This summer didn't go as planned

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Belly35
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Nov 8, 2017 8:11am
It seemed that this summer didn't go as planned. I didn't get everything I want to accomplish, traveled less this summer than planned. This summer was great weather but shit happen and nothing got done.
How was your summer?
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friendfromlowry
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Nov 8, 2017 8:12am
The summer that ended a month and a half ago? It wasn't bad I guess.
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4cards
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Nov 8, 2017 9:20am
...only thing that I didn't do was play more golf. The wife and I did some traveling, went to concerts, enjoyed family & friends but the golf clubs didn't get used enough.
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Verbal Kint
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Nov 8, 2017 12:23pm
Belly35;1880754 wrote:It seemed that this summer didn't go as planned. I didn't get everything I want to accomplish, traveled less this summer than planned. This summer was great weather but shit happen and nothing got done.
Priorities and committing to them
Belly35;1880754 wrote:How was your summer?
Productive
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Verbal Kint
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Nov 8, 2017 12:26pm
friendfromlowry;1880755 wrote:The summer that ended a month and a half ago? It wasn't bad I guess.
Fall Equinox yes, but weather wise, summer didn't end until third week in October.
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Heretic
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Nov 8, 2017 12:28pm
My summer was bitchin', as always.
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vball10set
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Nov 8, 2017 12:57pm
Went to weddings in Boulder, Dallas & Chicago, as well as my nephews' in NWO...played golf with my son and son-in-law, as well as with buds around here. So yeah, it was excellent...thanks for asking!
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Automatik
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Nov 8, 2017 5:04pm
I had a fantastic summer. I didn't travel as much as I'd like, but much fun was had.
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like_that
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Nov 8, 2017 5:45pm
A lot of weddings. The entire summer it felt like I was on somebody else's schedule. There were a couple weekends where I had some freedom to do whatever the fuck I would like. Overall had a fun summer though. Spent a ton of cash for bachelor parties and weddings, but I guess it's better to have friends than no friends.
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Commander of Awesome
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Nov 8, 2017 6:10pm
Summer was great, traveled quite a bit, did a shit ton of cycling. Didn't hike & camp as much i usually do, would have liked to have done more of that.
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Automatik
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Nov 8, 2017 7:11pm
I'm to the point where weddings actually piss me off.
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like_that
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Nov 8, 2017 7:13pm
Automatik;1880843 wrote:I'm to the point where weddings actually piss me off.
I’ve already gone thru the 5 stages of grief.
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BRF
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Nov 8, 2017 10:45pm
like_that;1880836 wrote: ......but I guess it's better to have friends than no friends.
At my age, I'm saying that you might want to re-think this.

:-)
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BRF
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Nov 8, 2017 11:19pm
Automatik;1880843 wrote:I'm to the point where weddings actually piss me off.
You are getting older and wiser, Grasshopper.
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like_that
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Nov 9, 2017 10:18am
BRF;1880863 wrote:At my age, I'm saying that you might want to re-think this.

:-)
You're probably right.
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Fab4Runner
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Nov 9, 2017 11:15am
Very solid summer.

Fifteen Tribe games
A few RubberDucks games
Rock on the Range
Rise Against and Deftones
Highly Suspect
Billy Joel
Incubus
Korn and Stone Sour
Cedar Point
Lots of fun cookouts/parties
Weekend at Geneva on the Lake for a bachelorette party
One solid wedding

Can't complain.
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Commander of Awesome
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Nov 9, 2017 2:15pm
Automatik;1880843 wrote:I'm to the point where weddings actually piss me off.
Same, I tried to institute a rule. Only the absolutest closest friends/families. And absolutely fucking no weddings on Memorial Day/Labor Day. Those are my 3 days weekends you fucks.
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SportsAndLady
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Nov 9, 2017 3:28pm
I️ hate bachelor party/ weddings on major holiday weekends.

My wedding will be Presidents’ Day which is a 3 day wknd but I️ don’t think for a lot of people so hopefully people won’t be too upset.
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Commander of Awesome
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Nov 9, 2017 3:50pm
SportsAndLady;1880951 wrote:I️ hate bachelor party/ weddings on major holiday weekends.
Agreed, it should just be a law. Memorial Day, 4th of July, and Labor Day are off limits for scheduling things like that.

I'm probably in the minority here, but I'm over Bachelor parties in general. I'm just not the party animal I used to be. Spending a weekend drinking all day and acting like an asshole just doesn't appeal to me anymore.
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Heretic
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Nov 9, 2017 3:56pm
Commander of Awesome;1880953 wrote:Agreed, it should just be a law. Memorial Day, 4th of July, and Labor Day are off limits for scheduling things like that.

I'm probably in the minority here, but I'm over Bachelor parties in general. I'm just not the party animal I used to be. Spending a weekend drinking all day and acting like an asshole just doesn't appeal to me anymore.
That moment when you read something and realize it basically describes you during the summer.
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like_that
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Nov 9, 2017 3:59pm
SportsAndLady;1880951 wrote:I️ hate bachelor party/ weddings on major holiday weekends.

My wedding will be Presidents’ Day which is a 3 day wknd but I️ don’t think for a lot of people so hopefully people won’t be too upset.
I don't mind them if you can travel back home sunday and then you have the monday to recover/get your life together. Also, I feel like a decent amount of people get off for president's day.
Commander of Awesome;1880953 wrote:
I'm probably in the minority here, but I'm over Bachelor parties in general. I'm just not the party animal I used to be. Spending a weekend drinking all day and acting like an asshole just doesn't appeal to me anymore.
Sucks to suck.
Heretic;1880956 wrote:That moment when you read something and realize it basically describes you during every weekend
FIFY
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SportsAndLady
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Nov 9, 2017 4:09pm
Yeah that’s basically all I️ do. Drink Friday night. Drink all day Saturday. Recoup and go out all night Saturday. Then drink for nfl games Sunday.

Now I️ will say, I️ used to be able to stay out til 2-4am. Can’t do that anymore.
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like_that
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Nov 9, 2017 4:22pm
SportsAndLady;1880960 wrote:Yeah that’s basically all I️ do. Drink Friday night. Drink all day Saturday. Recoup and go out all night Saturday. Then drink for nfl games Sunday.

Now I️ will say, I️ used to be able to stay out til 2-4am. Can’t do that anymore.
Yeah i have been slowing down, but I still enjoy going out and drinking with friends. Whether it is day drinking or shift it to meeting at night. My style has changed the older I get too. Typically every week my drinking is done on Saturday. It doesn't necessarily mean I go bachelor style every Saturday taking shots, but a good time is normally had. Other than a few nights (i.e. new year), I can't remember the last time I have made it to 2-4 AM, nor do I have that much of a desire anymore. If we are day drinking, there is no point.

I don't really see that changing if/until I have any kids or most of my friends start having them. Until then, I am going to enjoy my time.
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Commander of Awesome
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Nov 9, 2017 4:22pm
like_that;1880957 wrote: Sucks to suck.
Getting old sucks, just can't do it anymore. I can't even drink enough to get hungover anymore. Alcohol makes me so tired that I end up passing out about 2-3 hours after I've started drinking. Amount I drink in general has plummeted hard the past 16 months, and that's a good thing.
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Heretic
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Nov 9, 2017 4:47pm
like_that;1880962 wrote:Yeah i have been slowing down, but I still enjoy going out and drinking with friends. Whether it is day drinking or shift it to meeting at night. My style has changed the older I get too. Typically every week my drinking is done on Saturday. It doesn't necessarily mean I go bachelor style every Saturday taking shots, but a good time is normally had. Other than a few nights (i.e. new year), I can't remember the last time I have made it to 2-4 AM, nor do I have that much of a desire anymore. If we are day drinking, there is no point.

I don't really see that changing if/until I have any kids or most of my friends start having them. Until then, I am going to enjoy my time.
I struggle with the "staying up" part, too. Most of the time, I'm out by midnight or 1 a.m. And if it's day-drinking like this coming Saturday will be with OSU playing at noon, things start getting dicey around 8 p.m. With how there are a lot of good match-ups all day Saturday, that could be a problem...