Trueblue23
Posts: 7,463
Apr 25, 2010 5:02pm
Don't know if this is OK to Post
To: Trueblue23
I don't know if this is something Chatter is willing to post .. I will send it to you first .
Belly need help in Barnsville or Byerville
If you are a long time resident and still live in those two areas please PM Belly.
Capsule of the situation: I was give up at birth to my biological birth mom sister. I was born on the kitchen floor of a old farm house and when the country doctor came to help asking who is this giving birth the family decided to switch names. My bio mom was young and unmarried. Some of you many know but I grew-up poor and was moved from family member to family member over my childhood. Over the past 10 years many of the older family member my grandma (Matriarch of the Family), mom and aunts that know of this are now gone but they have left behind information. Some in the form of letters, Bible, photos and even some attempt to represent a family tree. I have known about the birth switch after I got out of the Army and started to make my own family. My mom first approached me after the birth of my first daughter and gave me a letter from my bio mom (her younger sister). This was a family secret and one of the other reasons was because she die early when I was only thirteen. The family keep this secret and all agreed never to tell or release the information. Three weeks ago one of my relatives stopped in to see me. He told me what is father had told him and he was able to provide the me the name of my bio father and the potential location.
He told a story about this guy willing to do the right thing and take the responsibly but my bio mom rejected the offer and the family made a decision also …. the relationship and communication ended.
I have given this much thought and come to a peaceful understanding and not sure I even want to pursue this but if he is still alive …I will make this decision (with my family) of what to do. Please note: I want nothing nor do I need anything from this man family and I expect nothing. I’m even Ok with the idea of being rejected and my worse fear is that I many hurt his family and I don’t want to do that.
This is not a joke so please serious individual if you want to help contact Belly …PM
If you have comments on this threat or feeling about this please comment.
My response:
It's okay with me man, but be prepared for the asshole responses... because you know you'll get them. Report anything you don't like on that thread and I'll get rid of it.
To: Trueblue23
I don't know if this is something Chatter is willing to post .. I will send it to you first .
Belly need help in Barnsville or Byerville
If you are a long time resident and still live in those two areas please PM Belly.
Capsule of the situation: I was give up at birth to my biological birth mom sister. I was born on the kitchen floor of a old farm house and when the country doctor came to help asking who is this giving birth the family decided to switch names. My bio mom was young and unmarried. Some of you many know but I grew-up poor and was moved from family member to family member over my childhood. Over the past 10 years many of the older family member my grandma (Matriarch of the Family), mom and aunts that know of this are now gone but they have left behind information. Some in the form of letters, Bible, photos and even some attempt to represent a family tree. I have known about the birth switch after I got out of the Army and started to make my own family. My mom first approached me after the birth of my first daughter and gave me a letter from my bio mom (her younger sister). This was a family secret and one of the other reasons was because she die early when I was only thirteen. The family keep this secret and all agreed never to tell or release the information. Three weeks ago one of my relatives stopped in to see me. He told me what is father had told him and he was able to provide the me the name of my bio father and the potential location.
He told a story about this guy willing to do the right thing and take the responsibly but my bio mom rejected the offer and the family made a decision also …. the relationship and communication ended.
I have given this much thought and come to a peaceful understanding and not sure I even want to pursue this but if he is still alive …I will make this decision (with my family) of what to do. Please note: I want nothing nor do I need anything from this man family and I expect nothing. I’m even Ok with the idea of being rejected and my worse fear is that I many hurt his family and I don’t want to do that.
This is not a joke so please serious individual if you want to help contact Belly …PM
If you have comments on this threat or feeling about this please comment.
My response:
It's okay with me man, but be prepared for the asshole responses... because you know you'll get them. Report anything you don't like on that thread and I'll get rid of it.
LJ
Posts: 16,351
Apr 25, 2010 5:08pm
When he posts it just say that any bad fellowship will be considered a personal attack and that those posts will be removed.
Trueblue23
Posts: 7,463
Apr 25, 2010 5:11pm
Good call bro.LJ wrote: When he posts it just say that any bad fellowship will be considered a personal attack and that those posts will be removed.
Mainly for dicks like Society.
LJ
Posts: 16,351
Apr 25, 2010 5:12pm
as crazy of shit that belly posts, I honestly think IRL he is actually a really good dude.
Fab1b
Posts: 12,949
Apr 26, 2010 12:22pm
Wow I can't say that doesn't yank at the old ticker there. Don't always agree with Belly but I certainly hope he gets what he wants from that!!
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fan_from_texas
Posts: 2,693
Apr 26, 2010 9:50pm
That's the impression I get, too. We've exchanged PM's over the years and he seems like a solid guy when he's not trying to stir the pot.LJ wrote: as crazy of shit that belly posts, I honestly think IRL he is actually a really good dude.
Fab1b
Posts: 12,949
Apr 28, 2010 9:17pm
He posted it this evening