A touching moment to share with all the wrestling community.

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Feb 15, 2011 10:29 PM
This past weekend I officiated the 1A - 1 Regional (same as Ohio Districts) at Bolles HS in Jacksonville, Fl. I have cried on the mat before, as a competitor but never as an official until this past Saturday. Set the stage; I am the assistant official during this match. Consi semifinal, winner goes to state, loser home. A very tight match ends 4-3, however had thereof been one more second a reversal would have been gained but time expired. The official takes the wrestlers to the center of the mat for the handshake and arm raising. That is when it happened.

As the two wrestlers are removing their ankle bands the defeated wrestler starts to say something to the official. I move in thinking of course it is going to be something bad, but what happened next still chokes me up. This young man who was just defeated, tears streaming down his face says to the official and myself "Mr Official, please, I've worked too hard and spent too much time in the hospital receiving chemo to lose this match"! I am stunned, without thinking I put my arm around this young man and put my head right to his ear and said "Son, you have nothing to be ashamed of as you wrestled your butt off. Unfortunately someone has to lose. However you are winning the bigger battle, life. Walk off this mat with your head held high"! Tears are now in my eyes! His coach thanks myself and the official and we quickly move on to the next match as both the mat official and I are feeling that!

After the tournament I had a chance to sit down with the young man and his father. What a pleasure it was. This young man is an inspiration. His name is Travis Hinsey from Wakulla HS in Florida.
Feb 15, 2011 10:29pm
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Feb 15, 2011 10:35 PM
Thank you for that very touching story! Nuff said.
Feb 15, 2011 10:35pm
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Gman

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Feb 15, 2011 10:38 PM
Wow sounds like he has already won the biggest match of his life! Thanks for sharing. Travis keep fighting!
Feb 15, 2011 10:38pm
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keato5

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Feb 15, 2011 10:46 PM
Being a cancer survivor myself, I love hearing about kids winning the big battle! Keep fighting Travis!
Feb 15, 2011 10:46pm
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CoachT

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Feb 15, 2011 10:54 PM
Having a child who battled cancer that story hits close to home...but how inspiring. Best of luck to that young man.
Feb 15, 2011 10:54pm
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Feb 15, 2011 11:30 PM
It is ironic how sometimes our perspective changes almost instantly when we discover just one small piece of information.

Thank you to this student athlete for providing the rest of us an example how to overcome life's adversities.
Feb 15, 2011 11:30pm
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Feb 16, 2011 8:47 AM
THE4RINGZ;680251 wrote:It is ironic how sometimes our perspective changes almost instantly when we discover just one small piece of information.

Thank you to this student athlete for providing the rest of us an example how to overcome life's adversities.
Just this. Wow.
Feb 16, 2011 8:47am
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Feb 16, 2011 10:43 AM
Where is that D@*# "LIKE" button!
Feb 16, 2011 10:43am
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Feb 16, 2011 5:18 PM
Thanks for sharing
Feb 16, 2011 5:18pm
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Brutus

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Feb 17, 2011 1:43 PM
Wow. Brings you a reality check. Best of luck to you travis. You are allready a champion
Feb 17, 2011 1:43pm
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Feb 17, 2011 1:49 PM
Having lost someone and other loved ones battle cancer, this hits close to home. A true inspiration and puts what is really important, LIFE, into perspective.
Feb 17, 2011 1:49pm
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Feb 19, 2011 8:35 AM
Thanks for sharing this story! Travis will surely continue to be an inspiration off the mat as he's already dealt with more emotions than most kids will the rest of their lives. Congratulations Travis and keep fighting! Hey fab was he a senior?
Feb 19, 2011 8:35am
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Feb 23, 2011 5:45 AM
Fab1b;680065 wrote:This past weekend I officiated the 1A - 1 Regional (same as Ohio Districts) at Bolles HS in Jacksonville, Fl. I have cried on the mat before, as a competitor but never as an official until this past Saturday. Set the stage; I am the assistant official during this match. Consi semifinal, winner goes to state, loser home. A very tight match ends 4-3, however had thereof been one more second a reversal would have been gained but time expired. The official takes the wrestlers to the center of the mat for the handshake and arm raising. That is when it happened.

As the two wrestlers are removing their ankle bands the defeated wrestler starts to say something to the official. I move in thinking of course it is going to be something bad, but what happened next still chokes me up. This young man who was just defeated, tears streaming down his face says to the official and myself "Mr Official, please, I've worked too hard and spent too much time in the hospital receiving chemo to lose this match"! I am stunned, without thinking I put my arm around this young man and put my head right to his ear and said "Son, you have nothing to be ashamed of as you wrestled your butt off. Unfortunately someone has to lose. However you are winning the bigger battle, life. Walk off this mat with your head held high"! Tears are now in my eyes! His coach thanks myself and the official and we quickly move on to the next match as both the mat official and I are feeling that!

After the tournament I had a chance to sit down with the young man and his father. What a pleasure it was. This young man is an inspiration. His name is Travis Hinsey from Wakulla HS in Florida.

Please pass this on to Travis Hinsey Fab1b....Believe it or not, you're already a champion to the Buckeye state. Good luck to you Travis.....kick butt and take names.
Feb 23, 2011 5:45am
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Fab1b

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Feb 23, 2011 11:47 AM
deter1;683646 wrote:Thanks for sharing this story! Travis will surely continue to be an inspiration off the mat as he's already dealt with more emotions than most kids will the rest of their lives. Congratulations Travis and keep fighting! Hey fab was he a senior?

He is a Jr.
Feb 23, 2011 11:47am
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Feb 23, 2011 4:20 PM
Awesome story
Feb 23, 2011 4:20pm
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Fab1b

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Feb 15, 2012 6:19 PM
Wanted to bring this back as this young man just finished 2nd in his region (same one I again officiated) to advance to this weekend's state championship tournament. I had a chance to speak with him a few times this year and was able to speak with him this weekend after he won his semifinal. We shared last year's story as well. Just a great story all round here!
Feb 15, 2012 6:19pm
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Feb 15, 2012 8:59 PM
Best of luck to him! I hope he tears it up!
Feb 15, 2012 8:59pm
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Con_Alma

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Feb 15, 2012 9:06 PM
The sport never stops teaching us all by revealing those truly courageous people inthe world.
Feb 15, 2012 9:06pm
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yajj1965

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Feb 15, 2012 9:43 PM
such a great thread, a reread throughout the season as attitudes require adjustment and perspectives need reminded!
please keep us posted on Travis state run!
Feb 15, 2012 9:43pm
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Fab1b

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Feb 17, 2012 12:20 PM
Travis lost his first match 11-6 hoping he can wrestle his way back to the podium
Feb 17, 2012 12:20pm
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Feb 17, 2012 1:25 PM
Beautiful story best of luck to Travis.
Feb 17, 2012 1:25pm
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Fab1b

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Feb 17, 2012 7:29 PM
Won his second match by fall
Feb 17, 2012 7:29pm
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Fab1b

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Feb 17, 2012 9:24 PM
Won 3rd match in consi qtr
Feb 17, 2012 9:24pm
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Fab1b

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Feb 18, 2012 12:24 PM
Lost his consi qtr. Good luck to this fine young man the rest of his journey!
Feb 18, 2012 12:24pm
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Feb 18, 2012 8:06 PM
Very great story. Thanks for sharing. Puts in perspective the bigger picture.
Feb 18, 2012 8:06pm