Here is an article about it :
http://www.mercurynews.com/breaking-news/ci_14832674

i saw this on sportscenter last night. basically this coach was sexually abusing the kids on the team for 30 years.

I swam competitively at age 9, and not at the end of a whip from my parents. I used to pretend I was in the olympics. It doesn't always go the way of overbearing parents, though sadly I am sure you are right much of the time.