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thavoice
Posts: 14,376
Apr 7, 2010 11:04am
.....is pretty damned easy, convenient when you ask them after coming out of "going under" for a surgery.
Does it make one a bad person by using this window of opportunity to get some nonobstructive answers?
Does it make one a bad person by using this window of opportunity to get some nonobstructive answers?
THE4RINGZ
Posts: 16,816
Apr 7, 2010 11:08am
It doesn't make you a bad person, it makes you one who take the best of what opportunities are presented to you.
However, there is a reason anything said in that condition would not be allowed as credible evidence in a court of law, they weren't in control of thier senses, so take what they might say as just that.
However, there is a reason anything said in that condition would not be allowed as credible evidence in a court of law, they weren't in control of thier senses, so take what they might say as just that.
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Con_Alma
Posts: 12,198
Apr 7, 2010 11:12am
Are they of sound mind? Are you sure?
It might be important to know.
It might be important to know.
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thavoice
Posts: 14,376
Apr 7, 2010 11:23am
Ha. No, no information would be used in a court of law....I meant mostly about.....well.....how the person feels and thinks and stuff.
Ive heard that to get a person to truly speak their mind...get em drunk...or after coming outta surgery as they dont have that filter and speak what is R E A L L Y on their mind!
Ive heard that to get a person to truly speak their mind...get em drunk...or after coming outta surgery as they dont have that filter and speak what is R E A L L Y on their mind!
THE4RINGZ
Posts: 16,816
Apr 7, 2010 11:25am
You might get the truth with them in that state, but you might just be stirrng up a hornet's nest you really don't want to deal with.
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thavoice
Posts: 14,376
Apr 7, 2010 11:29am
^^^yeah...ive noticed.
but it is very good info to have and now I have a point of reference moving forward.
but it is very good info to have and now I have a point of reference moving forward.
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enigmaax
Posts: 4,511
Apr 7, 2010 11:31am
The only thing is that just because they are speaking what is on their mind doesn't mean it is the truth. I've had moments of being under the influence - of anything from cold medicine to whatever they used to knock me out for surgery - in which I talked about a lot of crazy shit. Apparently I was having weird dreams, visions, thoughts, whatever. Just because I said what was on my mind didn't mean my brain was processing reality or truths.thavoice wrote: Ive heard that to get a person to truly speak their mind...get em drunk...or after coming outta surgery as they dont have that filter and speak what is R E A L L Y on their mind!
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thavoice
Posts: 14,376
Apr 7, 2010 11:33am
^^Probably true. But I know when Im under a certain state there are things i will say that normally I would hold back and not say certain things....
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enigmaax
Posts: 4,511
Apr 7, 2010 11:39am
Yeah maybe for you. I don't know, though, if I'd classify things like that as "truth", at least in my case. For example, I've said things like, "Yes, I do find you attractive" and "Sure I'd be interested in you even if I hadn't drank 17 beers" and "I'll give you a call tomorrow". I mean, I may have meant them at the time, but after sober consideration those statements couldn't have been farther from the truth.thavoice wrote: ^^Probably true. But I know when Im under a certain state there are things i will say that normally I would hold back and not say certain things....
THE4RINGZ
Posts: 16,816
Apr 7, 2010 11:41am
There's no shame in putting on the beer goggles from time to time.
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thavoice
Posts: 14,376
Apr 7, 2010 11:43am
ha. well..yeah...ive been there...dont that too!enigmaax wrote:Yeah maybe for you. I don't know, though, if I'd classify things like that as "truth", at least in my case. For example, I've said things like, "Yes, I do find you attractive" and "Sure I'd be interested in you even if I hadn't drank 17 beers" and "I'll give you a call tomorrow". I mean, I may have meant them at the time, but after sober consideration those statements couldn't have been farther from the truth.thavoice wrote: ^^Probably true. But I know when Im under a certain state there are things i will say that normally I would hold back and not say certain things....
but what if the info ya get from this tactic re inforces what you believed already
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enigmaax
Posts: 4,511
Apr 7, 2010 11:46am
Okay, so if you thought your chic was banging someone else and you questioned her while she was hopped up and she said she is banging someone else, it is probably true. But you probably didn't need to go that far, it you thought it to begin with, it was probably true.
Since you're talking about it, you might as well spill the whole story. Sure would make it easier to form an opinion and to offer worthless advice.
Since you're talking about it, you might as well spill the whole story. Sure would make it easier to form an opinion and to offer worthless advice.
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thavoice
Posts: 14,376
Apr 7, 2010 11:56am
No no, nothing like that. Just general stuff....no need to go into it on a message board. Ya kno...do ya think ya see a future...stuff like that.
has been informative tho.
as for worthless advice...I thought I cornered that market years ago.
has been informative tho.
as for worthless advice...I thought I cornered that market years ago.
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enigmaax
Posts: 4,511
Apr 7, 2010 12:10pm
So you're telling me that you had this opportunity and the best you could come up with was, "do you think you see a future with me"?
You didn't try to pry any kind of past coverups or secret fantasies out? If your going to be unethical, you might as well make it worth your time. I mean, didn't you already have a pretty good idea as to whether or not there could be a future?
You didn't try to pry any kind of past coverups or secret fantasies out? If your going to be unethical, you might as well make it worth your time. I mean, didn't you already have a pretty good idea as to whether or not there could be a future?
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thavoice
Posts: 14,376
Apr 7, 2010 12:15pm
I did also get her PIN code for her ATM.
It was bosco.
It was bosco.
se-alum
Posts: 13,948
Apr 7, 2010 12:22pm
"The Drunk Mind Speaks The Sober Truth"thavoice wrote: Ha. No, no information would be used in a court of law....I meant mostly about.....well.....how the person feels and thinks and stuff.
Ive heard that to get a person to truly speak their mind...get em drunk...or after coming outta surgery as they dont have that filter and speak what is R E A L L Y on their mind!
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enigmaax
Posts: 4,511
Apr 7, 2010 12:24pm
So you are saying I really do like ugly chics and want to have telephone conversations with them?se-alum wrote: "The Drunk Mind Speaks The Sober Truth"
karen lotz
Posts: 22,284
Apr 7, 2010 3:06pm
se-alum
Posts: 13,948
Apr 7, 2010 3:15pm
I didn't say it makes sober decisions!!enigmaax wrote:So you are saying I really do like ugly chics and want to have telephone conversations with them?se-alum wrote: "The Drunk Mind Speaks The Sober Truth"
GoChiefs
Posts: 16,754
Apr 7, 2010 4:08pm
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Heretic
Posts: 18,820
Apr 7, 2010 4:10pm
I'd say getting straight answers from someone while they're coming out of surgery is definitely a better way to do so than torture. Maybe less rewarding, but a lot more humane.
THE4RINGZ
Posts: 16,816
Apr 7, 2010 4:11pm
Questions I would have asked:
(and recorded the answers for further evidence)
Can we have a threesome with your hottest friend?
Is is OK if I go to Vegas for a "golf trip" next month?
Have you ever been with another woman?
Would you ever sleep with one of my friends?
Who do you really think about when we are having sex?
(and recorded the answers for further evidence)
Can we have a threesome with your hottest friend?
Is is OK if I go to Vegas for a "golf trip" next month?
Have you ever been with another woman?
Would you ever sleep with one of my friends?
Who do you really think about when we are having sex?
CenterBHSFan
Posts: 6,115
Apr 8, 2010 11:30am
Chiefs,
I've always loved that video.
:55 = awesome!!!!
I've always loved that video.
:55 = awesome!!!!