ernest_t_bass
Posts: 24,984
Jun 15, 2014 9:08am
When drinking beer at your house, and someone comes over, is it not hospitable to offer that person a beer? Scenario: Wife invited me to come out to her friend's house b/c the husband and another guy were out. I take a beer for the road. Once that is gone, I just sit there. Nothing. No offer, nothing. Hell, the dude even offers other dude a beer. Wife asks me if I want a beer, and I say no thanks. Definitely a poor bro move.
salto
Posts: 2,611
Jun 15, 2014 9:24am
You said the husband and another guy were out? They came back and you were their hanging with the ladies? Did you ladies watch OWN channel together?ernest_t_bass;1626306 wrote:When drinking beer at your house, and someone comes over, is it not hospitable to offer that person a beer? Scenario: Wife invited me to come out to her friend's house b/c the husband and another guy were out. I take a beer for the road. Once that is gone, I just sit there. Nothing. No offer, nothing. Hell, the dude even offers other dude a beer. Wife asks me if I want a beer, and I say no thanks. Definitely a poor bro move.
How it sounds because your balls shriveled up you said "no thanks" when your wife asked if you wanted a beer.
Ironman92
Posts: 49,363
Jun 15, 2014 11:23am
Them being out makes story confusing....
If you bring a beer and are at their place and he offers the other guy a beer but not you? Lol that's wrong.
If you bring a beer and are at their place and he offers the other guy a beer but not you? Lol that's wrong.
Pick6
Posts: 14,946
Jun 15, 2014 11:23am
I would have just got up and grabbed one.
ernest_t_bass
Posts: 24,984
Jun 15, 2014 11:28am
They were out, as in, outside with my wife and her friends. I literally sat there for over an hour without an offer. Lol
SportsAndLady
Posts: 35,632
Jun 15, 2014 11:32am
Why didn't you just ask if you could grab a beer?ernest_t_bass;1626340 wrote:They were out, as in, outside with my wife and her friends. I literally sat there for over an hour without an offer. Lol
ernest_t_bass
Posts: 24,984
Jun 15, 2014 11:35am
Had it been MY friends, I would have. Hell, I'd have just grabbed one. Not offering is definitely against bro code.SportsAndLady;1626345 wrote:Why didn't you just ask if you could grab a beer?
like_that
Posts: 26,625
Jun 15, 2014 11:36am
You could have also brought more than one beer...
Whenever I go somewhere the minimum is a six pack. No idea why the hell you would bring just one beer.
Whenever I go somewhere the minimum is a six pack. No idea why the hell you would bring just one beer.
SportsAndLady
Posts: 35,632
Jun 15, 2014 11:41am
Good point.like_that;1626348 wrote:You could have also brought more than one beer...
Whenever I go somewhere the minimum is a six pack. No idea why the hell you would bring just one beer.
If I'm going somewhere where I know people will be drinking, I never rely on there being booze there for me. I just bring my own. Problem solved.
SportsAndLady
Posts: 35,632
Jun 15, 2014 11:42am
You realize that it isn't rude or disrespectful to ask someone for a beer, even if they're not your friends?ernest_t_bass;1626347 wrote:Had it been MY friends, I would have. Hell, I'd have just grabbed one. Not offering is definitely against bro code.
Just standing there awkwardly waiting for them to offer you a beer is just weird.
Ironman92
Posts: 49,363
Jun 15, 2014 11:45am
You probably should've brought more than just your one but he should've definitely offered you another.
ernest_t_bass
Posts: 24,984
Jun 15, 2014 1:49pm
Excellent point, and it was noted as I left. But the purpose of the thread is not about hindsight. It's about whether or not it's bush not not offer a beer.like_that;1626348 wrote:You could have also brought more than one beer...
Whenever I go somewhere the minimum is a six pack. No idea why the hell you would bring just one beer.
SportsAndLady
Posts: 35,632
Jun 15, 2014 1:53pm
I don't understand why you started a thread asking? I think everyone would agree that the guy should have offered you a beer. Did you really need to start a thread asking people to feel sorry for you?ernest_t_bass;1626390 wrote:Excellent point, and it was noted as I left. But the purpose of the thread is not about hindsight. It's about whether or not it's bush not not offer a beer.
It's like starting a thread complaining that mcdonalds forgot to put your fries in the bag and asking if you think the person was in the wrong.
like_that
Posts: 26,625
Jun 15, 2014 3:07pm
ernest_t_bass;1626390 wrote:Excellent point, and it was noted as I left. But the purpose of the thread is not about hindsight. It's about whether or not it's bush not not offer a beer.
I would offer a beer, however I would think it was bush on your end for only brining ONE beer. If they didn't offer you a beer out of spite, then I could understand why. I had a friend who does/did that. 2nd time he did it when I had people over, I told him he couldn't drink any beer unless he went to the corner store and brought some. He is also the same type of person that would bring a six pack, and then take it home with him.
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MontyBrunswick
Jun 15, 2014 4:06pm
You have to remember who the OP is.SportsAndLady;1626391 wrote:I don't understand why you started a thread asking?
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Sonofanump
Jun 15, 2014 6:03pm
What kinda beer was it?
-Society-
Posts: 1,348
Jun 15, 2014 6:54pm
shut the fuck up. it was bud light. now go all fuck inbev to feel cool.Sonofanump;1626436 wrote:What kinda beer was it?
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Sonofanump
Jun 15, 2014 7:46pm
no.-Society-;1626448 wrote:shut the fuck up. it was bud light. now go all fuck inbev to feel cool.
-Society-
Posts: 1,348
Jun 15, 2014 7:55pm
okSonofanump;1626460 wrote:no.
sherm03
Posts: 7,349
Jun 15, 2014 8:11pm
People like that should die a terrible death.like_that;1626403 wrote:He is also the same type of person that would bring a six pack, and then take it home with him.
ZWICK 4 PREZ
Posts: 7,733
Jun 15, 2014 8:57pm
we have a buddy who has more money than the rest of our group put together, that brings his own bottle of liquor of his choice (usually makers), hides it while he's there, then takes it home with him when he leaves.like_that;1626403 wrote: He is also the same type of person that would bring a six pack, and then take it home with him.
GoChiefs
Posts: 16,754
Jun 15, 2014 9:04pm
You know you're an alcoholic when you start a thread on a message board bitching about not being offered a beer.
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Tiernan
Posts: 13,021
Jun 15, 2014 9:39pm
I didn't start it Chiefs.
like_that
Posts: 26,625
Jun 15, 2014 9:52pm
You guys haven't called him out on it?ZWICK 4 PREZ;1626485 wrote:we have a buddy who has more money than the rest of our group put together, that brings his own bottle of liquor of his choice (usually makers), hides it while he's there, then takes it home with him when he leaves.
ZWICK 4 PREZ
Posts: 7,733
Jun 16, 2014 5:24am
Yeah but it's become an ongoing joke by now like CC not paying his $20. Everyone knows it will never change.like_that;1626517 wrote:You guys haven't called him out on it?