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fan_from_texas
Posts: 2,693
Apr 30, 2010 7:13pm
We have a friend who likes to hug. Everyone. A lot. He's a nice guy, and I don't think he mrans anything bad by it. He just hugs people constantly.
What's the best way to let him know that Mrs. FFT and I don't need hugs every time we see him? Have you dealt with huggers in the past? Any ways to get them the message without hurting feelings? He's a little emotionally fragile, so I don't want to hurt the guy's feelings. But all this hugging weirds me out.
What's the best way to let him know that Mrs. FFT and I don't need hugs every time we see him? Have you dealt with huggers in the past? Any ways to get them the message without hurting feelings? He's a little emotionally fragile, so I don't want to hurt the guy's feelings. But all this hugging weirds me out.
coyotes22
Posts: 11,298
Apr 30, 2010 7:14pm
Taser gun. One time, and I bet he quits!
I kid.
Just tell him its not your thing.
I kid.
Just tell him its not your thing.
sleeper
Posts: 27,879
Apr 30, 2010 7:15pm
Just put our your hand IMMEDIATELY when he comes up to you and when he leans in to hug, just tell him you have he smells LOL
2quik4u
Posts: 4,388
Apr 30, 2010 7:16pm
do his sister
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fan_from_texas
Posts: 2,693
Apr 30, 2010 7:18pm
Well, I've let it go on for awhile (6 mos?), so anything I do now will seem out of the blue. By not speaking up early, I lured him into a false sense of my being okay with it. Last time I ever make that mistake.
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tuskytuffguy
Posts: 615
Apr 30, 2010 7:28pm
Wow, fan, just come out already, don't beat around the bush. I mean, letting it go for 6 months? Geez, don't try to pass the blame to other guy, now.
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raiderbuck
Posts: 1,623
Apr 30, 2010 7:32pm
My ex's dad used to hug me all the time. Frickin' weirded me out so I just started putting my hand out AS SOON as I saw him. That way, I initiated the greeting, and it was just a handshake. It worked, because he doesn't hug me anymore we just shake hands
2quik4u
Posts: 4,388
Apr 30, 2010 7:33pm
so u were banging the girl and dad at once?raiderbuck wrote: My ex's dad used to hug me all the time. Frickin' weirded me out so I just started putting my hand out AS SOON as I saw him. That way, I initiated the greeting, and it was just a handshake. It worked, because he doesn't hug me anymore we just shake hands
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raiderbuck
Posts: 1,623
Apr 30, 2010 7:36pm
^^no, I just think he was happy that someone was finally bangin' his psycho ass daughter
2quik4u
Posts: 4,388
Apr 30, 2010 7:37pm
lol
Cleveland Buck
Posts: 5,126
Apr 30, 2010 7:38pm
Kick him in the balls.
tk421
Posts: 8,500
Apr 30, 2010 7:56pm
Grab his crotch, or maybe that's not the kind of message you want to send. 
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I Wear Pants
Posts: 16,223
Apr 30, 2010 8:48pm
Do you care about getting hugged or hurting the dudes feelings more?
If it's hugged, just say "not really my thing man", if it's the dude then just keep dealing with it...and come out of the closet.
If it's hugged, just say "not really my thing man", if it's the dude then just keep dealing with it...and come out of the closet.
Chesapeake
Posts: 1,603
Apr 30, 2010 9:38pm
Mr. 300
Posts: 3,090
Apr 30, 2010 9:42pm
I love hugs!!
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september63
Posts: 5,789
Apr 30, 2010 10:12pm
This.raiderbuck wrote: My ex's dad used to hug me all the time. Frickin' weirded me out so I just started putting my hand out AS SOON as I saw him. That way, I initiated the greeting, and it was just a handshake. It worked, because he doesn't hug me anymore we just shake hands
Heretic
Posts: 18,820
Apr 30, 2010 11:48pm
Take it to the next level and sodomize him. He'll think twice about sending mixed signals with all this hugging shit!