Upper90 wrote:
Maybe you shouldn't call them anything at all?
I get by just fine ignoring them.
And Ernest, I'm not judging, merely asking....I mean, I'm all for respecting my Grandmother, but if she had an ignorant view, IMO, I would never cater to it.
I mean, I'm making that statement based off of the fact that you said you are attracted to people of a different race. If you weren't not an issue, obviously.
I don't agree with the way my grandparents feel. I have had 3 close couple-friends marry who were of different color. Grandparents would always say they disagree with that. I would always say "why," but that is their own opinion, and I respect and love my grandparents. If my grandparents had passed away, and I met and fell in love with someone one, then OK, I'd consider it.
Since they are alive (however I'm already married) I have never even considered seeking someone b/c it's not worth it to me.