gerb131
Posts: 9,932
May 31, 2012 6:16pm
Or blood test on you?
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vball10set
Posts: 24,795
May 31, 2012 6:17pm
yup
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Con_Alma
Posts: 12,198
May 31, 2012 6:17pm
Sure. Investigate away.
Pick6
Posts: 14,946
May 31, 2012 6:18pm
yea..nothing to hide.
THE4RINGZ
Posts: 16,816
May 31, 2012 6:19pm
I would be ok with any kind of test she would run.
Rotinaj
Posts: 7,699
May 31, 2012 6:28pm
As long as i gave her Aids before the test im fine with it.
sleeper
Posts: 27,879
May 31, 2012 6:30pm
No, I don't date dumb ass hoes, I just bang them.
Curly J
Posts: 7,282
May 31, 2012 6:35pm
I wouldn't mind as long as she lets me PIIHB afterward.
sherm03
Posts: 7,349
May 31, 2012 7:06pm
I wouldn't be worried about anything showing up. But I don't know if I would be cool being in a relationship with someone who had that big of trust issues that they would have to run a background check on me.
1_beast
Posts: 5,642
May 31, 2012 7:19pm
No! That would mean she has left the kitchen ans stopped making sammich's.
ernest_t_bass
Posts: 24,984
May 31, 2012 7:25pm
Without telling me? Not cool.
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queencitybuckeye
Posts: 7,117
May 31, 2012 7:45pm
She either has reason not to trust me, or she doesn't trust me for no reason. Either is a recipe for a failed relationship.
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Steel Valley Football
Posts: 4,548
May 31, 2012 10:08pm
My wife's family did on me when we first started dating, without either of our knowledge. Her uncles, not parents. They are a family of cops and did it without telling anyone, not her parents I don't think. I have nothing to hide, but was pissed about it nonetheless. Be a man and ask me to my face about my legal past.
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fan_from_texas
Posts: 2,693
Jun 1, 2012 8:44pm
I wouldn't be cool with it. It seems like that's a pretty big breach of trust issue, isn't it? If she wants to know something, ask. If you can't trust someone, don't be with them.
Skyhook79
Posts: 5,739
Jun 1, 2012 10:12pm
Maybe her Uncles were too busy banging your mom to ask you to your face.Steel Valley Football;1186375 wrote:My wife's family did on me when we first started dating, without either of our knowledge. Her uncles, not parents. They are a family of cops and did it without telling anyone, not her parents I don't think. I have nothing to hide, but was pissed about it nonetheless. Be a man and ask me to my face about my legal past.
/steelvalleyfootball'd
Pick6
Posts: 14,946
Jun 1, 2012 10:15pm
I change my answer because I didnt really read the question right. I would be fine with somebody doing a background check one me BEFORE we had a relationship. I don't really see the point of a significant other doing a background check, because you would figure they know a lot about you since you have a relationship together.
Now say I was asked to give a blood test for something, I'd probably be pretty fucking irate. Lack of trust.
Now say I was asked to give a blood test for something, I'd probably be pretty fucking irate. Lack of trust.
FatHobbit
Posts: 8,651
Jun 1, 2012 11:33pm
What's the blood test for?
THE4RINGZ
Posts: 16,816
Jun 1, 2012 11:37pm
FatHobbit;1187059 wrote:What's the blood test for?
Just shut up and let them draw the blood there cowboy.
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Steel Valley Football
Posts: 4,548
Jun 2, 2012 11:01am
That's impossible. My wife's uncles are all gay. Like your dad.Skyhook79;1187016 wrote:Maybe her Uncles were too busy banging your mom to ask you to your face./steelvalleyfootball'd
Tigerfan00
Posts: 3,427
Jun 2, 2012 2:19pm
thavoice shouldve had one done on his wife.
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friendfromlowry
Posts: 6,239
Jun 2, 2012 5:37pm
Because you might lie about it? Hence getting the background check.Steel Valley Football;1186375 wrote:My wife's family did on me when we first started dating, without either of our knowledge. Her uncles, not parents. They are a family of cops and did it without telling anyone, not her parents I don't think. I have nothing to hide, but was pissed about it nonetheless. Be a man and ask me to my face about my legal past.
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Steel Valley Football
Posts: 4,548
Jun 2, 2012 9:17pm
I don't lie.friendfromlowry;1187286 wrote:Because you might lie about it? Hence getting the background check.
It's still sneaky, regardless. And, now, 12 years later, now that they know me and how I'm raising my family, and knowing I found out about it; they feel like idiots for doing it. So I've been told.
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Steel Valley Football
Posts: 4,548
Jun 2, 2012 9:18pm
I don't lie.friendfromlowry;1187286 wrote:Because you might lie about it? Hence getting the background check.
It's still sneaky, regardless. And, now, 12 years later, now that they know me and how I'm raising my family, and knowing I found out about it; they feel like idiots for doing it. So I've been told.
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Steel Valley Football
Posts: 4,548
Jun 2, 2012 9:29pm
I don't lie.friendfromlowry;1187286 wrote:Because you might lie about it? Hence getting the background check.
It's still sneaky, regardless. And, now, 12 years later, now that they know me and how I'm raising my family, and knowing I found out about it; they feel like idiots for doing it. So I've been told.
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thavoice
Posts: 14,376
Jun 4, 2012 10:42am
WOuld I have anything to hide on either?
No.
But if she is doing that....run. Run like the wind because she will only cause you trouble day after day after day.
No.
But if she is doing that....run. Run like the wind because she will only cause you trouble day after day after day.