I didnt know this happened anymore!

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thavoice
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Aug 20, 2012 3:55pm
and it was refreshingly aweseom...

Last sat night was at my nephew's birthday party.

16-18 adults, 15 or so kids.

NOT once did I see someone get out their cell phone to text, or call, or play games, or check facebook or ANYTHING like that. No video games, no PSP's...nothing.
Not once.

Everyone actually was either sitting around talking, or playing some sort of game, and just enjoying themselves like we woulda been 10 years ago.

To NOT see everyone with their heads down into some sort of electronic device was something that I really missed.

Too many times that is all you see.....people playing on their damned phones or game things.

I know..cool story.....
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vball10set
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Aug 20, 2012 4:04pm
Are you Amish?
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sleeper
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Aug 20, 2012 4:05pm
People are so glued to their phones its disgusting.
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Steel Valley Football
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Aug 20, 2012 4:22pm
I'm reading this thread on my phone at a party.
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gut
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Aug 20, 2012 4:38pm
The absolute worst is seeing a couple at a restaurant both looking at their phone.

Interesting that they call it "social networking" when it's rather anti-social (or at least, impersonal) interaction.
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SnotBubbles
Posts: 4,492
Aug 20, 2012 4:47pm
Fucking kids these days.

Seriously though, my SIX YEAR OLD son was asking me when he was getting a cell phone because his friend Cody has a cell phone and Cody is younger than him. I got my first cell phone when I was 18 and I paid for it myself.

I told him to "fuck off to his room and go play with play dough." He responded with a "what the fuck is play dough." Fucking kids.

The last part didn't happen QUITE like that.
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THE4RINGZ
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Aug 20, 2012 5:08pm
5 posts into this thread and no one has mentioned that they were texting thavoice's wife while she was at the party? You people are slipping.
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GoChiefs
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Aug 20, 2012 5:23pm
THE4RINGZ;1250857 wrote:5 posts into this thread and no one has mentioned that they were texting thavoice's wife while she was at the party? You people are slipping.
Isn't that always implied?
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Fab1b
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Aug 20, 2012 5:29pm
I hate how much I am on the phone/computer and am trying to be more aware of that as of late! Especially when we are out to eat and such but it has turned into routine and you don't really notice it until something is said. Sad really but that is now the world we live in!
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Tigerfan00
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Aug 20, 2012 5:39pm
THE4RINGZ;1250857 wrote:5 posts into this thread and no one has mentioned that they were texting thavoice's wife while she was at the party? You people are slipping.
Found a picture of her from the party.

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Ironman92
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Aug 20, 2012 8:46pm
thavoice;1250801 wrote:and it was refreshingly aweseom...

Last sat night was at my nephew's birthday party.

16-18 adults, 15 or so kids.

NOT once did I see someone get out their cell phone to text, or call, or play games, or check facebook or ANYTHING like that. No video games, no PSP's...nothing.
Not once.

Everyone actually was either sitting around talking, or playing some sort of game, and just enjoying themselves like we woulda been 10 years ago.

To NOT see everyone with their heads down into some sort of electronic device was something that I really missed.

Too many times that is all you see.....people playing on their damned phones or game things.

I know..cool story.....

Hard to believe.
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Con_Alma
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Aug 20, 2012 9:28pm
gut;1250840 wrote:...

Interesting that they call it "social networking" when it's rather anti-social (or at least, impersonal) interaction.
This.
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rmolin73
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Aug 20, 2012 9:47pm
We have a rule that when we have a family dinner/cookout there are no phones!
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DeadliestWarrior34
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Aug 20, 2012 11:33pm
Cool
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Laley23
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Aug 21, 2012 12:07am
If I am in a small group or 1-1 with someone and they are unnecessarily text for a while. Ill send them a text with a smartass comment. Usually gets the point across.
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ernest_t_bass
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Aug 21, 2012 12:32am
I'm a guilty party of always being on the smrt phone.
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Pick6
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Aug 21, 2012 3:39am
I'm reading this from my phone.


Kind of ironic that y'all are bitching about "heads being into electronic devices" and social networking and you are doing it right now. Yes I consider posting on forums to be a form of social networking.
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Steel Valley Football
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Aug 21, 2012 7:59am
^^^^

You are correct.
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Con_Alma
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Aug 21, 2012 8:03am
Pick6;1251188 wrote:I'm reading this from my phone.


Kind of ironic that y'all are bitching about "heads being into electronic devices" and social networking and you are doing it right now. Yes I consider posting on forums to be a form of social networking.
I agree that it falls into the same category.

It's still "anti-social and impersonal interaction".
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Steel Valley Football
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Aug 21, 2012 8:09am
Con_Alma;1251231 wrote:I agree that it falls into the same category.

It's still "anti-social and impersonal interaction".

It's no more antisocial and impersonal than when people wrote or typed letters to correspond.
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Con_Alma
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Aug 21, 2012 8:11am
Steel Valley Football;1251234 wrote:It's no more antisocial and impersonal than when people wrote or typed letters to correspond.
Very true. I think the difference is the frequency and the replacement of personal communications that has taken place.
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Steel Valley Football
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Aug 21, 2012 8:43am
Con_Alma;1251236 wrote:Very true. I think the difference is the frequency and the replacement of personal communications that has taken place.


What difference? If anything, there is more communication taking place.
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Con_Alma
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Aug 21, 2012 8:49am
Steel Valley Football;1251250 wrote:What difference? If anything, there is more communication taking place.
It's a different kind of communication. There are less interpersonal skills used and less face to face interaction. Too much exclusive use of electronic information dehumanises what is a very, very important part of community life and living together.
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FatHobbit
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Aug 21, 2012 8:55am
gut;1250840 wrote:The absolute worst is seeing a couple at a restaurant both looking at their phone.
That's the absolute worst?
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Steel Valley Football
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Aug 21, 2012 9:26am
Con_Alma;1251251 wrote:It's a different kind of communication. There are less interpersonal skills used and less face to face interaction. Too much exclusive use of electronic information dehumanises what is a very, very important part of community life and living together.

I think you have mistakenly labeled the ADDITION of communication means as REPLACEMENT of the existing communication means.

I visit and call from my house, my mom, who lives 2.5 hrs away, the same amount as I did 15 years ago. However, additionally, I text her and video chat. I also can call her when I'm AWAY from home now because I have a mobile phone, where as before I did not.

The same is true of kids today. They still see their friends at school and interact the same as they did twenty years ago. They still hang out after school and at social events; movies, football games, etc. However, in ADDITION to that, they call, text and facebook/internet chat during that time and in the later hours. Twenty years ago, that extra communication in the later hours did not exist; other than via telephone.