Fab4Runner wrote:
These are fun but I was involved in one once where some people brought gag gifts and some brought legit gifts...it was just weird.
I always think that it's best when some people bring gag gifts and others bring legit ones. Some people leave really happy and others end up disappointing. I always think these are best when you work in teams too. Like whenever we'd do them at church my family would always work together so that we could get as many of the things we wanted as possible. So I may end up with what my dad wanted, and my mom may end up with what I wanted, etc.
Our youth group does this every year and we require that you either re-gift something from home or buy something under $5. We've had some good ones. One year a girl brought an old set of pom-poms, we've had people bring toy wild-west sets (gun, hand cuffs, spurs), gift cards, candles, ninja turtles pajamas, matchbox cars, and homemade items as well. The thing with white elephant is that you never quite know what's going to go over well and what isn't. Sometimes you bring something as a gag gift and people find it funny and everyone wants it. Other times you bring what you think is a really good gift and it never gets stolen. So you never quite know. If you do bring a gag gift, make it something funny that people may try and steal.