or should he just let the other team win... I mean how mean is it to actually beat another team? let's just stop keeping score to keep feelings from being hurt... sniffle sniffle
Blue71defending what?
I've coached teams that have bitten off more than they can chew a time or two over the years...
frankly in this day and age of PC I'd rather be on the losing end! Winning a blow out just ain't easy! Your starters don't want to sit (they get so many games in their lives and this is one of them! "my family came from Mars to see me for once in their life and I'm not going to get to play much?") your regular bench expects more PT... your JV bench expects PT... and you are always worried the partents of boths side and other coach will think you did something wrong
last night we were beating a team 20-2 after 1 and 32-5 at the half... they started pressing US... I am friends with their coach as she's a great lady and hey... she wanted to work on things and get better! She can't do that if I goof around and don't play!
I learned a couple years ago at a small school, starting out a program that the kids just want to play... I remember we had just 12 kids and with some injuries we were in a situation where we could play a JV game but we'd only have 5 kids with no subs... against a very good JV team... I canceled thinking they'd be destroyed... all five girls were upset and said they'd rather get beat 100-0 than not play!
believe me they are playing some games at the JV level that are over their head and taking their lumps... but they are getting better! and at the JV level nobody in our league has come within 15... those lumps pay off! Hopefully they'll make better varsity players down the road from it as well...
If waterford puts in the 5th string and plays around then Southern doesn't get anything out of the game but a whoopin... if Waterford continues to play good ball then Southern can get something out of it from a developemental standpoint...
stop obsessing about certain numbers... the kids don't
a loss is a loss
getting whooped is getting whooped rather it's by 50 or 100... the kids just feel whooped! And most competitors know there really is no difference!
This.
People remember stuff like this too, and don't think it doesn't motivate the kids on the losing end to get better. I remember a few years AFTER my HS got it turned around (after 5 years of not winning more than 7 games, one year with 1 win) I asked our then-star player if she even liked playing in games we were winning really big...she said hell yes, because she remembered going to watch our varsity play while she was in elementary school/junior high and watching them get killed, and she never, ever wanted to get beat like that while she was in high school (and we never did!)
Things like this teach you a lot about your team/coaches. There really is only one way to go, so you find the best way to pull it together and get better. And several years down the road, when YOUR team is good, you keep these things in the back of your mind for motivation.