Friends wife having an affair.....maybe.....

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thavoice
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Feb 25, 2011 4:01pm
I coulda swore I saw a guy I know's wife playing smoochface with another dude at lunch today.

I am not 100% sure...but darned close. It was in a parking lot at lunch time and it was kinda outta place.

I would not say he is a close friend...was alot closer many years ago in HS and do not see him much...but dang.....it so looked like her.

We connected eyes...she does not really know me too much....and when we caught eyes she looked for a few extra seconds at me.

Thing is.....i dont know what to do...I am not 100% certain..and it is not like I see the guy enough that I could get a vibe how it is all going and fit it in teh discussion or whatever.

Suggestions......
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wildcats20
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Feb 25, 2011 4:02pm
You do nothing.
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Fab4Runner
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Feb 25, 2011 4:03pm
I wouldn't do anything unless you had 100% unmistakable proof it was her....and even then I would be cautious.
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LJ
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Feb 25, 2011 4:05pm
not your place, don't do anything.
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SnotBubbles
Feb 25, 2011 4:05pm
Go through their trash, follow her when she leaves the house, check her panties for semen. This is your chance to be CSI buddy. Don't fucking blow it.
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MontyBrunswick
Feb 25, 2011 4:05pm
Tell him. It would make for a much better story.
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wildcats20
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Feb 25, 2011 4:07pm
I wouldn't do anything unless you had 100% unmistakable proof it was her....and even then I would be cautious.
I still wouldn't say anything if I saw it for a fact.
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LJ
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Feb 25, 2011 4:08pm
wildcats20;691900 wrote:I still wouldn't say anything if I saw it for a fact.

is this why you wear makeup when cheating on Fab? So that no one is sure?
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wildcats20
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Feb 25, 2011 4:08pm
I still wouldn't say anything if I saw it for a fact.


is this why you wear makeup when cheating on Fab? So that no one is sure?
Correct.
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SnotBubbles
Feb 25, 2011 4:09pm
wildcats20;691900 wrote:I still wouldn't say anything if I saw it for a fact.

Good thinking. Now Fab knows she can go out and fuck half Mogadore and not worry about getting caught. Real genius buddy.
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Thread Bomber
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Feb 25, 2011 4:11pm
thavoice;691886 wrote:I coulda swore I saw a guy I know's wife playing smoochface with another dude at lunch today.

I am not 100% sure...but darned close. It was in a parking lot at lunch time and it was kinda outta place.

I would not say he is a close friend...was alot closer many years ago in HS and do not see him much...but dang.....it so looked like her.

We connected eyes...she does not really know me too much....and when we caught eyes she looked for a few extra seconds at me.

Thing is.....i dont know what to do...I am not 100% certain..and it is not like I see the guy enough that I could get a vibe how it is all going and fit it in teh discussion or whatever.

Suggestions......
If she was looking at YOU....I would call her asap. She's prolly looking to line up another fuck buddy.


Don't miss the pussy when it's being thrown at you.
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wildcats20
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Feb 25, 2011 4:12pm
I still wouldn't say anything if I saw it for a fact.

Good thinking. Now Fab knows she can go out and fuck half Mogadore and not worry about getting caught. Real genius buddy.
Because that's what I said?
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ytownfootball
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Feb 25, 2011 4:12pm
This is surely an instance to use blackmail for trim if she's hot.
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Fab4Runner
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Feb 25, 2011 4:13pm
wildcats20;691900 wrote:I still wouldn't say anything if I saw it for a fact.
I am not saying I would either. Depends on the person, the circumstances, etc. If it was not a close friend there is no way I would get involved.
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SnotBubbles
Feb 25, 2011 4:18pm
wildcats20;691909 wrote:Because that's what I said?

Because now she knows how you feel and will assume other people think the same. So she'll go fuck half of Mogadore. That's what I'd do if I was a chick.
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SnotBubbles
Feb 25, 2011 4:18pm
Fab4Runner;691914 wrote:I am not saying I would either. Depends on the person, the circumstances, etc. If it was not a close friend there is no way I would get involved.

Tell him that you're going to fuck half of Mogadore to get him of my case please?
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Fab4Runner
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Feb 25, 2011 4:23pm
SnotBubbles;691923 wrote:Tell him that you're going to fuck half of Mogadore to get him of my case please?
I think I know about 10 people in Mogadore and only one is a guy....so I am sorry I just can't help you.
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Feb 25, 2011 4:25pm
Fab4Runner;691932 wrote:I think I know about 10 people in Mogadore and only one is a guy.

That's not a problem
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bigkahuna
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Feb 25, 2011 4:26pm
I wouldn't for 2 reasons.

1. You aren't 100% sure

2. The husband isn't one of or your best friend/s.

If this was one of my college buddies (who I lived with for 4 years in college and we were each other's best man at our weddings), and I was at least 75% sure, I'd probably say something just because that's my dude.

Now if it was flipped and my dude was sucking some girl's face, I would never say something because that's a Man Law.
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Skyhook79
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Feb 25, 2011 4:27pm
If your not 100% sure you say nothing.
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The Equalizer
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Feb 25, 2011 4:28pm
Isn't this the premise of a recent movie?
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FatHobbit
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Feb 25, 2011 4:29pm
Do you know her number? Or can you find it? Call her anonymously and tell her you know what she's doing and she's going to get what she deserves. If she is cheating she'll more than likely spill her guts to him. And if not it will still be funny when she's trying to figure out what she did and who knows.
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Fab4Runner
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Feb 25, 2011 4:33pm
FatHobbit;691934 wrote:That's not a problem


It is for me. I like Ds not Vs.
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SnotBubbles
Feb 25, 2011 4:34pm
FatHobbit;691944 wrote:Do you know her number? Or can you find it? Call her anonymously and tell her you know what she's doing and she's going to get what she deserves. If she is cheating she'll more than likely spill her guts to him. And if not it will still be funny when she's trying to figure out what she did and who knows.

Or, if she's hot, bribe her. Tell her to meet you in the parking lot of your local Wendy's and give you a hand job and a Baconater or you're going to spill the beans.
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SnotBubbles
Feb 25, 2011 4:34pm
Fab4Runner;691949 wrote:It is for me. I like Ds not Vs.

Why not like both? Like ETB?