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iluvz
Posts: 262
Dec 28, 2009 3:22pm
So guys... If you brought up the topic of moving in with your girl, and she said no... Would you be ok with that? Or would you be upset? Possibly end it? Not sure what the typical reaction to expect would be?!
Fab1b
Posts: 12,949
Dec 28, 2009 3:23pm
Depends on where I thought we were at in the relationship.
sleeper
Posts: 27,879
Dec 28, 2009 3:26pm
I would be okay with it, unless we were engaged or had been banging for 5+ years exclusively.
ZWICK 4 PREZ
Posts: 7,733
Dec 28, 2009 3:27pm
Well I'd never live with a girl before marriage.. not for religious reasons, but b/c I'm not giving up freedom for a girl I'm only dating. So... i guess I'd ask her why she can't seem to find any available apartments if she suggested moving in.
power i
Posts: 1,296
Dec 28, 2009 3:31pm
I'm not a guy but seeing that most men are usually so desperate, they should be more than happy to wait around til you decide what you want.
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enigmaax
Posts: 4,511
Dec 28, 2009 3:36pm
Get ready for the volume on the insecurity to hit 11.iluvz wrote: So guys... If you brought up the topic of moving in with your girl, and she said no... Would you be ok with that? Or would you be upset? Possibly end it? Not sure what the typical reaction to expect would be?!
The crappy thing for me is, I've asked three different people to move in with me over the course of a lifetime, thinking each time they'd say "no" and that would open the door for my "we aren't on the same page" speech. Sadly, they all moved in and my little speech didn't really make sense a couple months later.
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iluvz
Posts: 262
Dec 28, 2009 3:37pm
Officially dating not quite a year. Known each other longer. His daughter basically has taken over my spare bed room as hers. He hasn't left my house in like a month. And I'm ok with that. I guess its just the control part of me... I like knowing there's the option of him NOT being there if I don't want him too be. Plus I'm neurotic about my space, and things being exactly as they should, and where they should. And if he moves in I'd possibly have to compromise on that. That's awful of me right?
Heretic
Posts: 18,820
Dec 28, 2009 3:38pm
Quick question: Am I needing her to move in to pay my rent or other bills? If so, I'd be upset. If not, I'd be cool and tell her that she doesn't need to live with me in order to bring me a sandwich.
wes_mantooth
Posts: 17,977
Dec 28, 2009 3:41pm
I would be ok with it if she let me go "backdoor" as a consolation prize.
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iluvz
Posts: 262
Dec 28, 2009 3:41pm
Power I... That's hysterical!! And actually, he's not desperate. He's actually quite amazing. And its not that I don't know what I want... Its just that I honestly don't know if I'm capable of doing what I want! I am seriously OCD anymore lol
GoChiefs
Posts: 16,754
Dec 28, 2009 3:41pm
Would NEVER marry a woman without living with them first. Just b/c you love a woman..doesn't mean you can live with her.ZWICK 4 PREZ wrote: Well I'd never live with a girl before marriage.. not for religious reasons, but b/c I'm not giving up freedom for a girl I'm only dating. So... i guess I'd ask her why she can't seem to find any available apartments if she suggested moving in.
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iluvz
Posts: 262
Dec 28, 2009 3:44pm
No backdoor Wes. Not happening. Lol and he doesn't need me to pay bills, nor do I need him to pay mine 
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enigmaax
Posts: 4,511
Dec 28, 2009 3:45pm
Wow...and a woman....would've never guessed.iluvz wrote: I'm neurotic
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enigmaax
Posts: 4,511
Dec 28, 2009 3:46pm
Like I always say, "Women...can't live with 'em....can't live with 'em."GoChiefs wrote: Just b/c you love a woman..doesn't mean you can live with her.
ZWICK 4 PREZ
Posts: 7,733
Dec 28, 2009 3:47pm
The thought of seeing a gf in my house every day I come home for work upsets my stomach.GoChiefs wrote:
Would NEVER marry a woman without living with them first. Just b/c you love a woman..doesn't mean you can live with her.
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iluvz
Posts: 262
Dec 28, 2009 3:50pm
Whatever Zwick. You can act like you're the man. But I recall quite well you saying far different things than that lol
ZWICK 4 PREZ
Posts: 7,733
Dec 28, 2009 3:52pm
what r u talkin about
power i
Posts: 1,296
Dec 28, 2009 3:53pm
You just got busted.ZWICK 4 PREZ wrote: what r u talkin about
ZWICK 4 PREZ
Posts: 7,733
Dec 28, 2009 3:54pm
shiiiiit
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iluvz
Posts: 262
Dec 28, 2009 3:55pm
All I'm sayin is LOL
GoChiefs
Posts: 16,754
Dec 28, 2009 3:55pm
And then you marry her and realize how horrible it is living with her..so you divorce in a year..yeah..good call.ZWICK 4 PREZ wrote: The thought of seeing a gf in my house every day I come home for work upsets my stomach.
ZWICK 4 PREZ
Posts: 7,733
Dec 28, 2009 3:55pm
No u just suck it up.GoChiefs wrote:
And then you marry her and realize how horrible it is living with her..so you divorce in a year..yeah..good call.
Take a lil more overseas projects for work.
Work some longer hours.
You're golden.
ernest_t_bass
Posts: 24,984
Dec 28, 2009 4:00pm
iluvz wrote: Whatever Zwick. You can act like you're the man. But I recall quite well you saying far different things than that lol
Can I frame this quote?
GoChiefs
Posts: 16,754
Dec 28, 2009 4:01pm
So that's why I'm laid off huh? Dick. :dodgy:ZWICK 4 PREZ wrote: Take a lil more overseas projects for work.
ZWICK 4 PREZ
Posts: 7,733
Dec 28, 2009 4:01pm
Take that up with Timmy.GoChiefs wrote:So that's why I'm laid off huh? Dick. :dodgy:ZWICK 4 PREZ wrote: Take a lil more overseas projects for work.