posted by Fab4Runner
How did you decide it was time to have a baby?
We had been together for 4ish years as well, but I am 31 and my wife will be 30 in February. After getting off birth control it took us about a year to get pregnant. Funny about your post, my wife took a test right before a week in Key West (which was positive), needless to say her vacation was not as fun as mine.
The risk for a pregnancy at 35 or older (for a woman) would make me nervous, but I have a few neighbors who have done it at 35 with no problems. We figured it was ready when we both had solid incomes and little debt besides the normal, and we really aren't into the going out until super late scene anyway, so it isn't as much to "give up".