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bigdaddy2003
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Dec 3, 2009 2:11pm
I just found out that my ex girlfriend whom I was with for 4 years is pregnant. We haven't been together for 2 years but obviously she is still in my memory. For some reason I can't get it out of my head that she is pregnant. I guess because we were once at that level but it never happened. Is it weird that I keep thinking about it?
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gorocks99
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Dec 3, 2009 2:12pm
Got a fetish?
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bigdaddy2003
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Dec 3, 2009 2:13pm
gorocks99 wrote: Got a fetish?
lol nah although I did find a pregnant stripper very attractive once.
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capninsano
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Dec 3, 2009 2:16pm
Pics or GTFO!
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wes_mantooth
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Dec 3, 2009 2:48pm
Easiest way to get that out of your system is simple....

Do her best friend.
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darbypitcher22
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Dec 3, 2009 2:56pm
I don't know what to tell ya man. go get some strippers and some booze. Try to forget her.
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Nate
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Dec 3, 2009 3:05pm
I concur with Mantooth.
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Little Danny
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Dec 3, 2009 3:15pm
Is Tiger the daddy?
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bigdaddy2003
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Dec 3, 2009 3:22pm
lol nah she isn't anywhere near the same league as the broads he is banging.
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derek bomar
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Dec 3, 2009 3:45pm
i feel for you man...best way to get over it is to get on to find someone else...shit happens, move on.
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se-alum
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Dec 3, 2009 3:52pm
I can see where it could bother you a bit.
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bigdaddy2003
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Dec 3, 2009 3:52pm
Yeah, I'm not stuck on her like I'm stalking her or sitting around moping about her. It's just hit me funny that she is pregnant for some reason.
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Little Danny
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Dec 3, 2009 3:53pm
BigDaddy,

You are not weird for thinking about it. The fact that some other guy has impregnated her triggered your mind to realize it won't happen for the two of you. I know you probably delt with that before, but this really cements things in your mind. In addition, I think it is a primal urge to be upset when another man plants his seed in a woman we thought we had a future with. Whether we are over her or not. In time you will be over it, but it will probably be something that will knaw on you for awhile.
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krambman
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Dec 3, 2009 3:56pm
Little Danny wrote: BigDaddy,

You are not weird for thinking about it. The fact that some other guy has impregnated her triggered your mind to realize it won't happen for the two of you. I know you probably delt with that before, but this really cements things in your mind. In addition, I think it is a primal urge to be upset when another man plants his seed in a woman we thought we had a future with. Whether we are over her or not. In time you will be over it, but it will probably be something that will knaw on you for awhile.
This. It brings final closure. Even though you may have thought you were over her the ideas you used to have about being with her long term and having kids with her and going to come back because you now must face the ultimate reality that those former dreams are gone forever.
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j_crazy
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Dec 3, 2009 3:56pm
as long as it's not yours you're golden.

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Cleveland Buck
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Dec 3, 2009 3:57pm
j_crazy wrote: as long as it's not yours you're golden.
This.